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Slytherclaw Supremacy

[peakedlesbian]

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[bloodstarving-deactivated202308]

i'm still so mad at that misinformation about the term gold star lol like what the fuck honestly. homosexuals being proud that they didn't let society bully them into self harm shouldn't be offensive.

[eliminatedac67-deactivated20241]

They're literally so annoying for it too. They go off saying "heterosexuality is pushed on to homosexuals (therefore some women have history with men)" but can't seem wrap their brains around homosexuals who resisted the heterosexual push and are proud for it. Instead they fucking villainize us for it.

[bloodstarving-deactivated202308]

exactly, and it's very obvious why they suddenly become weird about the existence of homosexuals who resisted the push and being proud of it. they want us to suffer. they want us to harm ourselves. that's why they acknowledge society's pressure and persistence with heterosexuality but not those who have successfully survived it. it's literally just "you haven't found the right guy yet" but under the disguise of somehow understanding our struggles.

and yeah it is especially worse for us lesbians as we have to deal with misogyny and people feeling entitled to us on top of it.

[eliminatedac67-deactivated20241]

Yeup, Hooray for Gay Pride🏳️‍🌈 unless you're actually proud that you didn't self harm yourself and actually rebelled against all of society's pressures to make you opposite sex attracted to be true to yourself🥴

[bloodstarving-deactivated202308]

lmfao hallelujah to that sister 🤪🤪

i'm still so fucking baffled lol, truthfully. like would you have preferred me let myself get raped instead so that i know for sure (even though i knew at a very young age) that i'm a lesbian? would you have preferred me traumatize myself for no goddamn reason just because literally everyone in the world worships the cock? it's so insanely gross and rapey. i'm fucking appalled at how people here, in rad spaces out of everywhere, are so shamelessly lesbophobic. it's so upsetting and sickening.

[eliminatedac67-deactivated20241]

Well you gotta know you're gay somehow sweetie🥴 it is sickening and fucking tiring having to discover again and again that people won't fully accept you, that theyll always have this tight grip on heterosexuality and prejudice against lesbians. They'd much rather have us traumatize and harm ourselves than ya know fight back and be proudly gay, so fucking disappointing and gross.

[bloodstarving-deactivated202308]

lmao fr.. it's so unbelievably exhausting and heartbreaking. despite being proud of my lesbianism and gold star, this is something i'm still trying to accept ngl. that even with all the sweet words and encouragement, most still deep down think i'm either inhuman or should be forced to be with a man. it's terrifying. like if we can't even be proud of ourselves as gold stars, have things even changed for the better from the start? it's a type of pain barely anyone except for lesbians will truly ever understand. but we will prevail, like we always have.

[piqued-curiosity]

Seriously lots of their points against gold star lesbians could have easily come from homophobes or at the very least clueless straight people. The idea that we’re being mean or annoying or whatever just by being proud of resisting heteronormativity is exactly why the term was coined in the first place! People were annoyed with lesbians being proud of ourselves, so we doubled down. The very idea that lesbians being proud of ourselves for having no heterosexual experience is offensive, is why the term exists yet the people who claim to hate it act in a way that proves why the term is a thing lmao.

And the idea that lesbians need to shut up about our experiences for the sake of other’s comfort. Where have I heard that before?

Or the idea that gold stars had it super easy, and that’s why we’ve never been with men. Because obviously the only reason a woman would ever not be with a man is because we live in some homophobia free utopia, right? Who said it, a straight person oblivious to the gay experience, or an anti-goldstar?

Even just the refusal to be happy that there are lesbians who survived the constant pressure to be with men. Shouldn’t that be something we’re all celebrating? Women who weren’t so lucky could just look at gold stars as a sign of lesbian perseverance, and a sign that things will get better for the lesbians of future generations. But instead they hate us and want us to just stop talking about the thing we should all be celebrating (because in a utopia, all lesbians would be gold stars. No lesbian would even experience the pressure to be with men in the first place so there’d be nothing to survive, and the term would become obsolete. But right now, gold stars are a sign that a better future for lesbians is possible).

But yeah, gay pride…until the lesbians get too proud. Then we’ve gotta get mad at them.

[bloodstarving-deactivated202308]

exactly, everything you said is on point.

the thing that gets me about it the most is that their immediate reaction is to shut us down, shame us, and tell us we're somehow their oppressors than to maybe create their own term or space where they can freely talk about their experiences lol. that's way more beneficial and actually useful than being disgustingly lesbophobic to us. but no, they want to make us feel like we're weird or "broken" for not wanting to be involved with men just like society. it's so sad yet infuriating. your insecurity with your sexuality is not our problem lmfao. either take inspiration from us or go work on yourself and leave us alone. it's absolutely insane that they don't feel happy for us and somehow developed this delusion that this shit is a competition.

just because we're oppressed doesn't mean we don't get to be happy, self loving, confident, and proud. lesbianism is such a beautiful, utterly raw, delicate thing that i'll forever be blessed to experience. i'm not going to let society taint that joy for me no matter what, i'm instead going to be very annoying and unapologetic about it. lesbianism isn't just about our pain, and to say otherwise and purposefully suppress any kind of lesbian joy is a disgrace.

[prober2020]

Victims will almost always be able to admit their own faults.

They will know they reacted badly and did wrong. This quality is actually what the abuser uses against them in the first place to make them believe they are the ones in the wrong. 

Part of healing from abuse is learning to point out which of the abusers behaviors are, in fact abuse, while still acknowledging what you handled badly. (And everyone reacts badly to things when under the extreme pressure of abuse!).

Abusers will almost never admit they have ever done anything wrong at all. 

Their victims will be blamed for everything. They will hold every tiny thing against the victim, even things they could not possibly control, or they have never tried to talk to them about. 

—“Reactive Abuse” by psychabuse101

[babylon-crashing]

Graffiti @ Ljubljana, “the inferior status of women is man made”

[lavenderfeminist]

did you get your roommate stuff sorted?

YES. Please spread this far and wide. I made an addition to my original post but kept it unrebloggable because I was concerned about certain sensitive information continuing to spread, so I'm realizing a lot of people who saw the original don't know. I've been moved to a single and am trying to negotiate not having my payment increase because I should not be paying extra for my own safety when I was clear I did not want a single to begin with.

When I called, the woman at the housing office was audibly concerned, and told me what I'd already guessed: this year 's decisions were made by a system that only used gender identity; it was sex-blind. Meaning the system that paired me and my other female former roommate with an unaltered male wasn't allowed to discriminate based on sex! How wonderful! She said I was lucky that a single room had just opened up, and that she understood my concerns and would arrange my move immediately, but that her hands are somewhat tied as to having prevented the situation altogether, for obvious reasons. I'm going to be safe, and I'm very grateful for that.

That said, my female roommate is now set to live alone with a man. I am going to reach out to her and let her know I'm available if she's concerned about anything, but I am worried she will tell the male roommate. I am concerned about her, and while multiple people have expressed to me that a class action lawsuit is on the horizon, the fact that women are being put at risk and may be forever traumatized by assault/rape before a stop is put to this makes me furious.

Living alone is also significantly more expensive for me; I owe more for my room, and I'm not longer splitting the cost of certain amenities with roommates. I very much did not want or plan to be living in a single, and I'm sure there is someone out there who for health reasons needed the single room I am now going to be occupying. I am blessed that I'm not in a position where I need to make a choice between not living with a man and affording housing. I am sure I'm not the only woman who was put in a situation like this, and I'm lucky I found out early enough and had the option to move. It was left up to his discretion to tell me he was a male. What of women who find out when they meet their roommate face to face? What of women who discover there is no alternate housing available to them? What of women who find the alternate housing is too expensive for them to afford without putting them in financial straits? What of women who grin and bear it because they are afraid of what they may be branded if they refuse? I have faith this insanity will end, but how many women have to be hurt for it to end? How many are going to be hurt before it does?

[detranscendence]

thinking of detransition? you are not alone

[cherrylimeade-l3sbian]

Can we talk about (laugh at) how goddamn sensitive men are about their masculinity that some of them won't get their dog's balls removed?

[motherfang]

Some men are so sensitive that they buy testicle implants so their dog still appears to have balls (because it’s just that important) : https://www.cnbc.com/2018/05/22/neuticles-testicular-implants-for-dogs-have-made-gregg-miller-rich.html

[pwurrz]

wow you’re a transmisogynist AND a tradfem??? i’m sooo shocked tbh terfs and nazis have like nothing in common!!! /s

[opabiniawillreturn-deactivated2]

tradfems and radfems aren't the same thing at all, they just have similar names. "tradfem" means traditional femininity, and "radfem" means radical feminist. they are inherent opposites

[the-haunted-uterus]

Why are they so stupid?

[sowhatisheckinavailable-deactiv]

"Words sound same. Must be same." Okay neanderthals

[blissfulascension]

Terf means "women i dont like" to these people

[ms-hells-bells]

ignoring the fact that i can’t tell if their bio is satire or they’re a bonafide freakazoid, at least they had the courtesy to delete this dumbass post.

[astral---injection]

Bruh that’s what chronic internet use does to your brain. Fucking fried

[heartshop]

I tracked down the broader context of that Megan clip and I’m so glad I did omg

[imeverywoman420]

This is two straight women

[user87262893]

This is the most bleak and dismal shit I s2g

[kiefbowl]

I don’t even know what some of this is. How much does this all cost? It must be thousands of dollars a year.

[gatlaca-deactivated20220925]

this woman is an extremely mentally ill ex prostitute/ ex porn star, i'd not take anything she does as a sign of anything except her own mental issues. she's been sick since she started being online and i doubt it will ever get better

[magnetictapedatastorage]

Don’t take it personally, you just suck.

drawn in microsoft word 1997

[nansheonearth]

If you wanna be mean online, first try one of the following:

do 10 push ups

do 15 crunches

do 10 calf lifts

do 5 squats (careful of your form)

look up gun registration/licensing laws in your area

sign up for a self defense class

sign up for a martial arts class

look up cool knives online

[lasdelaintuicion]

finally the idiotic little radblr discourse summed up well

[desisapphic]

the funny part is that they're making posts calling lesbians behaviour the same as trans activists which is such projection when they're both homophobic idiots.

they're so obsessed with centring a man in their lives and act like separatism is some kind of violence instead of about avoiding violence. this and like even being told to stop being homophobic they really go "SO I HAVE TO EAT PUSSY TO BE A FEMINIST?! REPRESS MY SEXUALITY AND REJECT MY BIOLOGICAL WIRING TO BE WITH MEN?"

[eliminatedac67-deactivated20241]

Also the fact that they just consider it "infighting" instead of a serious issue we need to talk about. Fucking saying stupid bullshit like: "lets stop fighting guys cmon lets get along we're all fighting for the same thing." Fucking dismissing all the homophobia we try to point out, we can't even talk about it without them making themselves the victims or telling us to stfu and stop the "infighting". They dont fucking care about us and thats been made clear.

[antiplondon]

Jennifer Gunter: ‘Women are being told lies about their bodies’

Dr Jennifer Gunter is the world’s most famous – and outspoken – gynaecologist. And she’s on a mission to empower women with medical facts, taking on wellness gurus, old wives’ tales, the patriarchy and jade eggs along the way

Pouring a glass of water, Gunter argues that the wellness industry and the anti-abortion industry are, if not exactly dancing together, certainly at the same disco. The former manipulates that confusion to take women’s money, the latter to take their power. “I even started to notice overlap between the language,” she says with a shudder. “The anti-science views of wellness and the anti-science of the religious right. Themes like ‘purity’ and ‘cleanliness’ with their similar rituals. It’s predatory. It’s the patriarchy by another name. And it keeps women back by telling them lies about their body. They might be different lies, but the effect is the same.” It is her responsibility, she says, with something like a sigh, to “step up”.

[…]

“When I realised that people were believing Goop’s fairy tales, I thought: ‘I’ll take them on.’” The first anti-Goop post she wrote, on vaginal steaming, centred around the idea that women have long been believed to be unclean. “It’s one of the core beliefs of the patriarchy. That women are dirty inside. And yet Goop presents this as female empowerment? In Hippocrates’s time they used to think that the womb wandered the body, causing mayhem, and you would coax it back into place by putting fragrant herbs between the legs. This is the same thing. It’s in so many cultures, this belief that the uterus is toxic. I couldn’t believe it was now being presented as female empowerment. It’s bad feminism. And it’s bad science.”

[sowhatnotcreative]

It's so messed up that progressiveness have come full circle. We must now apologize for offending anyone if we do not wish slurs to be used against us. "You don't want women to be called bitch? Bitch how dare you lol I am not offending anyone and I don't use it like ~that~". You just did? I literally just said I was offended, who is not offended?

Meanwhile "woman" is - of course - not allowed.

Do they not see the irony? You jump the gun to defend the use of "bitch", "whore", "slut", "those words are RECLAIMED".

When am I allowed to reclaim the word "Woman"? What about "Female"?

[thecrucifiedophelia]

Oh can we do this though

Like if someone tries to “correct” you when you use the word “woman” just say “I’m reclaiming it”

[americide]

[lasdelaintuicion]

finally the idiotic little radblr discourse summed up well

[desisapphic]

the funny part is that they're making posts calling lesbians behaviour the same as trans activists which is such projection when they're both homophobic idiots.

they're so obsessed with centring a man in their lives and act like separatism is some kind of violence instead of about avoiding violence. this and like even being told to stop being homophobic they really go "SO I HAVE TO EAT PUSSY TO BE A FEMINIST?! REPRESS MY SEXUALITY AND REJECT MY BIOLOGICAL WIRING TO BE WITH MEN?"