No don't :(

[plasmalink]

I theorize the reason "bottoms" appear more prevalent than "tops" on these types of spaces is that it is simply easier to be funny about being a bottom than about being a top without sounding like a sex offender

"uuuuu 🥺 pls cock me aaaaaaaa *runs into wall like Wile E Coyote running into his own tunnel painting*" easy as shit comedy

"I want to put my DICK in someone" whoa dude calm down, take it easy

[beyond-a-name]

No that's literally it. Kink is stigmatized in such a specific way that it's actually much more acceptable to say "I want to be stepped on" than it is "I want to step on them" or even "I want them to ask me to step on them."

Like it's much easier to find people talking openly about wanting to be submissive (which will be errantly called "bottoming" because being a sub is Ew Gross Kink) but once there's someone to available to actually facilitate that, it's Creepy.

[spindlephysalia]

it's coy and demure to be wanted, but it's violative to Want and that's normal and good and hasn't annihlated the ability of so many people to even communicate the fact that they can desire. God help you if you're queer or neurodivergent in that cultural attitutde.

[pleasedontfaptothis]

hell yea we transing genders?

Yeah, kinda! I'm sure there was plenty of hints years ago too. I'm not on hormones or anything, which.. isn't necessary for transitioning, but I guess that's kinda the point? Lot of tumblr stuff years ago made me comfortable realizing I can be different modes in different places. So more technically I'm more non-binary/bigenderish but who knows, maybe at some point I'll be a full time girl, but I'm happier now either way. You all helped me as much as I was trying to help all of you.

[pleasedontfaptothis]

I miss you, daddy. I hope you've been well.

God it's been years. some of you have to literally be daddys at this point.

Filthy perverts, breeding and getting bred IRL!!

[asian-vanillaicecream]

DADDY YOU'RE ALIIIIIIIVE

[pleasedontfaptothis]

Feeling a bit more Mommy these days, but yeah I'm around still 😭

[pleasedontfaptothis]

I miss you, daddy. I hope you've been well.

God it's been years. some of you have to literally be daddys at this point.

Filthy perverts, breeding and getting bred IRL!!

[ethernalium]

[pleasedontfaptothis]

it's always such a treat when i see you post again!

It's always nice when I see the rare fucked up tumblr post that I can still throw over to y'all!

[calugonpelayo-deactivated201805]

[rlmjob]

life hack

[sararkaye-deactivated20150323]

what in gods name

[sparxnfrost-deactivated20230102]

I formally add my vase to this thread… 😚😚😚

[sparxnfrost-deactivated20230102]

Reposting to get this on the top of my page again 😘

[acid-eater]

ドーラ・ドロン

[patt-off]

oh your pronouns are he/they?

well that’s mathematically incorrect becuase you can still simplify the fraction since both sides have “he”

making your pronouns technically 1/ty

[patt-off]

>:)

[ncah-czerny]

[umbralhorrors]

[pleasedontfaptothis]

Holy shit I’ve followed this blog since like 2016 I think and you have no idea the EXCITEMENT I felt when I saw a post on my dash. Welcome back buddy, even if it’s only for a couple days or something

I should at least be paying attention to stuff now and if I happen to bump into any tumblr posts that are quasi weird-horny I'll be sure to try and reblog them over here still. Honestly missed y'all too

[pleasedontfaptothis]

also god don't get me started on how not-porn does so much more damage than porn like god games and shit are so irresponsible with stuff. But people rather get mad at that niche stuff than find fault with the the issues in mainstream media they like.

[pleasedontfaptothis]

So like lemme start by making it clear that the general vibe of this? I fuck with it. I get it. I agree. The problem is VERY VERY RARELY the fringe weirdo artists and even those who are truly vile folk still pale in comparison to the influence of... vanilla porn and just like... TV. Small Fries. Instead most weirdo fringe artists symptoms of other factors, not a cause. That said, I don't think anyone was implying that they were? The Ghost of the 2-Year-Ago-OP-Who-Is-A-Different-Person-Now was clearly made uncomfortable by these images and I think there is a big difference between "You shouldn't bully fringe artists for their transgressive art cause it doesn't fucking matter and all you're doing is damaging an another human being just so you can feel like you have control over anything on this hellish dying rock we all live on" and "You shouldn't feel uncomfortable". Because feeling uncomfortable is very valid. Seeing the results of cultural influences and being upset by what you see is totally valid. If The-Ghost-of-OP was way more combative or was clearly leveling blame on artists, I wouldn't have replied like I did. Hell, I'd have trashed it two years ago. 😭

[pleasedontfaptothis]

i don't have much to say, just that i hadn't seen anything from this blog in a while and assumed it got purged. i'm glad it didn't. there's a lot of really interesting discussion about sex and sexuality on here, and it would have been a shame to lose.

It did get purged. Even my personal accounts got shot in the spambot nsfw purge so I didn't even get an email like the normal NSFW bans. It took about a year or so of hassling twitter support to unban me. If I didn't have some writing on a sideblog I didn't back up (big mistake) I probably would have just given up. Clearly this blog (or at least the image part) can't really reasonably exist on modern tumblr and that really limits the scope. I'm not really interested in trying to skirt the rules or reinvent the blog (I got other projects to sink my time into) but my DMs are still open and if someone asks something, I'm still down to respond. This blog was an important era for me, as helping other people talk through this stuff also helped me understand myself a lot better too.

[pleasedontfaptothis]

Why do men love to see women suffer so much and get turned on by it? Half of the stuff here is women obviously in pain

This is a bit strange to be answering after two years, but every time I check tumblr, this is my top DM and I keep thinking about it. Now that that twitter is on fire, I'm checking tumblr even more. 😭 So I just want to start by saying this is a reasonable take away and it's also understandable to feel like something is wrong when you look at the pics here (or whats left of them), but I don't think this is accurate. The problem here is that women totally get turned on by men in pain. Possibly more of them?? And they're frankly better at it??? Read enough fanfiction written by women and GOSH can you see the level of pure soul crushing despair they can inflict on fictional boys they actually like. Forget transforming into a dolphin or whatever, they'll write about the desolation of someone's soul or a homoerotic icepick lobotomy. Getting off to suffering is not a particularly gendered activity. Being a horny weirdo is not the sole domain of any gender.

What I think is going on here (and let me make it clear here, this is a broad generalization. I know exceptions in every direction) is... A portion of the porn that ends up here is made with either a lack of empathy or a lack of emotional clarity. Guys processing weird, gross feelings they haven't really figured out and who lack the social skills to relate to people, creating art that just has an..... air of toxicness to it.

I have sympathy, for this, honestly. Men are often raised in very... emotionally muting way. This is a nasty, cultural pressure and artistic expression, even if it's... goofy, or vile, or awkward... is probably better for the people around that person than them bottling it up. Part of why I spent years helping people with fetish stuff here is because you can TOTALLY be into some petty rancid stuff in a healthy way, but you gotta learn how to process that stuff. But some male artists (and honestly, some female artists too) instead fall into a kinda... idk... feedback loop of over indulgence and detachedness? Again this isnt' some gender essentialist shit, but the way we, as a culture, treat men and women differently has an impact on the art both make. I'm sure you don't care about any of this after 2 years lol but I had to answer it.

[pleasedontfaptothis]

This is literally the funniest way for this to end. Welcome to the masochist club 😭

[pleasedontfaptothis]

Why do men love to see women suffer so much and get turned on by it? Half of the stuff here is women obviously in pain

This is a bit strange to be answering after two years, but every time I check tumblr, this is my top DM and I keep thinking about it. Now that that twitter is on fire, I'm checking tumblr even more. 😭 So I just want to start by saying this is a reasonable take away and it's also understandable to feel like something is wrong when you look at the pics here (or whats left of them), but I don't think this is accurate. The problem here is that women totally get turned on by men in pain. Possibly more of them?? And they're frankly better at it??? Read enough fanfiction written by women and GOSH can you see the level of pure soul crushing despair they can inflict on fictional boys they actually like. Forget transforming into a dolphin or whatever, they'll write about the desolation of someone's soul or a homoerotic icepick lobotomy. Getting off to suffering is not a particularly gendered activity. Being a horny weirdo is not the sole domain of any gender.

What I think is going on here (and let me make it clear here, this is a broad generalization. I know exceptions in every direction) is... A portion of the porn that ends up here is made with either a lack of empathy or a lack of emotional clarity. Guys processing weird, gross feelings they haven't really figured out and who lack the social skills to relate to people, creating art that just has an..... air of toxicness to it.

I have sympathy, for this, honestly. Men are often raised in very... emotionally muting way. This is a nasty, cultural pressure and artistic expression, even if it's... goofy, or vile, or awkward... is probably better for the people around that person than them bottling it up. Part of why I spent years helping people with fetish stuff here is because you can TOTALLY be into some petty rancid stuff in a healthy way, but you gotta learn how to process that stuff. But some male artists (and honestly, some female artists too) instead fall into a kinda... idk... feedback loop of over indulgence and detachedness? Again this isnt' some gender essentialist shit, but the way we, as a culture, treat men and women differently has an impact on the art both make. I'm sure you don't care about any of this after 2 years lol but I had to answer it.

[pleasedontfaptothis]