Not like this hasnât been happening in the military for years.
Yep! My dad was in the Coast Guard during the Donât Ask Donât Tell era and one thing he mentioned was gay and lesbian service members marrying each other both for mutual bearding, and because married people got better housing.
Additionally my grandmother married one of her guy friends because her job offered dental insurance to employees and spouses and he needed some dental work done. They got married, processed the paperwork, got his dental problems fixed, made sure all the insurance payments went through, and divorced.
Two people getting married for the benefits has been going on as long as weâve had benefits to marriage, and if two women doing it is homophobic then I guess someoneâs going to have to tell my grandmother she was heterophobic.
like the thing thatâs an actual problem is that these benefits are dependent on marriage. that people need, as in the example above, healthcare and may not be able to afford it without insurance shared by a spouse (let alone the other rights only extended to those with a legal partnership)
Reminder: disabled people have the opposite. We canât marry ANYONE or we risk losing our benefits. It can work out if we are marrying someone who can support two people on one income, but that basically isnât a thing anymore, so.
Include us in your activism.
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