He/him, 19. You can call me Baron or Colt if you're feeling it.
Trans gay man, INTJ, Builderman irl (fictionkin, double-friendly), coyote therian. Also AuDHD, I may struggle with social interactions. My apologies in advance.
18+ please! Blog will likely contain suggestive and/or nsfw content at some point. Also, I'm a filthy commie, so I occasionally reblog political stuff. If you don't want to see that stuff from me, block the #politicz tag. No DNI but I block freely. More info under the cut!
Hyperfixation fandoms: Forsaken and Team Fortress 2.
Other fandoms: Limbus Company, Pokémon, Pressure/DOORS/Grace/ETT, Bad Things, Roblox Admins, Dandy's World, Blocktales, Die of Death. There are probably others I forgot to list
When someone gives the advice of “don’t be afraid to disappoint your parents” they don’t just mean taking music theory in college or starting a YouTube channel.
It also means wearing things they might not approve of. Using accommodations that they might not think you need. Not falling for their guilt trips. Eating when you’re hungry, not when it suits them and their idea of your weight or health. Making your own friends instead of seeking the stamp of approval from them.
Of course, some parents are stricter than others, and some use abuse to keep you from expressing yourself. But do what you can, even if it seems small.
Otherwise, when your parents are no longer in the picture, you’ll try to find it somewhere else to get validation. A strict boss, an abusive partner, a selfish friend.
Going against your parent’s wishes is developmentally healthy. Not doing so stunts your independence and self-regulation. You shouldn’t be living to constantly please others, even the people who love you.
you're disabled? oh youre so brave, i could never imagine living like that! youre so strong for continuing to exist while disabled. it could never be me. i would seriously hate my life if i was in your position. yeah i straight up wouldn't want to be alive if that were me. have you thought about how i feel about your condition? how i wouldn't wanna be alive if i were in your shoes? im just saying. you're so brave.
