i used to think it'd all get better

peach, they/them. i run lots of sideblogs carrd: pechebeche.carrd.co/

[pechebeche]

Been meaning to make this forever: a list of my sideblogs, for my pinned post!

Fan blogs:

@danggirlronpa - A blog about femslash in the Danganronpa universe.

@kpdh-daily - A blog which posts multiple-times-a-day pieces of work from the K-Pop Demon Hunters fandom.

@kpdh-fan-events - A blog which posts interest checks, schedules, contributor/mod apps, etc for fan projects in the K-Pop Demon Hunters fandom.

@daily-digigirls - A blog which posts multiple-times-a-day pieces from the Digimon fandom centered on its fem-presenting characters.

@shutenorderyuri - A blog which posts once-a-day pieces from the Shuten Order fandom centered around its female characters and their relationships.

Project blogs:

@khttrpg - A blog for my Kingdom Hearts tabletop game project, Re: Roll.

@kpdhcalendar - A blog for my eventual zine project, KPDH Calendar.

@danganronpa-52 - A blog for my eventual fangan project, Danganronpa 52.

Defunct blogs:

@dailyhadesladies - A blog which posts once-a-day pieces of work from the Hades fandom centered on its fem-presenting characters. (Queue is still running, but I don't actively keep up with it.)

[cryptcoop]

Have pride 💜💙🤍💚

[pechebeche]

Love overwatch. Love picking and choosing what half-baked writing i choose to make canon for my characterizations

[pechebeche]

did they remove the vincent spray from soldier 76's cosmetics?? i cant find it anywhere T_T

[aws-art]

rise like the sun

[pechebeche]

made some queer mizuki icons for pride month lol. all official art! (to my knowledge) free to use if you'd like

[smoldragonborn]

“we need to stop the stigma towards drug users and addicts” and “we need to challenge the idea that being sober makes you boring” and “we need to stop acting like binge drinking to the extent you’re doing medical damage is fun and normal for young people” are all ideas that can and should coexist.

[fatfemmefreaquency]

just so we’re clear, the threshold for “binge drinking to the extent you’re doing medical damage” is waaaay lower than you think.

I work in an obstetrician and gynaecologist’s office. we have to tell patients on a regular basis that they are binge drinking weekly when they think they are simply consuming a normal amount of alcohol on the weekends.

having more than 3 drinks in a single sitting if you have an estrogen based endocrine system is a binge that is medically significant.

having more than 5 in a sitting is a medically significant binge for someone with a testosterone based endocrine system.

every time you do this, it significantly impacts your risk of getting breast cancer, and damages your liver. it takes time to recover from that liver damage. if you’re having a 3-5 or more drink binge on a weekly basis, you are an alcoholic, medically speaking, and your liver is not recovering.

again: the bar for what binge drinking is, medically, is so much lower than what you think it is.

alcohol is a really toxic substance and not something you should fuck around with.

again: if you have an estrogenized hormone system (common for most women), then 3 drinks is a binge. if you have a testosteronized hormone system (common for most men), then 5 drinks is a binge.

anything above that number, consumed as frequently as weekly or more, and you’re medically a binge drinking alcoholic.

also, if you’re drinking any quantity of alcohol 6 days a week or more, that’s another threshold at which, medically speaking, you meet the definition of alcoholism. your liver needs more days without alcohol in your system than just one a week to recover and be healthy.

I don’t say any of this to shame anyone—to me, alcoholism or substance use disorders aren’t a sign of weakness or moral failing. and most of us genuinely don’t know this stuff.

rather—I point this out because it’s important to reduce harm, and find ways to live healthier, happier lives. there is a life outside of constant binge drinking. it’s not always easy to find it. but it’s out there. you deserve a life where your emotional needs are met by something other than alcohol, and a life in which your liver is healthy, and the ways you cope and celebrate and find joy don’t put you at increased risk of cancer.

[qweerhet]

also–even if alcohol is the only way you can self-medicate, or if you choose to go on with your alcohol usage anyway regardless of other options–you still deserve to know what it’s doing to your body.

information is key. you don’t have to stop drinking, but the utter lack of education on alcohol + the normalization of binge drinking in current society leads to many people drinking without any idea of what it’s doing to their bodies.

addicts deserve accurate medical information regardless of what they decide to do with it. for some people, losing liver function is worth the benefits they get from binge drinking, but they can’t make that choice if they don’t know what the consequences are to begin with.

[jeanjauthor]

addicts deserve accurate medical information regardless of what they decide to do with it.

[underworld-melon]

Can someone tell me the definition of one drink in this context?

Because a vodka shot is not the same as (idk, some low alcohol percentage alcohol.)

So, what does 3 (or 5) drinks mean.

[theconcealedweapon]

0.6 ounces of alcohol is a standard drink. Examples include 12 ounces of 5% alcohol beer, or 1.5 ounces of 40% alcohol liquor.

[genderkoolaid]

if you are like me and numbers slide off your brain like water off a ducks back, you can use this Standard Drink Calculator to out how much you are drinking.

[beanles]

🪨 The Deep-Sea Deception 🌸

If you haven't read this comic, do it now lol You're really doing yourself a disservice if you don't

A potential partner for Lifeweaver? 👀 Plus, Venture's there and they make everything better 💖

[nyamcattt]

Cheers, love! The cavalry's queer! 🏳️‍🌈

[gorlassar]

Everyone has probably seen these by now, but here are all three illustrations I did for the new Overwatch Pride short story! It was an honor to be trusted with drawing out Jack’s backstory (also win-win since he was already one of my mains in the game).

Happy Pride!

[azspot]

Magic Arena developers say they were told to relocate or effectively lose their jobs

It's one of many reasons that workers tell Polygon they are eager to unionize.

Employees and developers working on Magic: The Gathering Arena say they were hired with promises of remote flexibility, so they bought homes and built lives around those assurances. But they say they are now being told they may need to relocate to Washington state — or effectively lose their jobs.

Those concerns are a major reason why a supermajority of workers on the Arena team are attempting to unionize with the Communications Workers of America, under the banner United Wizards of the Coast. The group publicly launched its campaign on April 27, calling on Wizards of the Coast and parent company Hasbro to voluntarily recognize the union by May 1.

[apricops]

These employees are doing important and laudable work in response to being forced into a bad situation but I’m glad they still took the opportunity to call themselves “United Wizards”

[basic-bamboo]

WotC has still refused to recognize the union and has escalated to sending organizers letters directly to their homes about how unionizing is a bad idea. Luckily, our United Wizards are educated, organized, and agitated and the form letter from Hasbro was as laughable as it was threatening.

If you want to help out the United Wizards you can sign this petition

cwa.org/uwotcletter

Solidarity baby!

[pechebeche]

If every Japanese hero but mizuki gets to be part of this jpop collaboration im gonna fucking scream

[miwurii]

gg our supports are making out in the backline

[shithowdy]

hey. if someone tries to smear you on the internet for something asinine, what you need to do is block every single person engaging with the post and remind yourself that absolutely under no circumstances are you obligated to draft a PR response defending some out-of-context screenshot or kink fanfiction or thing you said when you were 15 or whatever put your blood in the water. you are not a public figure or a brand. you do not have to respond to something if you know in your heart it is bullshit.

[towerologia-sideblog]

What to do if you get cancelled online.

Keep your cool, minimize the damage, and only make amends to those you owe it to.

[mikkeneko]

Lots of good advice in the link above, but the one line that really sticks out to me: Don’t try to satisfy a public that is setting out not to be satisfied.

[pechebeche]

did a round of 6v6 with 20 THOUSAND healing, 46 assists, 22 kills, and we WON, and the game is still projecting me as bronze 5???

[pechebeche]

"The owcs champions clash is going to make people think mizuki is an okay pick" cocks gun. He Has Been The Whole Time

[pechebeche]

the way the ovw esports announcers talk about twisted minds pisses me off soooooo bad, just because they lost a round doesnt mean you can call the WORLD CHAMPS "destined to lose" lmaoooo