THE GREAT PAPYRUS!

How to be the greatest friend? /M!A: None /Event: None /(formerly papyrussearchhistory)

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Rules

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Happy fuck day once more! Nyeh heh heh!

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Guess what day it is, my friendly followers! Nyeh heh heh!

Motherfucking bitchass cunt!

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Nyeh heh heh, it’s that time of year again.

Fuck!

[hakuteeth]

Not to offer advice nobody asked for but fixing ur sleep schedule is life changing

[hakuteeth]

Things that actually work if u try at them:

Drinking water

No longer making self deprecating jokes

Making sure to take time out of the day to relax and take a breather

Lighting candles

Counting ur breaths in and out if ur having a panic attack

Getting up and trying to do one thing even if u can’t do everything maybe brushing ur teeth but not having the energy to shower

[justummsomeguy]

Taking a shower if you can, putting clean clothes on if you can’t, even just a clean set of pjs. Washing your face.

[o-lanterns]

A couple weeks ago I was in a major depressive slump and was feeling really detached from reality. I was trying so hard to fight it but nothing I tried worked until I realized I hadn’t listened to any happy music in almost a week.

I didn’t feel like listening to anything at all but I put on my favorite playlist anyway. Take On Me started and I finger stimmed to the keyboard riff and hummed along and by the end of the song I was smiling. A few more songs and I was fully singing along and feeling more present than I had in days.

Even if it seems small and trivial, like putting on your favorite socks or looking up pictures of kittens, it might be something you need. Of course the music didn’t solve any of the problems I was upset about, but it did help me feel like I was a person again.

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Papy’s in a rare relaxation mood today. He’s decided to spend the whole day quietly lounging around with his boyfriend. A nice, soft, peaceful Valentine’s Day.

[rp-meme-glaceon]

Send “📂“ for a random yet completely useless headcanon I have

[desultory-suggestions]

Something people really need to accept is that fluidity is present in everyone. You may not identify the same way you did five years ago, one year ago, even last week. When someone changes labels, explanations, identities, etc. it is not that they lied about who they were before, simply that their identity flowed and has reached a new resting place. We don’t need to define, contain, or limit. It’s okay to let yourself flow. 

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Fuck

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Happy Pride Month to all of my amazing followers! And all of my amazing not-followers! Nyeh heh heh!

[memes-for-the-rper]

Ask my muse increasingly personal questions. See how far you can push them.

[fountain-of-memes]

MUSE SHAMING

send me a ⚠️ with a reason my muse should be shamed (e.g. “hangs toilet paper backward”) and I can only confirm or deny

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I have decided to adopt this small helpless creature! Nyeh heh heh!

....What is a homestuck?

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💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛 🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍 💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜 🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤 Nyeh heh heh! Happy Trans Day of Visibility to all my Human, Monster, and other friends and followers!

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Happy Valentines Day everyone! I hope all of you who have significant others get to enjoy a fantastic time with them! And that those of you who don’t either find somebody great to spend the day with, or enjoy an amazing time alone!

[dysperdis]

so this has been bouncing around my head for a while and I’m still not sure if this is the best way to phrase it, but…

making opportunities for everyone to explore their gender and orientation means nothing if it’s not safe for people to be wrong about their gender and orientation. otherwise, “exploring your identity” becomes limited to “confirming what you were already pretty sure of,” which isn’t going to do anything for anyone who isn’t already at that stage.

[dysperdis]

like, time and again i’ve seen people questioning whether they’re allowed to use certain pronouns or labels if they’re still questioning those identities or if they need to wait until they’re more sure of the label. or people being worried that changes in how they identify and the language they use to describe themselves will validate stereotypes.

and this is the result of a culture where choosing an identity label that ends up being wrong is far worse than never exploring your identity in the first place. it’s the same reason people freak out about trans kids, because what if they decide they aren’t trans after all in the future? it’s also why i’ve run into multiple callouts on this site that include things like “10 years ago they called themself a ‘lesbian with an exception’ for a couple of months,” because trying to reconcile old identities with new experiences is seen as a threat.

and in the end, the people this attitude ends up punishing are folks who are targeted by cissexism and/or heterosexism, but are lacking some of the language or the experiences or even the community that would allow them to express how those systems impact them.

[queerlittlecreature-deactivated]

Take all the time you need to figure it out. Try different clothes, pronouns, names. Our society doesnt make this easy. Theres nothing wrong with being wrong while you figure it out

[jedthewolfdog]

and just because you settle on something different later doesnt mean you were ‘wrong’ before 

[mystericmoon]