60 Reasons Why I Love My Mum
Mum, I remembered making you cry once because of a letter I wrote you. I wasn’t able to buy a card for you today but I hope this blog will suffice. I don’t want to make you sob, just want to fill your day with so much love 😘
1. She has funny antics. She makes all of us laugh even though she’s not trying. One example is mispronouncing words like churts, chards, brids, colleds 😂😂😂
2. She’s a Super Mum- raising 6 kids is no easy feat but she did it mostly on her own as dad was working overseas. I think we turned out to be good grown up individuals
3. She’s caring- mum knows millions of ways to show it
4. She’s always early- us millenials would be chill to take our time but we ended up hurrying at the airport, trust me, she gave us a lecture on how important to be early, at least 4 hours if you have a flight to catch.
6. She’s an amazing Lola- she imparted invaluable knowledge to my sisters only a hands on mum would know
7. She’s a great businesswoman
9. She makes a good cuppa- if it’s made by mum, I would enjoy gulping every drop
10. Her eyes twinkle when you buy her something- I don’t have to buy designer stuff for her, she gets giddy with simple pasalubongs from London
11. She made habilin me to my siblings- I almost cried once when she told me this. As someone who doesn’t believe in relationships, she told my brothers and sisters that in their home, I should have a guest room so I can stay over in their respective houses if I feel old and lonely
12. Mum has always been my number one supporter, no doubt. She encouraged me to take the first step and apply for a job in UK. I was really hesitant to take the IELTS as I really had no dream to go abroad, she told me to do it and see that if I pass it, it is meant for me. Guess where I am now? Thanks müm
13. She can climb a mountain/steep steps- our trip to Taipei made me realise how strong mum is. She may not be the most physically fit 59 year old out there but she braved the Elephant Mountain.
14. She is a kid at heart- last May, mum and I went to Disneyland. It is both our first time to step in the happiest place on Earth. When I was a kid, I’ve always dreamt of visiting and pleaded to mum if we can go, little did I know I would be the one bringing her. She was so elated!
15. She can face her fears- mum has this massive fear of heights, her body would be stiff, shaky and she will have cold sweats but she was able to conquer it. Remember the cable car ride in HK Ocean Park mum?
16. She’s always available to talk- even if I’m miles away, I would always feels mum is just next door as we communicate every day
17. She wakes me up for breakfast and I hate it (at the time of eating). But I really do appreciate it as aside from I get to eat the most important meal of the day, we get to bond early in the morning
18. She loves to travel, how I wish I could be filthy rich and bring mum to every city I go to.
19. She’s the Queen of Mushrooms
20. Dividing your time, attention and love to 6 kids is challenging but Her love is always whole.
21. I love her kaartehan- whenever we go out mum’s always the first one to wake up so she can iron her hair and do her make up (not contour though)
22. She’s the biggest fan of Kris Aquino, I remember Kris replying to her comment on Instagram and she had this big fan girl freak out 😝
23. She reminds you to stay grounded- however far you may go, you should always go back to your roots, family will always be there
24. She loves Mama very much- I praise her for this. She makes sure Mama (my grandmum) gets her holistic care, drinks meds on time, sees a physical therapist and even a weekly communion.
25. She’s a millenial at heart- mum likes beautiful things be it her selfies, flowers, food flat lays. She posts it on her social media with matching quotes, she has a fountain of it.
26. She’s dedicated to her diet, her cheat day is 6x a week haha
27. She’s proud to say her children are her greatest achievements. Sometimes I get emebarassed by this but I think every parent would be happy to tell the world how wonderful their kids are
28. She sacrificed her career for us- mum was a nurse but she decided to be a full time and hands on mum, she said she never regretted any of it :,)
30. She encouraged me to be who I am- she was one of the first persons I came out to and her acceptance, love and words of advice made me realise there’s nothing wrong and I should accept myself too and be proud of who I am
31. Distance never separated us- our hearts will always be connected like how we are for 9 months (awww)
32. She loves rebellious kids- as a teen, we had an argument to the point I created a drawing with horns on her head, a sardonic smile and a caption “I hate my EVIL MUM”. She saw it and I wish she hasn’t. (Again, am sorry mum! Thanks for your forgiveness :)
33. She’s super forgetful, we’d always remind her not to eat shrimps, pork, beans. I can only imagine Dad pissed off every time we have to drive back to our house to pick up something.
34. She’s proud to say I love you in public/social media- that’s what am doing right now, am pretty sure our family has the Alzheimer gene and I’m writing this so she can store it in her long term memory and she would always remember she’s loved every day
35. She makes it look like her job is easy. I know it’s hard mum but you make it look effortless. Kudos to you!
36. She never calls me by my real name, after all she was the one who named me Patrick
37. She gave me a book titled “Make Your Nanay Proud”
38. Even my friends love her, they’d tell me how cool she is and if they visit our house, they notice that the ambience is full of love
39. She has a green thumb, plants flourish when it’s taken care by her, I think her flowers like her as well
40. She’s vain, when we travel she would want photos on every backdrop and she would insist on airdropping all of it.
41. She will always be my biggest fan- she would like all of my photos. You see this is an effort, in my hometown, the internet speed sucks big time so loading up one photo takes at least 30 seconds. (Mum, pusuan mo na lang)
42. She’s the best homemaker
43. She inspired (or forced lol) me to take up nursing
44. She is a ray of sunshine, mum always brighten up my day. Ilaw ng tahanan much?
45. She likes to keep traditions. How we wish our family is always complete during Christmas and all of us would wear matching outfits. And of course she’ll be the first one to post our photos.
46. She wakes up early- perfect for late nights in London, early hours in the Philippines talk
47. She gave me virigin coconut oil to moisturise my dry skin eeek!
48. She’s clingy- she would hold on to my arm when we walk but likes to complain how it lacks fat unlike Dad’s
49. They say mothers know best. There are things as children don’t tell our parents but somehow they do. Wish I can be a telepath as well.
50. She’s a clean freak- her clothes are in order and sorted by colour and sometimes she would go to my room to make my bed
51. She would tell us stories when she was little, how as a family they struggled financially and how we should be thankful for the blessings we have.
52. She likes museums- I got the idea from her that in every place you go, it’s important to learn the history of the city and its people.
53. Mum’s laugh is priceless. Sometimes she rans out air when sharing a funny story.
54. She would tell me not to take things too seriously. I may be stressed on a certain situation but she would say it will pass and you’ll laugh about it in the future.
55. Her love is genuine. A mother’s love is always pure, true and unconditional.
56. I owe her a lot. My parents financed my university, so am paying my loan monthly since 2015.
57. She influence me to read. I remember when she gave me my first Harry Potter book and it changed my life!
58. I love my mum just because. There are actually 60 more than reasons to love her.
59. She’s supposed to celebrate her 60th with me today. I paid for her return tockets to London, unfortunately the embassy did not grant her visa 😭😭😭
60. She’s selfless and am selfish. Sometimes I feel guilty when I think about my future plans of what am gonna be in 5 years or 10 years time. Where is mum in that scheme? I forget that my parents also grow older and I feel sad that they’re not included in my long term goals.
Mum you are special. It breaks my heart we’re not together on your birthday but I know someday we will. Enjoy your day and always bear in mind I love you sooooo much!
P.S. Mumee, if you managed to finish reading up to this, your present 🎁 is IN the headboard at Nicole’s room 😉