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six degrees of separation / a tiny map showing the connectedness of people
I got a new book and I can just tell I’m am going to love it. I included the second pic in case anyone wants to find and purchase this gold mind. I ordered early so I got a signed copy and a free meditation CD. :^) Now I want all of their books/CDs.
This seems super cool!
I want to help empower you, not to own you nor possess you. I choose to love, honor, and respect you by letting you freely love any and all people you choose.
(via polylove-girls-blog)
Where polyamory gets it right, in my book, is when jealousy is accepted as just an emotion with no moral imperative, and it is embraced as an opportunity to identify, express, and meet one’s own needs better. Those needs can range from wanting to have more time with a partner, or more sex, or more help with kids, and so on.
Emma Dixon
Is there a term for your metamour’s partner who’s not your partner? Like a metamour-once-removed? Metamour of a metamour? Meta-more?
Ha, I crack myself up sometimes.
*Super, super serious announcer voice* MEGA-METAMOUR (On my girlfriends side, twice removed)
url change!
zero-princess-turtle-and-cat is now pictureperfectpoly!! it felt limiting to have only four names in the title, especially since ben has been a big part of my life since like august/september. we finally got around to renaming the blog :) Ben’s tentative nickname is Fish~ Fixing up the blog a bit feels good!! Love, Cat
The poly squad ft. me allons-y23 tallguymccuddlesalot zerosuitsalmon biggerbadderlatterday
Healthy happy poly relationships man man happy. Especially when I know (some of them) personally
Look at us, being cute.
Also, heads up all. The URL is probably going to change here pretty soon. We feel we need to be a little more inclusive to other members getting serious within the group so we're just going to come up with some sort of title for us.
It's been a thought for months now but we haven't acted on it. Maybe making a post will make us move quicker lol
~Princess
I made a word cloud from the text on my blog! The larger the word, the more times it occurs in my posts.
PS: For all the “polyamory is all about sex!!!” people: Notice how much bigger the words “love” and “relationship” are than “sex”. So there.
This is really awesome!
Any younger poly/nonmono people? Like 25 and under?
Right here! 🙋💁
Us! We're all between 18-21 :)
Triad in bed. It’s so wonderful to be in love like I am. I have such beautiful partners to spend the rest of my life with.
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Reblog if you think polyamory is a legitimate romantic orientation.
Polyamory: state of being in love or romantically involved with more than one person at the same time.
Ok, it’s time for an education. It’s not entirely your fault you’re utterly ignorant since the medical industrial complex AND the hatefilled society in which we all live both actively seek to reinforce the binary at any and all costs and purposefully keep people ill-informed and misinformed about the realities of biology. But after I take valuable time out of my evening to educate you on how utterly biased and flawed the modern concept of “biological sex” is you no longer have an excuse and choosing to continue to cleave to your bullshit will officially become proof that you are nothing more than a bigotted asshole.
So let’s take a look at some true facts courtesy of Dr. Anne Fausto-Sterling who is a biologist and geneticist with a PhD, you know, a doctorate, in science, that thing you seem to be so obsessed with, that thing you seem to think is absolutely “objective” and always right all the time. There are 5 specific measures of biological sex according to modern medical science.
Chromosomes (men = XY, women = XX)
Genitalia (men = penis, women = vulva and vagina)
Gonads (men = testes, women = ovaries)
Hormones (men = high testosterone, low estrogen, low progesterone; women = high estrogen, high progesterone, low testosterone)
Secondary Sex Characteristics (men = large amounts of dark, thick, coarse body hair, noticeable facial hair, low waist:hip ratio, no noticeable breast development, rough skin; women = fine, light colored body hair, no noticeable facial hair, high waist:hip ratio, noticeable breast development, smooth skin)
The thing is, in real life, very few people actually match up with all five categories. There are, of course, genetic differences that account for a decent percentage of human births like XXY, XXX, XO, and XYY (apx 1:500 births though it could easily be more than that since we don’t do genetic testing for all people and even at that ratio if there are over 6 billion people in the world 1:500 means there are a whole lot of genetically intersex people out there) but it goes far beyond that. There are people out there who have XX chromosomes, a vulva and vagina, ovaries, male secondary sex characteristics and male hormones patterns. There are people out there who have XY chromosomes, a penis, testes, female secondary sex characteristics and female hormone patterns. There are even people out there with XY chromosomes, testes, a vulva, a vagina, female secondary sex characteristics, and male hormone patterns and there are even people with BOTH male and female secondary sex characteristics at the same time and people with BOTH male and female hormone patterns at the same time regardless of their genes, gonads, and genitalia
And the thing is those people, the people with the “opposite” and/or “blended” secondary sex characteristics and “opposite” and/or “blended” hormone patterns are technically intersex assuming that the two sex system is absolutely true all the time. If there are only two sexes and there can only ever be two sexes and that’s it then all those hairy women and all those men with breasts and all those men with no noticeable body or facial hair and all those women with massive muscles and all that testosterone don’t actually count as “real” women/men and they are treated by the medical industrial complex and society alike as freaks, as anomalies, or as though they don’t actually exist because their existence breaks up the binary. In order for the binary to exist, to be real, all people everywhere must necessarily match up on all 5 markers of sex all the time. That’s not what happens in real life. In real life literally millions of people have bodies that are in some way contrary to the biological concept of the two sex system. Millions.
Millions.
And since there are millions of people out there who’s very existence defies the biological concept of a two sex system we have legitimate proof that the concept of biological sex is a social construct. Biological sex is a social construct. BIOLOGICAL SEX IS A SOCIAL CONSTRUCT. Seriously, biological sex is a social construct. It’s not real. It’s NOT something that is objective or unbiased or “natural.” The concept of biological sex is just as biased, UNobjective, and utterly flawed as the concept of gender is. Humans created biological sex just like they invented everything else. It’s a category that humans created and as such cannot be objective, can only be biased. It’s a category that humans created so they could categorize and control the world around them and when they started to discover people that didn’t fit into their idea of the way the category should function, when they started to discover trans* and intersex people they decided to hide those people, to erase those people, to ignore those people, to murder, destroy, pathologize, lock up, mutilate, and deny the very existence of those people. Rather than simply admit that the categories are wrong, are flawed, aren’t even real they chose instead to rigidly reinforce those categories at all costs even when the cost is the lives and well-beings of people.
So the next time you sit there and claim that biological sex is a real thing, is an objective thing, is an unbiased, immutable, unchanging, innate, natural thing remember that you are actively contributing to the persecution of every single person on this planet who doesn’t “fit” the way they’re “supposed” to. Remember that and think about what you’re doing. Remember that and think about the fact that trans* people and intersex people are PEOPLE, people who deserve the same rights and respect that all people deserve. Remember that biologcal sex isn’t even real, that the only reason you’re a woman and he’s a man is because some person somewhere arbitrarily decided to create the two sex system, a system that’s not real, has no basis in reality, a system that was socially constructed to help control people and their lives. Every time you hate on trans* people and try to claim that trans* women aren’t really women or that trans* men aren’t really men you are doing the same thing all those other people have done to you. You are arbitrarily creating socially constructed concepts and then using them to control people and their lives. You are being oppressive, you are instituting, perpetuating, and exploiting a power inequity. You are just as bad as all the patriarchal assholes you bitch about every single day of your life and, in fact, you are using their system - the system they created to oppress you - to oppress people in ways similar to the ways they’ve been oppressing you. You are not better than them and it could be said that you’re actually worse since you know first hand how shitty it feels to be oppressed like that and you’re so unsympathetic and blind that you’re actually willing to do it to others.
[i snipped a lot of the argument that preceeded this because the point is lovely on its own -Jaz]
When we realize that LOVE is not something we give or get from others— but the very essence of our own being— only then, do we stop seeking to monopolize, limit or control it in others.
Kamala Devi (via learningpoly)
I wish youd post more nudes of you and your partners
Do you follow our porn blogs?? We try to keep this one fairly safe for work, but we have several other blogs that would be the first place any nudes would show up!Princess ZeroCat
in a healthy, close relationship of any kind, when something upsets you, you need to bring it up. as soon as possible, even. cultivate an environment in which you both can talk about things that upset you, with the utmost attention to everyone’s feelings. it’s a really simple thing to do but it’s a thing i’ve been working on for a while and i’m getting actual nice things happening as a result
Of all my posts to go super big I’m glad it was this one
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You now may proceed in your now meaningful life, thank you for your time.
I am Fiona. Cat is Gumball. Zero is Marshall Lee. My best friend is Flame Prince. This is so accurate.
~Princess