Temp

Main blog: @flower-fields-in-springtime - I'm Temperance and I have too many thoughts

[oraclebitching]

Masterpost ~

last updated: 5.1.26 she/they

vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv

My name is Temperance, but you can refer to me as Temp. I run another blog where I post about whatever it is that I’m currently fixating on but I decided to make this blog so I have a separate space to talk about non-fandom related topics !!

In this blog I will probably post about:

• frustrating personal experiences

• Hot takes

• Vague (and not-so vague) thoughts

• my opinions on various topics

• poetry and other creative writing

• Venting/ranting

• my perspective on life etc, etc..

vvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvvv

This blog will essentially just be a digital diary where I can express myself on a personal level. I hope you enjoy reading my rambles !! Remember to drink water and take care of yourself <3

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

no one is coming to save yo- wrong!! everyone who has ever shown you love and/or care is saving you a little bit.

[goth-queen]

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

Give me less "being kind requires zero effort" and more "being kind is worth the effort it takes."

[aromantic-diaries]

"everyone should get more aromantic" can appeal to tumblr's sensibilities but I genuinely think everyone should also get more asexual. I don't mean everyone stop having sex, what I mean is

Sex is not essential. You can live without it. Full stop.

Not having sex isn't shameful or a sign of failure. It also doesn't make anyone boring.

You are not entitled to having sex with anybody and nobody is entitled to having sex with you.

Sex is not what makes someone an adult.

Nobody's worth is defined by how much sex they have or don't have.

Sex is not equally important to everyone.

You can have fulfilling and happy relationships without sex.

You should only have sex on your own terms, not because you feel like you owe it to someone, or because you feel like you'd be incomplete without it.

Know your boundaries around sex and be firm about them. Know how to respect other people's boundaries.

The previous point also applies when it comes to discussing sex. If someone doesn't wanna talk about it or hear about it you have to back down.

Anything can be sexual but not everything has to be sexual.

[unalivejournal]

Embarrassed myself a few days ago and since then I've been periodically going like this

Ignore the part where he gets naked that's not part of it.

[goth-queen]

[goth-queen]

[oraclebitching]

one of my biggest fears is being seen as too mentally ill and instead of receiving help I just get thrown under the bus by the people I care about… even though I have no good reason to feel that way.

[mephistopheles]

um so quick question you do know that the world isn’t divided into People Blindly Accepting Of Gender Roles and Smart Trans Ppl. the world isn’t divided into People In Romantic Relationships and Single Aros. the world isn’t divided into People Who Socialize Easily and Oppressed Autistics. the world isn’t divided into Enlightened Queer People and Stupid Misogynists. like you are aware of this ? i hope you are aware of this

[sawed-on-shotgun]

being a teenager is basically just half a decade of "ugh I hate myself I hate my life I hate my parents nothing is fair everyone is mean the world is cruel I'm tired of it!! but idk i guess every teenager has this phase and I'll probably grow out of it and understand when I'm older" and getting older and realizing you should have been even angrier and more violent. And then people forget this as soon as they have kids

[oraclebitching]

Maybe sometimes the bravest thing you can do is be scared

[goth-queen]

[cykelops]

I have had a lot of evil people say to me that nothing taste as good as skinny feels and every time im like no im pretty sure food tastes really super good actually

[beatingtheeden]

Failing is very important to development in my opinion

Like, probably the most important thing actually

Embarrassment is such an under-explored emotion but it can define so much of who you are

"confidence is key" but shame and confidence are two sides of the same spectrum. The entire spectrum is the key.

[beatingtheeden]

Doing chores is actually so peaceful and fulfilling when you choose to do it yourself when you're in the mood for it and there's nobody nagging you to "get it over with"

[oraclebitching]

Weewoo here comes the fun police