ā1. Be prepared to lose the person you are with because once they find out, they will leave. Some might give second chances, but never thirds. 2. Stangers are better, but if you must do it with someone you know, make sure they know how to keep their mouth shut. 3. Never tell them. It will destroy then and they will never think they will ever be good enough, and it will all be your fault. 4. Always delete the messages between you and your side hoe. 5. Make sure your side hoe knows not to text you when you are with your babe. You text first. 6. Dating two people at once never works out. A main and a side hoe, thatās the way you gotta go. 7. Cheating is not okay. Accept the fact you are a piece of shit. When she finds out, you will get called this a lot. 8. Secretes can not stay secretes forever. 9. Start hating yourself now. Itāll make the easier when she finds out. Youāll already be use to the feeling you get in your chest. 10. When she can never trust anyone again, know it is your fault. When she finds a great guy, someone worthy of her time, but canāt bring herself to love him or trust him, know it is your fault. You broke her and made is so she canāt love anyone not even herself and you are the cause of it all. 11. If you want to cheat on someone, donāt. Simply leave. When you are single you can sleep with whoever the fuck you want.ā