... living a lie @open-mindead - Tumblr Blog

sirfrogsworth

meghanmclovin

You know what’s really hot? Not having to guess someone’s feelings or intentions

adeadlydame

“Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.” -Oscar Wilde

sir-to-a-princess-deactivated20

So you think you can Dom?

You walk through a room with a commanding presence, confident in your superiority, you can leave a perfect handprint on a sub’s ass, and you’ve got a killer suit with great cuff links.

Tell me about your ethics.

Tell me how you calm a sub who is in the midst of a panic attack at work.

Regale me with a passed experience where you made the choice to be selfless for the care of another.

Better yet, tell me about a time you failed and how you grew from it to never make the mistake again.

Being a Dom isn’t just having confidence, a sharp look, and a firm hand. You are never as Dominant as when you are caring for your submissive. The tough talk and bluster will only get you far enough to give a sub an experience she will walk away from knowing what she doesn’t want. You want to be a Dom? Be a gentleman first and foremost. Shed the ego, it has no place here. This is a call to the gentleman Dom’s, the Daddy Dom’s, the Masters, the real Dominants. Stand up and let’s show the unowned, the newly awakened, and those submissives hurting and ready to give up that they have hope. That there is still a chivalrous and steadfast order of worthy Dominants ready to care, nurture, protect, and punish from a position of power and passion granted by those with the boundless wells of strength, devotion, and love.

savage-gentleman-wolf

Well Done!! Believe it!!

Caring for a Submissive through any and All conditions IS being her Dom. It also goes both ways.

Trust from open and honest communication.

soulzsuffer4me

Well said

asubsoul

Do you feel Dominant when you cook your submissive breakfast because she’s running late and you want to be sure she eats? Do you feel Dominant when you’re pumping her gas because you know how much she hates it? Do you feel Dominant when you remind her to drive safe, drink water and wash her face before bed? You should because it’s about all those things too!

instructor144

All of this ^^^

tallmichiganman

Concur.

him3-ros-deactivated20260220

I’ve never heard this said in a better way. Well done.

silentmsjackson-deactivated2025

I absolutely love all of this!! 💕👸🏻💋

culturenlifestyle

pixieintrippyland-deactivated20

wakeners

mvaljean525

Believe nothing on the faith of traditions, even though they have been held in honor for many generations and in diverse places. Do not believe a thing because many people speak of it. Do not believe on the faith of the sages of the past. Do not believe what you yourself have imagined, persuading yourself that a God inspires you. Believe nothing on the sole authority of your masters and priests. After examination, believe what you yourself have tested and found to be reasonable, and conform your conduct thereto.

—- Buddha

—-

Graphic - Abdul Mati Klarwein