Someday I’ll Be So Damn Much More

21. FL.

[jillianleedy]

[usrimajor-deactivated20240130]

love all my traumatized ladies that ruined their lives!!! rebirth from the ashes of our reputations!!!! 

[pierppasolini]

Call Me by Your Name (2017) // dir. Luca Guadagnino

Suspiria (2018) // dir. Luca Guadagnino

[lucassvazquez]

The fans shouting "f*ck trump" in the background live on fox news. Happy Sunday yall

[redgifs-deactivated20211128]

Booksmart (2019)

[michaun]

[ghostsandgoblins]

Tina Fey & Amy Poehler give advice to women

[elizabeth-beauchamp-deactivated]

WHAT A MOOD, Y’ALL. 

[theperksofneurodivergency]

“Emotional abuse works like this: You are screamed at, and then, not knowing any better, you stand up for yourself. You think this is a way of being strong. You think this is a defense tactic.But this only provokes more screaming. Going silent provokes more screaming too, but usually it keeps the threats to the minimum. It keeps it just at screaming and not: a shove down the stairs, or order to pack your stuff and get out. So you learn how to go silent. How to play dead. How to cry without making a noise. How to swallow noise. How to wipe your cheeks, get out of the car, and go about your day. You learn. And when the screaming has stopped, when the two of you are in the car or out to dinner and they’re all smiles, all asking for favors, all questions, you are still hurt and annoyed and want to ask them, how? How can you speak to me like that? How can you pretend you did not say those things? How can you have forgotten? But you’ve learned. So you listen to, “Can I borrow your key”s and “how was your day”s and you play dead. You swallow the noise. And sometimes it doesn’t matter who is speaking to you, it doesn’t matter if they’re a friend, it doesn’t matter if their criticism is constructive, it doesn’t matter. You’ve learned. Any sort of speaking, any raising of the voice, any insult and you play dead.”

— Good Girl, Lora Mathis (via lora-mathis)

[cleopatronising]

[bpdzoldyck-deactivated20181014]

As someone who has been living with severe suicidal ideation my entire life I wanna tell you all something, you don’t have to stay alive for yourself. People will say it’s a bad idea to live for external things because they’re temporary, and it’s true living for yourself is ideal but if you’re not to that point yet that’s ok too. 

I’ve lived for my dog for the past 4 years, before that I lived for my snakes, before that I lived for my cat. You can live for whatever needs you and whatever matters to you. Live for your best friend, live for your plants, live for your pets, live for your animal crossing town. Live for whatever keeps you alive and the day will come when you can live for yourself.

[stillstreetjoshua]

This is something everyone should see. Thank you for sharing this.

[robotsandfrippary]

Transformers kept me alive. When the 2007 movie was announced I was going through an incredibly hard time emotionally. I saw the preview and every time I thought about killing myself I thought, “but then I won’t get to see this thing I’ve always wanted to see, good or not.” And it got me through.

I’m in a place where I live for myself now, but don’t toss away a life preserver just because other people think you should be able to swim on your own.

[senatorwiggles-deactivated20241]

don’t toss away a life preserver just because other people think you should be able to swim on your own

[davids-harbour]

The Holy Quadrinity

[navyasarchive-deactivated201905]

So Johnny Depp is suing Amber heard for $50 million on claims of defamation, alleging that he never actually abused her and that she made everything up to generate attention for herself. 

If that doesn’t reveal the extent of his biphobia (which fueled his abuse of Amber), I don’t know what does. Here we have a straight man playing into the age old stereotype that bisexual women have had to deal with for decades: that we are bisexual for the sake of attention. And at the rate people who aren’t bi women are going with how biphobic they’re being this year, it’s obvious that he’s capitalizing on hatred for bi women and bi women’s invisibility/social alienation to substantiate his lies. 

Keep in mind that Amber donated all the money from her settlement to domestic violence charities, and has been speaking about the abuse since then. She’s faced severe biphobic media backlash for the past three years. Clearly she hasn’t made up the allegations just for the sake of getting money or positive attention. 

Bisexual women are uniquely vulnerable to lifespan domestic violence and sexual violence victimization, and most of their abusers are men. Men get away with abusing women all the time, but this is especially true for bisexual women. The fact that it’s happening to a white, cis, wealthy celebrity is proof that it can happen to any bi woman at any time. 

When people buy into stereotypes that bi women are faking their sexuality for attention, that bi womanhood is a temporary or unstable or underdeveloped identity, that bi women’s experiences are false, that bi women lie about things they go through, that bi women have “straight-passing privilege”, that bi women experience Homophobia Lite, that bi women are deceptive and adulterous, and that bi women are selfish and needy, they are making it ten times easier for men like Johnny Depp to abuse bisexual women and then get away with abusing them. They are also making it harder for bisexual women, even the wealthiest ones and white ones like Amber Heard, to get legal recourse or access rehabilitative and bi-positive support services. This goes for feminists and LGBT people who always shout down, mock, hate on, and ignore bisexual women as well, as much as it goes for men and straight women. 

[hotboyproblems]

me: theres no reason for me to be anxious right now!!!

my brain: .....debatable

[ves5el-blog]

listening to lana del rey late at night is scary I feel like my room is going to fill with fog and she’s going to walk slowly towards me and I’ll be defenseless

[abloodymess]

[gstringofsuburbia-deactivated20]

in 1994 when green day first became famous, they invited pansy division, an openly gay punk band, to open for them for the entire dookie tour knowing full well the responses would be mixed. in 2016/2017, on their revolution radio tour, green day chose only female led punk bands to open for them to help create recognition for these artists in a male dominated scene. this band has always been using their voices for the right reasons and i love them so much for that.

[larry-david-lynch]

And Against Me! Is opening for them too! A band fronted by a trans woman! Fuck yeah Green Day

[frances-still-needs-her-revenge]

If I’m not mistaken, there was a prom somewhere that was cancelled one time because a lesbian couple wanted to go, so Green Day rented a venue and had a prom for them. Not sure about accuracy, my mom told me about that

[gstringofsuburbia]

yes this is true as well!! green day helped to fund and organize this second prom when the first one was cancelled. the second prom was actually open not only to the students of the school, but also to any other lgbtq+ students as well as supporters in the state of mississippi who wanted to attend as well!!

[paxpinnae]

Billy Joe Armstrong once literally leapt into the crowd at Green Day show and drop-kicked a guy who wouldn’t leave a girl alone.

[commandtower-solring-go-deactiv]

This exemplifies how do to representation right. Being a straight ally doesn’t mean creating things for LGBT+ people. Its about giving those who are already creating a better stage. 

[stilesisbiles]

He’s not a “straight ally” he’s bisexual.

[enbyofdionysos]

He’s not a “straight ally” he’s bisexual.

[lesbianbeef]

[tastefullyoffensive]

Meet our new King.