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#meme #trans guy #when will my love return from the war

wxnkstain-deactivated20150915

it’s not that i’m not a “morning person” i love mornings

i’m just not a “waking up person”

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bless this post

hustleinatrap

damn

official-that-bowler-hat-guy

O shit

deadmugen

got an interview tomorrow

deadmugen

I just got hired, reblog this to manifest the job u want into reality

offensivememes4u

Get you a cat who can do both

earthboundricochet

duality of cat

pics-that-make-you-go-hmm

Hey, so, I have a YouTube channel that doesn't get used very often. I was going to upload ASMR videos once a week, but only ended up doing two videos altogether. However, as you all probably know, I'm trans. I'm thinking of documenting my transition on YouTube because so far watching other trans guys on YouTube has helped. I want to be able to help people like me in any way that I can and now I'm really close to being able to talk to specialists. If any of you have any questions or video ideas then feel free to contact me, I'm going to be making my first trans related video soon.

victoriaringsinyourears

If you opened your PayPal account before you were 18, and there’s ANY evidence of this, SHUT DOWN YOUR ACCOUNT AND USE YOUR REAL INFORMATION FOR A NEW ONE IF YOU NEED TO.

NO JOKE

PAYPAL IS SHUTTING DOWN ACCOUNTS THAT WERE OPENED BEFORE YOU WERE 18.

Sharing this here because I know this will affect a LOT of artists here.

PLEASE share this, this is super urgent and I don’t want any of you losing your funds.

victoriaringsinyourears

Seriously, this is not a joke or scam. Check the comments of that Medium article, or the Reddit comments.

Apparently PayPal will try to re-ban you if you use the same cards or whatnot, so if you need an alternative, try Google Wallet. (Because Google won’t let a damn industry go untouched.)

If you see your work as more as a business, try Stripe.

victoriaringsinyourears

LAST REBLOG.

BECAUSE IT’S FUCKING IMPORTANT.

marciaillust

Okay so this case needs a little bit more of explanation because there’s no need to panic

Are you calm now? Yes? Good.

Now listen:

The first thing that you need to realise is that you not being 18 is a serious legal issue not only for PayPal, but for ANY OTHER FIRM PROVIDING THIS KIND OF SERVICE. This includes the “alternatives” like Google Wallet and others. It is clearly stated in their TOS (which you are supposed to get familiar with before using their service). Therefore, if you made an account before being 18 then you, and let me repeat that, YOU are in the wrong here, not them. “But nobody reads these” my dude this is LAW, REAL CORPORATIONS and REAL MONEY we’re talking about here. It’s more than obvious that they won’t fuck around when it comes to the legal measures. Should any outside entity learn about your little lie it can result in something more serious that this, drag both PayPal and you down. You gotta realise that in real life rules exist for a reason.

Now to the money part: To tone down the stress I’m gonna say it right now that your money is safe.

This situation happened to me as I made an account when I was 17, so believe me when I tell you I know first hand what I am talking about. After a year of using it (so when I was already 18) PayPal asked me to see my ID to verify some info. After the verification it turned out I made the account when I was underage so they had to “shut it down” WHICH IS A VERY POOR WAY TO DESCRIBE IT.

The accounts are not being “shut down” and your money doesn’t “disappear” or whatever - PayPal blocks the option to send or withdraw money so your account is simply out of use. As we learned before, you broke their rules so they HAVE TO do something about it.

If you had read that oh so heart gripping story from one of OP’s links you would see this screenshot attached to it, which is PayPal informing them about their situation:

Oh? But wait!! Could it be???? That half of the email was cut off?????

In the second part of the email PayPal politely informs you that the problem can be easily solved by making a new account. Are you seeing that last sentence in the screenshot? “To continue using our service please open a new PayPal account”? Yeah, that.

Then, the email informs you that you will need to send PayPal a message from the new account that you would like your money transferred to the new account. Basically, you message them “hi this is my new account, my old one was XYZ, could you please transfer my money to this account?” and that’s it.

The money will be on your new account within 5 days MAX.

In conclusion: No money lost, PayPal solved their legal issue and you have a new, fresh, bombing legal account. No one goes to jail, everyone is happy. No fees, no nothing. As if you had never crossed any lines or broken the law.

TL;DR YOUR MONEY IS SAFE There’s a reason why PayPal is one of the most reliable services out there that so many other companies decide to trust. When you’re buying something online and you have the PayPal option accessible, why do you think it’s there? Because that’s just how it is? No. At one point the companies had to struck a deal, that’s why you can pay safely. And let me tell you, no company will skip reading the rules nor will they decide to trust a shady firm. Companies are real deals that operate under millions of regulations and are directly exposed to law (just like you tbh) and that’s why they’re strict about their rules. And you should be too.

Ps. If currently you are under 18 with PayPal account, don’t stress it ok? They won’t try to verify you until you start dealing tons of money or after a certain time period. But by then you will be 18, hopefully. So, chillex my dude it’s okay.

pinkprincessrei-deactivated2020

REBLOG IF SPHINX CATS NEED AND DESERVE JUST AS MUCH LOVE AND CUDDLES AS EVERY OTHER CAT

official-that-bowler-hat-guy

I want to love it. I really do. But the skin freaks me out, but I feel bad about that because I know they're very nice and affectionate cats, but the skin.

queen-with-goals

I wish the person who I reblogged this from happiness, good eyebrows, and clear skin.

princedorkface

i got my eyebrow pierced then got some thai food

official-that-bowler-hat-guy

^adorable and cool looking human

cloacacarnage

i know its the mets, but this is the coolest shit i’ve ever seen a human being do

futureblackwakandan-deactivated

Wtf????

theryanproject

Smoove with it too

damned-if-we-knew

I’m the guy in the dugout who panics and runs straight toward where the bat would’ve landed 😂

queeranarchism

Honestly trans people have tried to have so many open nuanced conversations about how attraction works, how cissexism works, and how ‘lesbian’ has always meant ‘attraction to women’ and reducing it to ‘attracted to vaginas’ reduces women to walking vaginas which is both cissexist and totally dehumanizing to all women.

And in every one of these conversations they have stressed that no one wants you to have sex in any way you are not comfortale with at any time and if you are a transphobe who sees trans women as not really women the best thing you can do is never date a trans woman because no trans woman wants to have to deal with your shit. We’ve said this every time.

Yet every single time TERFs have claimed that ‘trans activists want to force lesbians to like penis’, which is an absurd lie that has no foundation is reality at all.

So no matter how often we tell TERFs that actually not a single trans women wants to sleep with them, they keep repeating this lie. Why?

There can only be two reasons for this:

TERFs lie on purpose because lies and scare mongering are the only ways they can justify violently excluding a vulnerable group of women from feminist communities.

TERFs are incapable of seeing a conversation as anything other than a violent effort to force their opinion onto other people.

I’m leaning mostly towards reason 1, but reason 2 seems credible too.