Big Stinkus

She/Her | 30s | I exist, I'm here

[gloam-sprite-deactivated2026011]

Touch me

fucking trans women - Mira Bellwether

[mousidy]

I have all my letters in and I'm starting the process of hair removal now and then that's all the steps I need to do before my bottom surgery consult might be moved sooner!!!!! absolutely incredibly surreal!!!!!!!

[mousidy]

the debt is off the charts but it's worth it for so many reasons INCLUDING ACTUALLY BEING ABLE TO HAVE SEX

[mousidy]

remember that trans women are so fucking powerful because not only are we enduring being everyone's favorite whipping girls, a lot of us can't even have sex. next time you see a trans woman thank her for her service

[shadedwillow]

ok google how do i propose deeper friendship and intimacy to my mutuals without feeling like a pervert predator

[shadedwillow]

hey. can we DM? do you want a voice message? do you want to see a picture of my face? do you wanna call? do you wanna get off on call with me? do you wanna consider us friends? do you wanna share secrets? do you wanna hint vaguely at where we both live to gauge how far we are from each other? do you wanna meet? do you wanna hang out? do you wanna fuck? do you wanna hold hands and kiss? does this make me creepy? is this too far? do you wanna kill me. i'm really sorry

[zyrkon01]

[homunculus-argument]

"But won't children be confused by all the LGBT-"

Yesterday I saw a mother with a baby carriage, being followed by a girl of about 4-6 years old on a bicycle. The kid started ringing her bike bell like RING RING RING RING RING RING RING, and the mother turned to look behind them to see whether they were being followed by a cyclist who desperately needs to pass them for the sake of everyone's safety.

And the little girl - who just rang the goddamn bell herself 5 seconds ago - also turned to look.

Kids are confused by everything at all times. They don't know jack shit. About anything.

[jumpingjacktrash]

i remember being like 8 or 9 and being told that my dad’s ex-wife was no longer diane and we were to address her as daniel now. my reaction: “ok.”

me and my brother later had a small discussion about whether that could happen randomly (conclusion: no, he probably had to file papers or something) and whether daniel should now be referred to as dad’s ex-husband (conclusion: yes but only to see the face he’ll make) but at no point did we find it like... alarming? the world is big and weird. we were used to it.

finding out a sorta-relative could just change genders off camera, as it were, was a whole lot less head-splodey than finding out there were no squirrels in australia!

[scattered-to-the-winds]

There’s no what

[ashfae]

"Won't they be confused by all the--" So what if they are? Life is often confusing. That's part of how we learn. Part of the job of an adult is to help confused kids learn and understand things. There's no obligation to protect the kids from the confusing things. Quite the reverse.

In my experience anyone using this BS excuse isn't worried about a child's potential confusion, but their own, which they don't want to admit to having.

[indieninja92]

theres no squirrels in australia???

[marleythegoldfish]

Aussie here, I DIDN'T KNOW SQUIRRELS WERE ACTUALLY REAL FOR THE FIRST EIGHT YEARS OF MY LIFE NO JOKE I THOUGHT THEY WERE A MYTHICAL ANIMAL LIKE UNICORNS

[alostpan]

WHAT??

[delicate-viscera]

i’m so tired of kink positivity that is exclusive to subs. why is it okay to fantasize about being raped but fantasizing about being the rapist is evil? and of course any positivity about sexual dominance needs a million caveats about “as long as there’s consent” like yeah no shit girl. that is assault otherwise. we’re talking about something else. do you hear yourselves

[creatingblackcharacters]

Where's that Zack Fox tweet about how a white man murders his family and gets a happy photo, but Black men go to jail for marijuana and get a whole mugshot plastered in the media 😭 bc what the hell type picture is this.

[blackfilmmakers]

[dogpuppy]

[ceruleanheaven]

religion is so fucking funny the world is just too beautiful there must be a higher entity behind all this. lets oppress women

[mystery-incorporated-whore]

yup that tag goes on the post

[cyprozombiegirl]

new version cause tumblr staff hate trans women

[agnesmontague]

ive invented (note: dubious claim) something i call the bear diet which is mostly fruits and vegetables with fish as the main protein source and something like once a month you eat a few hyperprocessed foods of your liking because that is when you, the bear, raid a dumpster in the suburbs

[stellarskyes]

after the hyperprocessed foods, do you take tranquilizers to simulate getting captured by animal control and returned to the wild?

[agnesmontague]

i would settle for melatonin gummies but well. knock yourself out

[queer-as-city-folk]

The average mid 70s celebrity would be transvestigated to hell and back today because her face had lines on it

[queer-as-city-folk]

Like Farrah Fawcett is obviously beautiful but like, today people would go crazy and start saying her jaw was male or some shit

[queer-as-city-folk]

I miss when famous people looked real

[someoneblewafuse]

Ever since I was a little boy I knew I wanted to be a girl who is also at least 700lbs of titanium, pcb, and oil

[drunkenskunk]

[dumbdoegirl]

outfit i would wear daydrinking at a creek

[dumbdoegirl]

cuz i am?

[breadandm]

somebody posted this Calvin and Hobbes strip and i cannot overstate just how topical this fuckin thing is

[k1ntsug1-r0b0t-g1rl]

ever since i was a little boy i knew i wanted to wear cute necklaces with low cut tops and i didn't understand why that meant i deserved to be bullied and broken

[technicoloryuri]

Sorry boss I can't come in. I ate a girls ass and I got that parasite going around

[estrogenesis-vaporeongelion]

call her ass taylor farms the way i'm tossing this salad 🍑🥗🚮

[gondorrevealparty]

We need a sea mine emoji. And one of it exploding. And one of a wretched skeletal hand reaching up from the deep. Searching for an ankle to grab to drag you down below the sunlight. And one of air bubbles escaping your mouth as the water pressure squeezes in and drives the air from your lungs. And one of a mermaid but her boobs are out.