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I never got the "your cat would eat you if you died" hangup. its not like im using the meat for anything anymore

Transphobia is so fascinating sometimes because I just got an example of why “everyone is transmisogyny affected” is a bullshit statement on my bus ride home.

A man starts complaining about how “the mobility aids are taking up too much room in the aisle” about me and two older folks (in their 80s+), a man with a cane and a woman with a seat-type walker, in the disability seats. He starts trying to get the attention of the woman with a walker by calling her “man” and “sir”, even going so far as to get up and shake her walker to get her attention, to try to tell her to fold it up.

Multiple folks instantly jump to her defense about how “she’s a lady, that’s obviously a woman” and I tell him to stop complaining/touching mobility aids of people in fucking disability seats.

He swaps to me and spends the rest of the ride apologizing for misgendering the woman to the people around him (“I respect women all the time!!”), swapping between threatening to attack me or talking about how I need to “keep that shit (dressing as a woman) at home”. Nobody reacts beyond giving him disapproving side-eye and telling him to “shut up, you’re disturbing everyone” with no reprimand of his transphobia this time.

This is the difference between transmisogyny wrongfully and temporarily levied at TME people and transmisogyny directed at trans women. TME folks get protection whereas for TMA folks the average extent of care is the annoyance/inconvenience to other TME folks.

Stop pretending shit is the same.

gaytanic-panic

animentality

jonbutter

capacity

Okay well

dogpuppy

hotvampireadjacent

Can you take my white ass to target

homunculus-argument

Relationship statuses and how much I doubt it if you add "happily" in front of it:

Happily single: I have no reason to question that, nobody else gets to decide how you feel, and I'm happy for you.

Happily dating: Kind of weird that you'd feel the need to clarify. You know you don't have to date someone who doesn't make you happy, right?

Happily engaged: Same as previous, but more so. You know you should not be getting married to someone who doesn't make you happy, right? I'm not leaving before I know that you know.

Happily married: Could go either way tbh, but most likely you are. If someone's not actually happy with their marriage, it shows, no matter what they say.

Happily divorced: Yeah this one I have no reason to doubt. Nobody says they're happy about being divorced unless they really are happy about it.

Happily widowed: I wouldn't doubt that you are but girl did you kill him.

maidthings

I guess the idea of a companion animal that would eat your flesh is supposed to be upsetting but critically she doesn't do that while I'm alive. which I'd argue is the most important factor here.

sapphling

searching for our missing friend at this haunted carnival is getting boring as fuuck. does anybody narratively disposable want to come have morally condemnable sex in the clown room with me

segamascott

ozempicofficial

balaclava-trismegistus

I constantly manipulate everyone around me by calculating what would be the nicest thing to do in any given situation, making a point of doing it when it matters the most. This is supported by subtly, casually tailoring what I talk about to the person I'm speaking to, and saying what I think they may find funny or interesting. the really sick thing is I look just like a normal person and there's no way you can tell me apart from anyone. If I weren't such a monster I would be afraid knowing people like this are out there, but I know I'm on top and have nothing to fear.