I almost killed myself last night... (family abuse)
My mother was angry with me.
I told her about problems this house had before we bought the place, and where I was on fixing them/what I had already fixed. She flipped out and accused me of letting the house fall apart (like she didn’t see where I said they were fixed in the same sentence, or thought I caused the problems?).
The next day my cousin starts messaging me. This cousin is more of an older sister, my mom raised her. Saying that mom accused me of lying about being sickly. That mom was angry with me. Then she started demanding to see my medical paperwork. I told her no, I am an adult and I have a right to keep my paperwork private. She accused me of lying about being sick because “if you had nothing to hide you’d show it to me. So you must have something to hide.”
She harassed me literally all day yesterday. I explained to her that I am an adult and I have a right not to share medical records. She then started calling me names. I explained to her how she was being hurtful to me, and she argued that she was just “being helpful” to me, and how I was “attacking” her. She would not stop. I asked her several times. I got an hour break by threatening to file harassment charges against her, then she found an excuse to open another dialogue with me (under the guise of talking about Christmas plans). I told her that now was definitely not the time. So she went off on me about how I’m the abusive one.
Its big, so, here’s an offsite link set so I don’t screw your feed too hard...
Conversation with my cousin:
1) http://imgur.com/CcQ5DAG
(Bottom of the message got cut by accident. It said, “when you are the closest to understanding what I’m going through.” the website is having an issue right now with that image sorry)
2) http://imgur.com/wewOuAg
Conversation with my mom where she tries to threaten me out of filing harassment charges or at least a no-contact order against my cousin:
1) http://imgur.com/6MvulHn
2) http://imgur.com/idJqoyo
3) http://imgur.com/wHjsi0l
This isn’t all of it but these are the most interesting parts....
She told my mom that if I tried to file charges or serve her any paperwork she was going to 5150 me in retaliation... Apparently my mom thinks that filing charges against someone is revenge but falsely calling in a 5150 to disrupt someone’s life who was hurt by your actions isn’t?
So I’m going to be filing charges ASAP and if she tries to 5150 me I have proof on me that this is premeditated harassment/further abuse.