It bothers me when people baby Neil for being aspec and not seeing Andrewās advances on Neil. Like yeah, Neil was oblivious but I think most of the readers were too until it was revealed. And people being like āoh heās so babyā and infantilizing him isnāt cool.
Because if youāre like this with an aspec character, how do you treat aspec people in real life?
You are SO RIGHT!!!
Sometimes I feel that the fandom doesn't care about Neil being aspec, and just wants to portray him as a clueless gay man
And I think that's some of the reasons the people over sexualize him and treats him like Andrew trophy and needy boyfriend

















