Elio’s parents in “Call Me By Your Name”
I am someone who really loves the book and movie “Call Me By Your Name.” I know many people share my love for that beautiful story, but I know many people do not. Whether or not you enjoyed reading/watching the relationship between Elio and Oliver unfold, I think it is safe to say that everyone loved Elio’s mother and father.
I think about them quite often. Parents of only children, in my opinion, tend to be more protective and more of the “helicopter” type, but Elio’s never seemed that way. You could easily see how much they loved Elio, but also that they realized he needed space, he needed to do his own things. Their love never appeared overpowering or overbearing. It was comforting.
I also think about how accepting they were. By the end of the book, and by the end of the movie, it’s safe to say that they understood that there was a connection between Elio and Oliver, and not only that, but they seemed to be accepting of it. Then there was the father’s monologue and the audience knew they were accepting, understanding even.
Speaking of the father’s monologue, I often think of that quite regularly too. It was so comforting to watch and read, but highly emotional as well. I tear up when I think of it because I think it’s something many people want to hear from their parents, while only few will ever actually hear it. Even fewer will hear it as eloquently said as by Elio’s father.
I hope after reading or watching “Call Me By Your Name,” audiences took example from Elio’s parents to in turn become better people.
…and I believe it is better to speak.
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