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[sobcat]

ideal day: wake up late. iced latte. my video game. crazy reheated lunch. my show. supermarket trip to waste money. a snack. creative endeavours deep into the night. same thing next day.

[grandpist0n]

the seemingly perfect boy

[shirkers2018dirsanditan]

everyone is always acting like there is some crisis of human interaction with one another because everyone is overly sensitive to how strangers approach them and like. no actually its because nobody has any fucking manners. social etiquette has legitimately vanished. it makes interacting with strangers miserable because people don’t know how to fucking behave in public.

like it is rude to stare. it is rude to point. it is rude to have a loud phone conversation in a quiet place. it’s rude to listen to music or videos or whatever on your device with no headphones on a loud volume, or at any volume in an enclosed or quiet space. these are rude things to do. like i’m sorry while some etiquette is silly, an acceptable level of decorum is necessary to make existing in public bearable for everybody…….it is LITERALLY common courtesy

[jaronofthebored]

all timer line. easy top 10 at least from queen. I think about it everytime I hear that word. her face makes me read this with one specific inflection that is stuck in my brain (it meeans-TITTeee). The use of only one T. Perfect line no notes. should be up there with Potassium

[grimbeak]

funniest part of undertale/deltarune being inspired by earthbound/mother 3 is that at the end of mother 3 all the characters turn to you, the player, and say thank you for playing our game! thank you for helping us! thank you for talking to us! we love you! please take care of yourself! please take a rest! please love yourself! and in deltarune chapter 4 kris beats you with a hockey stick

[catmask]

by the way. it never is too late to decide you want to be happy. the woman who helped me get hormones didnt start hers until she was 70, and i met her at 73, beautiful and smiling - and told me that the last three years of her life had been her favorite. your favorites might be ahead of you too. why not hang around and find out?

[eokiba-um]

[lostxanadu]

the thing about being bullied for being weird as a kid is that even if you've always embraced being weird your brain is still always looking for the line where it's too much. you can be as proudly and intentionally weird as you want and you can love being weird but your mind is still convinced there's a point where you get too weird and people start treating you like a weird looking bug again. also it feels like you reach that point 500 times a day even if everyone you've spoken to today found you pleasant and likable and even if you're completely alone in your house with nobody looking at you at all.

[sycamorality]

oh no i will lose my !

[aroaceanarchnid9130]

[spoiky]

Friend inside me

[assflat]

FREE ME!!!!!!! Idk from what...I just want to be free from literally everything

[shamebats]

Emos & scene kids got this close to abolishing gender for real. I try not to think about it too much.

[shamebats]

The idea of a popular teenage subculture where girl & boys pretty much all dress the same feels impossible now but for a while it was reality and it was beautiful.

[turing-tested]

Sorry am on lsd. Shouldn't have told you 2 eat a sandwich. That is your decision not mine. Sorry

this ask is so awesome. my favorite part is I can't find the other ask they're apologizing for.

[elfworm]

[mentosberi]

the dog magnus carlsen... 🩶🧡

[petalcharite]

You know, the phrase "it's not about you" has many use cases, but it's one of those things that's so often misused and it makes me so frustrated.

Earlier in the week I was having a crisis because I got triggered by something (too personal), and the other party used "it's not about you" when I was expressing my fears, frustrations & boundaries. Like...if that was an attempt at making me feel better, it...didn't work? Because I'm still looping the interaction in my head days later.

"It's not about you" should only have to apply to genuine assholery. Instead, it was used to shut me down in a situation that could have gotten worse real quickly.

I heard a parent use it on their toddler today while I was at the zoo. Another pretty bad use case - because a toddler thinks everything is about them and acts accordingly, and the behavior is usually unearned as they get older. And it sure didn't make the kids feel any better, either - he was still crying his eyes out, which led me into this thought spiral that I'm having now.

I think people tend to think that "it's not about you" is a get-out-of-empathy free card. It's really, really frustrating.

[stevepasztor]

[yuwugiowo]