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LILITH ASPECTS

DISCLAIMER: This post is about the conjunction to Lilith but other aspects will also be mentioned. This post is based on personal observations and not facts. Contains both positive and negative observations so please dont read if you are sensitive to negative observations about yourself..

LILITH/SUN: These people have a strong personality and are not as easily influenced by society as others. Might express themselves in a way thst comes across to others as sexy or aggressive. Extremely rebellious but fascinating. People with the trine/sextile are independent and sexual but able to be who they are without scrutiny from society. They understand the social structures and are able to not let their Lilith side ”take over”. People respond better to them than towards people with the negative aspects. People with the conjunction or square have VERY strong personalities that will intimidate a lot of people. Not afraid to speak their truth. Gets into conflicts often, especially with men because everything they do or say rubs people the wrong way. They refuse to be silenced. Very sexy and proud of it. A lot of admirers. Society wants to silence them. Very easily offended tho. The ego is weak.

LILITH/MOON: Uncomfortable around feminine energy. Picks up on everything around them without showing it. The kind of people to know that you are lying but wont say a word. Master manipulators. Scary intuition. Scary experiences with women. A lot of them have sneaky eyes or huge eyes. Their skin might be paler or darker than other from their cultural background. ”Moonface”. Breasts might be HUGE or the opposite very small. Able to shut down their emotions and become cold if they dislike you. They go through a lot of betrayal from other women, especially the square. Will definitely go through issues with feeling feminine. Attracts men with children. Might be disliked by their stepchildren. Motherhood is a sensitive subject. People with the Square or Opposition might feel torn between wanting to be a mother & wife and wanting to be independent. Most people Ive met with this had a super bitchy mother.

LILITH/MERCURY: Might protect thenselves by always having the upper hand. A lot of musicians have this placement and they might like to sing about darker subjects. Something dark about their music. They often have a dark relationship in some way to a sibling or cousin. Ive seen people with this placement get into some serious trouble because of a sibling or cousin. Could be a victim of something that they had to completely disassociate from. The mind could be dark and could say some twisted things. Could suffer from mood disorders. Might enjoy mindgames or turning people against eachother, spreading rumor, recording people etc. Could have a sinister mind or even suffer from tourettes. Very good with wordplay so rappers with this aspect will be very fortunate.

LILITH/VENUS: Something in their childhood made them realize the importance of looks and charm. Often a situation where they were rejected. Therefore they could be very competetive and some might even take it so far that they start home wrecking to show that ”I can take your man if I want to”. The need to feel desired is strong here. They love to express their sexuality through art and clothes. Extraordinary artistic talent is common here and also a talent in knowing how to please others. Might like to take sexy selfies. Could have a fascination with the popular and beautiful. Men with this placement if hetero can be attracted to women that society says they shouldnt be attracted to like the ”town whore” or a woman from a different religious background. Anyone whos ”forbidden”. Never call a person with this aspect ugly. The downside to this placement is they seem to attract people who are already in a relationship. Women with this aspect often feel a need to get work done because of early wounds surrounding their looks. People with the Square tend to struggle with the Madonna/Whore complex.

LILITH/MARS: People with this aspect might feel ashamed of their inability to express anger. Might be afraid of conflict. They can hold grudges for a VERY long time. Men with this placement might feel like they are not ”man enough” because Lilith here gives a very strong feminine energy to the way the person express themselves, move and handle anger and drive. He could have a hard time asking that girl out so he finds himself just standing there staring. People with the Square might swing between being overly aggressive and overly passive. Ive also noticed people with this aspect being super driven like running 3 different companies or having a lot of different degrees. Could have a talent in dancing, sports, martial arts or sex. The Square makes a person perfect for martial arts because these people can explode with physical energy. Sex could become an obsession.

LILITH/ASCENDANT: Women with Lilith/Asc will feel like their tears and cries for help arent taken as seriously as the other girls tears, people dont have the same empathy for them. Always 5 steps ahead of others. Tend to have moles or a leathery texture to the skin. Darker skin around the eyes. Megan Thee Stallion comes to mind because people are ruthless towards her. These people tend to draw out something crazy in others, especially others of the same gender. They come across as indestructable to the point people forget they are human with feelings. People comment on their body a lot. Might not click with people of the opposite gender well or the opposite they only click with the opposite gender. People refusing to speak to them. Men with this placement have a very dark vibe like Adam Levine, Russell Brand, Marilyn Manson and Alain Delon but tend to attract very beautiful women. Can make someone extremely driven and ambitious because from an early age these people learned how it feels like to be outcasted and powerless.

LILITH/MIDHEAVEN: Could be a spokesperson for sexual abuse or womens right. Could work with abuse victims. I know so many men with Lilith in the 10th house who have a reputation for being a douchebag/promiscuous etc. Might also be falsely accused of s*xual assault. Makes someone an expert at using whoredom to benefit their career like for example Sydney Sweeney who have this placement and she knows what people want to see and plays along. These people can be ruthless like if you are a treath to their reputation you have to go. But they can also be the type to not give a f. Tend to have very attractive bodies. A lot of heartthrobs have this placement. Could have a career or interest that others dont understand like Steve Irwin who have this placement.

LILITH CONJUNCT FAMA(408): Amber Heard have this conjunction and in my eyes shes a symbol of how men unfortunately always win. She has been outcasted from Hollywood and went up against a powerful man in court even tho it would cost her. Both men and women took joy in her ”downfall”. Shes become a symbol for ”crazy women” and her name is often used to diss women who press charges against a man. Megan Fox also have Fama conjunct Lilith in her chart and it took a toll on her career when she spoke up about being hypersexualized and abused by some big names in Hollywood.

LILITH CONJUNCT CERES(1): Often apart of the body positivity movement. Might have been shamed for how their body looks or experience a fixation with their body and eating habits. They could feel a strong need to go against the expectations of how women should look especially after pregnancy. Ive seen this aspect in the chart of a woman I know who often posts pictures of her stretch marks, cellulite and post pregnancy body. These people know better than anyone about the unrealistic expectations on women. Could be extremely drawn to motherhood or reject it completely. Might be intensely nurturing or be shamed for not being nurturing like a woman is ”supposed to”. These people might have experienced a lot of trauma related to the transitions in life like puberty, pregnancy, menopause.

LILITH CONJUNCT JUNO(3): The opposite of Madonna/Whore complex. These people know they want Lilith and they are not ashamed of it. They want to wife her. Attracted to the outcasted. They often want to rebel against what kind of partner they are expected to marry. Ive seen so many men with this aspect who married a lilith 1st house person. Their choice of partner might be met with crazy reactions from others. ”Are you with HER?? Why!?” The more others disapprove the more interesting it gets. People with the Square between Lilith and Juno might struggle between choosing someone socially acceptance or the person they really want.

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Obsession Indicators in Synastry 💋🔥💫

In synastry astrology, certain aspects between two individuals' birth charts can indicate a potential for obsession within a relationship. These aspects suggest an intense and all-consuming dynamic that may border on unhealthy attachment. It's important to note that the presence of these aspects does NOT guarantee obsession, but rather highlights the potential for such dynamics to manifest. Here are a few synastry aspects/astroids that may contribute to feelings of obsession:

Venus/Pluto Intense Aspects: Challenging aspects (such as conjunctions, squares, or oppositions) between Venus and Pluto in synastry can create a powerful and transformative connection. However, it may also lead to possessiveness, jealousy, and an intense need to control or possess the other person. This aspect can foster a deep emotional bond that may border on obsession.

Sun/Pluto Intense Aspects: Challenging aspects between the Sun and Pluto in synastry can create an intense and magnetic attraction. There may be a strong desire for power and control within the relationship, leading to feelings of obsession. This aspect can bring forth deep psychological transformations, but it also carries the risk of becoming possessive or manipulative.

Moon/Pluto Intense Aspects: Challenging aspects between the Moon and Pluto in synastry can bring about intense emotional experiences and a deep emotional bond. However, it may also lead to emotional manipulation, power struggles, and a tendency to become fixated on the other person's emotional state. This aspect can create an emotionally charged and potentially obsessive connection.

Mars/Pluto Intense Aspects: Challenging aspects between Mars and Pluto in synastry can generate a strong sexual attraction and a sense of intense passion. However, it may also lead to power struggles, control issues, and a tendency to become obsessed with dominance and manipulation. This aspect can create a dynamic that oscillates between intense desire and power dynamics.

Moon/Neptune Challenging Aspects: Challenging aspects between the Moon and Neptune in synastry can create a highly idealized and romanticized connection. While it may initially feel like a fairy tale, it can also foster unrealistic expectations and a tendency to become emotionally enmeshed or obsessed with the other person. This aspect can blur boundaries and lead to emotional dependency.

Amor: The asteroid Amor is often associated with deep and passionate love, which can border on obsession. When prominent in synastry, particularly through conjunctions or strong aspects to personal planets, it may indicate an intense infatuation and fixation on the other person.

Eros: Eros is an asteroid associated with erotic and sexual love. In synastry, strong Eros connections can create intense sexual attraction and desire that can sometimes verge on obsession. This asteroid's aspects to personal planets, especially Venus, Mars, and Pluto, can indicate a strong magnetic pull and a heightened intensity in the relationship.

Juno: Juno is an asteroid associated with committed partnerships and marriage. While not necessarily indicating obsession on its own, Juno's aspects to personal planets can reveal patterns of possessiveness, jealousy, and a desire to control or be controlled within the relationship. These aspects may suggest a potential for obsession to develop.

Nessus: Nessus is an asteroid associated with issues of power, control, and abuse. Its aspects in synastry can indicate unhealthy dynamics and potential for obsession, manipulation, and even abuse within the relationship. Caution should be exercised when interpreting Nessus aspects, as they can signal toxic patterns.

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Venus aspecting Chiron

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READ BEFORE YOU PROCEED: This post is is written about the conjunction between Venus & Chiron but people with Square & other aspects might relate to some of it, hence the title. This post contains both positive and negative observations. These are my personal observations and NOT facts. The whole chart has to be taken into consideration.

These people were often hurt in some way by their first love which had a huge negative effect on their self esteem. Most time the rejection was because of something that had to do with their looks or social status. It can be something super small like ”I dont like girls with glasses” but it still hurt.

This rejection often leads to a lot of years spent on trying to prove that they have worth by dating a lot of people or doing everything they can to look and be perfect. Or in worst case even letting themselves be used.

This pain also leads to them thinking that love is supposed to be painful. So they dont see the issue when their partner hurts them.

They are very sensitive and very good at putting themselves in other peoples shoes. They remind me a lot of Venus/Neptune. Because of this they often go for people who are broken or even problematic, because they see the person behind all of that.

People with this who are attracted to women will either be attracted to the damsel in distress or the stone cold bitch. Because both of these ”archetypes” are someone who needs healing.

They might be attracted to partners that cant be with them so they can keep this cycle of being rejected because thats all they know. OR they can also go for people who doesnt deserve them at all because they are so scared of rejection they might want someone whos ”glad to have them”.

Their low self worth not only affect their love life and social life but also their finances. Deep down they dont believe they deserve money which can make them less motivated to get money or spend it as soon as they get it.

Women with this aspect might have a feeling of not being a ”real woman”. Might feel like they arent feminine enough or not like other women. They can also be uncomfortable with people who act stereotypically ”feminine”.

There could have been a lot of competition between women in their family or even their own mother or siblings competing with them resulting in very painful experiences with women.

Their vulnerability is shown in them often having neotony and high trust facial features such as elevated brow ridges, prominent cheekbones, lower upper facial width-to-height ratio, rounded features and open lips. Which makes them the epitome of male gaze leading to a sex symbol status. Some of the biggest sex symbols have this placement. Ana de Armas, Sydney Sweeney, Megan Fox & Marilyn Monroe all share these features. And they have this placement.

Actresses with this aspect tend to do a lot of sex scenes bc they understand how to convey sex in a way others dont since they are extra sensitive to anything that has to do with art, sex and presentation. For example: Ana De Armas & Sydney Sweeney.

They also tend to do a lot of sex scenes because they want to ”give the buyer what they want” because of their strong need to please people using their looks(Venus). Bc of this they can be very easily talked into doing any kinds of scenes the producer wants.

For some reason people might like to diss their appearance. And when there isnt something to say, people will find something because Chiron shows where people subconsciously hurt us bc of sensing a vulnerability.

Olivia Rodrigo who have this aspect herself wrote a song that describes how these people usually feel: ”When pretty isn't pretty enough, what do you do? And everybody's keepin' it up, so you think it's you, I could change up my body and change up my face. I could try every lipstick in every shade. But I'd always feel the same. Cause pretty isn't pretty enough anyways” 🎼

They can be very drawn to plastic surgery & beauty procedures because they want to be perfect and they think outer beauty can heal their inner wound.

A misconception I often see about this placement is that people think this aspect would make someone unattractive. Thats definitely not the case. Usually the opposite from what Ive seen both irl and on celebrities.

Pain surrounding beauty doesnt have to be because of being unattractive. Being noticed too much for being goodlooking can lead to similar issues with self esteem. For example the poor Jon Benet Ramsey had this aspect and her mom made her dress up in adult clothes and makeup for beauty pageants. She was noticed for her appearance way too early.

Too much focus on their appearance in their childhood can lead to these people rejecting beauty completely. I have a friend with this aspect shes gorgeous and shes never colored her hair, never wears lashes or nails etc because she rejects everything connected to ”Venus”. (Not saying women have to or should like those things but its common my age)

So there are two types of Venus/Chiron people. Those who are almost obsessed with being good looking and those who reject it completely. Also those who are obsessed with money and those who reject money completely.

A lot of these people also let their appearance hinder them bc of things that are only in their head. Like not wearing t shirts or shorts bc of insecurities surrounding their bodies that nobody else sees.

The positive part with this aspect is that these people are usually very charming, kind and empathic. They are also very skilled artists because they understand art like nobody else.

When they finally heal their issues with femininity and worth they can finally flourish.

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Venus in scorpio/8th house/conjuct pluto/scorpio rising/pluto in 1st house: Malena

Envy, lust, provokes insecurities in others, provokes sexual desires, provokes fear and shame in others. Manipulative, controlling, abusive lovers. Men who are immature, infantile and puer aeternus are attracted to her, obsessed with her, want to use her, take advantage of her. Why do spiritually powerful women attract perverts and parasites? What is the pattern here? What is written in fates?

Charming, magnetic, sensual, feminine. Her silence captivates and threatens. Why doesn't she speak? What does she hide? Why is she so private? Why doesn't she smile? Why is she so powerful? Her life is transformed after marriage, after the news of death of her husband, after death of her father, after court trial where she was accused of adultery, after social beating and outcast. Her looks transform with seasons of life. Self destruction and reconstruction. Renewal of identity. Renewal of spirit.

Attention puller. Men of all ages are obsessed with her. She is so powerful that the whole town hates her. Witch hunting. Subject of sexual fantasies. Character assassination. Stalker, abuse, voyeurism, sex, sex and sex. Life is sex, life is libido. She corrupts everyone, a home wrecker? Nah, all she does is provoke the darkness and shame in men, just with her existence. Slut shaming and abuse. Insecure women are her enemy - if only they could see their ugliness. Death and rebirth, tragedy of life, dark days - darker than the darkest.

When I watched this movie, I found nothing funny about it. Not the silliest of jokes, not the desires of the kid boy. If anything, this movie was scary to watch because I know that women are actually treated this way, especially women with dark astrological placements. What is the life lesson here? Justice - we cannot trust the courts of law. What is the punishment for somebody's envy and insecurity? Darkness is treated with darkness. The strongest poisons make the best medicines.

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Venus in scorpio/8th house/conjuct pluto/scorpio rising/pluto in 1st house: Malena

Envy, lust, provokes insecurities in others, provokes sexual desires, provokes fear and shame in others. Manipulative, controlling, abusive lovers. Men who are immature, infantile and puer aeternus are attracted to her, obsessed with her, want to use her, take advantage of her. Why do spiritually powerful women attract perverts and parasites? What is the pattern here? What is written in fates?

Charming, magnetic, sensual, feminine. Her silence captivates and threatens. Why doesn't she speak? What does she hide? Why is she so private? Why doesn't she smile? Why is she so powerful? Her life is transformed after marriage, after the news of death of her husband, after death of her father, after court trial where she was accused of adultery, after social beating and outcast. Her looks transform with seasons of life. Self destruction and reconstruction. Renewal of identity. Renewal of spirit.

Attention puller. Men of all ages are obsessed with her. She is so powerful that the whole town hates her. Witch hunting. Subject of sexual fantasies. Character assassination. Stalker, abuse, voyeurism, sex, sex and sex. Life is sex, life is libido. She corrupts everyone, a home wrecker? Nah, all she does is provoke the darkness and shame in men, just with her existence. Slut shaming and abuse. Insecure women are her enemy - if only they could see their ugliness. Death and rebirth, tragedy of life, dark days - darker than the darkest.

When I watched this movie, I found nothing funny about it. Not the silliest of jokes, not the desires of the kid boy. If anything, this movie was scary to watch because I know that women are actually treated this way, especially women with dark astrological placements. What is the life lesson here? Justice - we cannot trust the courts of law. What is the punishment for somebody's envy and insecurity? Darkness is treated with darkness. The strongest poisons make the best medicines.

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SHAKING MY HEAD ASTRO NOTES PT.5

#unpopular opinion & # 18+ edition

🤦🏾‍♀️Why is it that people with mars in the 10th house get sooo much hate for literally existing, ppl find all reasons to not like them # weak as hoes # yes I am pressed!!

🤦🏾‍♀️ Uranus in the 1st house can you illiterate ass bitches shut the fuck up and stop screaming my name to shock or surprise me # you are not unique by doing that shit 😬!

🤦🏾‍♀️Mercury in the 12th house are never truly given the chance to speak up and voice their opinions ppl don’t give two fucks about what they have to say# sad 😞

🤦🏾‍♀️Moon /Mars conjunct Uranus are one of the most chaotic ppl ever # 🧠 🫠

🤦🏾‍♀️Aries stelliums/ 1st stelliums if not mixed with water placements really don’t have self conscious minds nor shame, they have a harder time realizing how they might have been impacted people negatively by their actions! Refusing to take responsibility !#me me me me first mentality 🫤! # Immature# underdeveloped

🤦🏾‍♀️Aquarius placements say it with me : IIE DONT LIKE TO BE WRONGGG!!! #period

🤦🏾‍♀️Jupiter in the 6th …….ummm is one of the most boring placements to have, like yeah we get huge job opportunities, and take great care of our health and body …but for some reason jupiters effects have trouble to really expand in this house especially if afflicted #replaceable at any time !

🤦🏾‍♀️Instead give me some Jupiter in 2nd or 4th house let that 💵 and 🏠 increase honeyyyy😍

🤦🏾‍♀️Mercury square /opposite Neptune, Neptune in the 3rd house stop being a pathological liar# we don’t trust y’all hoes 😒!!

🤦🏾‍♀️Why are we only talking about Composite Charts and Synastry when the Davison Composite Chart literally determines the main purpose and ending of ones relationship!!!!! #Well we are gonna talk about it soon 😉<;3

🤦🏾‍♀️I can’t wait to get out of this capitalistic, money hungry, hustle culture, social media fakeness , influencers and only fans, fake it till you make it and oblivious flex culture , PLUTO CAPRICORN TRANSIT# we are done with this one honey# let the next evolution begin #Pluto in Aquarius😚🎉!!

🤦🏾‍♀️But with Pluto in Aquarius be ready for social media to take its fall, Roboters , technology,aliens taking the world over. For new ways of living ! # transformation of societal structures #LGBTQ+ ? # freedom 🧐???

🤦🏾‍♀️Lilith in the 10th is also a placement that gets demonized by the public especially men for literally existing 😮‍💨# sick and tired of this shit

🤦🏾‍♀️Is it just me as someone who has a Taurus placement, feeling entitled to criticize other peoples food like I am Gordon Ramsay, picking everything on my plate apart, the smell, the taste, fresh meat, frozen beans, seasonings . Taurus ppl nose and mouths are very dangerous when it comes to food # Virgo placements too # chilleee.. lord have mercy on me # I am just playing 😋!!!

🤦🏾‍♀️If the the 10th house in ones chart doesn’t show how ppl perceive you from the jump of meeting you for the first time , then tell me why I am being called mean, aggressive, BITCHY, intimidating even though I barley even talk !!! 🤨. Mars in the 10th house # Capricorn 😡#. Vibes

🤦🏾‍♀️But after knowing me for a while ,they would be like ohh I didn’t know you were this kind, you just seemed so unapproachable , it was the rbf for me . I am like 👍😫!!! # Taurus Rising #Capricorn Rising #Aries Rising# Saturn in the 1st# Mars square Asc, Pluto Square Asc

🤦🏾‍♀️18+ : Lilith , Sappho , Erato, Eros, Nymphe, in gemini/3rd House we know that you guys love some nasty ass erotic films, sounds, voices, and noises they be owning a whole entire ^hentai collection^but nobody really knows abou it 😂😏📚📚📚📚!!!!! #naughty naughty 😈

🤦🏾‍♀️Lilith in the 4th house and their toxic mamas always trying to compete against them, make them feel inferior , less than …😖😖😖😖😖😖😭!# who the hell does that shit# don’t get kids if u want a copy version of yourself

🤦🏾‍♀️Lilith in the 1st/2nd house house have people disrespecting them, stepping over their boundaries, being obsessed with how the look, their body …..it’s quietly ridiculous 😔!

🤦🏾‍♀️Lilith in 11th attracting jealousy and envy from their peers! # only insecure bitches can’t stand them !!!

🤦🏾‍♀️18+: The Queen Titel of the kinkiest placement goes to Mars/Uranus ,Venus - Uranus, Aqaurius in the 8th, Uranus in the 8th we know that …………………………..BUT ….. what about Lilith - Venus/Mars/Pluto aspects , Lilith in the 8th aspects. # we know you are crazy kiiiiinkkkkky 😉🤫🥵⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️⛓️🔥🔥🔥🔥

🤦🏾‍♀️ Every time I met someone with a fire Mercury we always curse each other out for no reason at all like small children #i love it 🫣# Mercury in Leo, Mercury in Sagittarius, Mercury in Aries

🤦🏾‍♀️Once Taurus and Scorpio Placements are done with you ,best believe you’ll remain just as dust and air to them🫡# goodbye

🤦🏾‍♀️ Venus in Cancers like to be fed by their partners. Sit on their lap. Lay on them. Love to be called baby ! Maybe even breastfeed 🤱 #googoogaagaa bitch 🥹🤣🍼!

🤦🏾‍♀️ How to know if a Venus in Aries or Venus in Capricorn likes you ? Well if they are mean,BITCHY , sarcastic, provocative towards you making fun of your entire existence ,they surely like you😳. # jackpot 😍

🤦🏾‍♀️18+ : Mars in Taurus especially if aspected with Jupiter have very high libidos only for their partners. They like to constantly touch and feel their lovers body and the same in return bite meeeee 🔥🫦sluts !

🤦🏾‍♀️18+: Mars in Sagittarius, Aries, Mars - Jupiter /Mars- Saturn aspects can ride you like a 🐎 all night long #endless stamina

🤦🏾‍♀️18+ : While Mars in Capricorn are secretly horny ass slut waiting for their master to discipline and punish the shit out of them. They also have high expectations for their sexual partners to literally make them cum 15 times in a row, better not disappoint them #workaholic sluts 🤭🫶🏽!

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•~Milly~•

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Lilith

This poison tastes familiar, oh it's your blood.

When you have strong Lilith (true) in your chart, with sun/moon/ascendent especially hard aspects. Lilith themes would be so prominent in your life. Further, other aspects are to be considered, whether you have darker planets/squares more or soft/harmonic chart.

You being an outcast especially at the events which involve interactions. Either you would be alone or you'd be able to get along with everybody but nobody is like you (you relate to neither of them).

The men wanting you, at the same time disregarding your feelings, your ambition even. Like trying to say 'what would you achieve while doing it'. They don't look at how talented you are.

All or none principle. Either you would simp over a man for 100 years or you could never bat an eye to that person if you wanted to. You have that strong detachment, where nothing can get to your heart.

Being alone as you grow while your inner self just screams to let herself out. The urge gets stronger and stronger, until one final day it all pours.

Men getting in relationships/involved with another person who they seem to like a lot while you are associated with them. You could be friends or just started to like them and boom! They are committed. It happens as soon as you have certain amount of feelings, be it be romantic or platonic. This is a major theme as it happened with Lilith.

You leave an impact that no person can ever come close to. A place is reserved for you specially in the hearts. Because Lilith is what we fear but if handled properly, gives us so much. Just like how you achieve everything once you overcome your fear.

Harmonious aspects especially Lilith conjunct ascendent can get slightly addicted to the attention. You lose yourself. Because conjunctions are a smooth road, you don't realise things easily. In a sense, forgetting how things go when you get involved too much.

With squares, they hate it, even if it comes a bit close, the square is like a speed breaker and reminds of how things actually are. They avoid eye contacts at all costs. However, if they are insecure, they could be like conjunctions subconsciously.

Distorted view on s*x and related themes. Because, you came across them too soon, for someone who had barely even started to understand themselves. You never understand why people see you as the way they do.

Seen as someone with an agenda, wanting to harm them, people get so defensive, even if you get in a relationship, your person would be 100% possessive, you make them. Unless you have softer planetary aspects in your chart. It could be hell if you had fierce/dark planets or way too soft planets. Moon/Venus influence along with Lilith is a freaking magnet.

Having a dark beauty, a dark touch to everything. Your art would automatically be in a dark undertone. Dark circles (I only observed them with negative aspects). Skin so gorgeous, almost anyone getting attracted to it. The walk of the serpent.

People can never know when you enter, like you do so swiftly. Even when you walk, you make no sound but your energy does. People whispering that she is here.

That one person who would be extremely rude to you, like you'd get surprised, almost. You talk to the person next to them and they would tell you off. Funny thing, you don't even know them or never bothered to.

A theory but wherever your Saturn/Capricorn sign is what people feel you don't deserve. Example- Saturn in 1st, the God body, Capricorn in 10th, the fame and the growth in your career. Only when Lilith is under harsh aspects within 3° orb.

Heavy protectors of their families. Do something to them. Nothing. Touch their family, you will regret your life. People underestimate your abilities and overestimate something you never did.

Your friends not sharing things with you, like you could see on their face they are doing because they have to. The reason being you are seen as if you have everything. I have seen no Lilith woman who didn't radiate the energy of abundance.

Fear of being left alone when you need people the most and this nightmare sometimes comes true. People never support when you actually need. In fact they feel better about themselves. For example, you never said anything on purpose in any situation to your friend, but when it happens with you, they do the exact thing you didn't wanted to do with them.

Though Lilith women are rarely like this, but they have their bad days, could be a bad habit but no one will tell them that it's wrong. Or correct them. Another thing is people purposely would post your bad pictures when you tell them not to. A thing with Lilith square ascendent.

Obsessed people but stalk from afar, never coming close because the intensity scares them. Some people really try to avoid getting on your bad side. Like you have more distant spectators than active approaching ones.

A scary menacing aura, sometimes looks when combined with Martian/Saturn influence. Because it would be so edgy then.

Your touch is warm yet cold. People can never describe the way you touch. They may really like it however. It's like you give life, only a second after to take it away.

Sometimes, you might get too trusting of people, because deep down you hope that things would not be like previous cases. But you get disappointed. It's not your fault. Everyone deserves that love so why not you! Because this is Lilith, this is how she became who she is, she learnt that she doesn't need anyone and is more than sufficient. Embrace her and she will never your side.

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What are the underrated placements that gives off pretty privilege?

ʚ♡ɞ underrated beauty placements ✧･ﾟ: *✧･ﾟ:*

disclaimer: these are merely my opinions based on my personal observations and experiences.

Saturn in the first house: these individuals have the most beautiful cheekbones and facial structures. They can even have very clear skin, aging like fine wine. One of my close friends has this and she is drop dead gorgeous but she’s so hard on herself and critiques her image harshly, the shadow side of that Saturn influence.

Venus-Saturn aspects: these people can have a very awkward or ugly duckling stage. They could feel like as a child they were never the adorable or cute one, maybe viewed as more serious or polite etc. However, as they get older and invest in their looks, bodies, and self care they bloom beautifully. Truly the masters of glowing up. Also, my bestie has 7h Venus trine 3h Saturn and she just started thrifting and shes in love with her outfits. She gets so many compliments daily now and it makes so much sense because she's working with that energy by shopping for vintage/ older or used clothes (saturn) around her neighborhood (3h) and incorporating them in her style (venus) she has come up with some lovely outfits and gets praised in her relationships (7h).

Venus or mars in the sixth house: these are the people that their coworkers always easily crush on them or while they’re taking public transportation someone can’t stop staring at them. Easily they could meet someone while they’re running errands and they’ll fall in love with them hahaha

9th house placements, especially Pluto, Sun, Jupiter, Venus: they are an endless stream of knowledge. They sound smart as fuck when they speak and that is very attractive to me haha. They don’t just like to learn, they find purpose in it. They are philosophers for sure.

3rd house placements, especially moon, Venus, Jupiter and sun: 9th house placements want the bigger meaning but 3rd house placements find the beauty and purpose in the smallest of things and details. And it’s soooo adorable. These are the people that know the most random facts haha or have super random talents. A jack of all trades.

Ascendant-Uranus aspects, Uranus in the first or tenth house, Aquarius sun, moon, aqua rising, aqua Venus: their beauty is sooooo fucking refreshing. It’s new and exciting and doesn’t conform to any societal standards or restrictions. Aqua placements in general are always the people motivating others to forget about the rules in true aqua fashion of course haha. And I have an aqua 12h so they really help me when it comes to my subconscious fears. When I met my aqua moon bestie I felt like I leveled up in sooo much with her support, in style, mental health etc. These are the people ahead of the game in beauty, fashion, and pretty much everything else. For example, Aaliyah was an aqua rising and her beauty looks are very similar to styles now and her music videos incorporated a lot of futuristic components... again that energy of being ahead of the game.

gemini sun, venus and rising: we cannot leave gemini placements out of this equation. Beautiful, witty, creative, funny... the beautiful hands, unique smile (ik geminis who HATE their smiles but they smile sooo lovely to me) and they can also have slim frames and long legs. they are fairies. 🧚 even gemini men have that mischievous smirk on their face haha they can easily charm people as well.

cancer sun, moon, venus, rising: I have already stated previous times im a simp for cancer placements lmfaooo BUT we should never leave them out of these discussions. These are the people that have big shiny eyes with long lashes, clear skin, very much "dark prince/ princess" energy. They are intense. Idk why there is this image that cancer placements are these cuddly care bears. like yeah maybe a care bear that can stab you. The point is that they are hot <3 cancer placements say thank u to your parents for the dna ok

scorpio rising, pluto in the first house, pluto in the 10th house, sun-pluto aspects: plutonians always have some haters. why? because they're hot. no but seriously, they consistently receive extreme reactions to ANYTHING they do. and how sick for the haters bc the plutonian still shows up everyday unbothered and attractive.

neptune-venus aspects: doesn't matter if its a harsh or harmonious aspect, I've stated before that these individuals have a very dreamy look to them. Even when they're exhausted and have eye bags they look magical, like they just wandered in from someones dream. I feel like these individuals can really get away with dressing up in very interesting and weird ways haha, like it can still look very good on them.

aries suns, moon, rising, venus, mars in the first house: LMFAOOO the biggest fiery babies. they have so much energy and enthusiasm and it can be contagious. they hate being underestimated and its always fun watching them in action. they will make sure you never forget them and they do that just by being themselves.

mercury-venus aspects: can make you fall in love after just one conversation with them. Charming, poetic, funny. They can also be sarcastic as fuck, which is also a bonus in my book.

jupiter-neptune aspects: easily recognized for their dashing appearance, they can seem glamorous, almost untouchable. they are mesmerizing. They are also very charitable people... these are the people that do a lot of good acts of service and choose to remain anonymous.

virgo risings, virgo venus, virgo moon, virgo mars: the energy manifests itself a little differently depending on the planet and placement but overall virgo placements have such strong expectations on themselves, they can absolutely break themselves down in the ways they judge themselves. For example, Bella Hadid is a Virgo Venus and in an interview she stated she regrets getting plastic surgery on her nose or Kim K also a Virgo Venus and has expressed her fears on aging... there is this intense fear of not having control. However virgo placements don't realize just how truly beautiful they are, trust me when I say that other people are not going to obsess over that minor detail or small imperfection the way you are. It reminds me of that quote, "You are so used to your own features that you don't know how beautiful you look to a stranger."

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ﾟ･:,｡★ ASTEROID MERLIN #2598

ﾟ･:,｡★INTRODUCTION

ﾟ･:,｡WHO WAS MERLIN?

Merlin is a mythical prominent figure prominently featured in the legend of King Arthur and best known as an enchanter or wizard, among his various other roles. He could battle gods single-handedly, instantaneously teleport anywhere in the world, or summon mythological creatures to do his bidding. He also possessed astral projection, telekinesis, reality manipulation, and the ability to bring anyone back to life. Often, he could use his magic by speaking backward. Merlin's traditional biography casts him as a being born of a mortal woman, sired by an incubus, from whom he inherits his supernatural powers and abilities, most commonly and notably prophecy and shapeshifting. Merlin matures to an ascendant sagehood and engineers the birth of Arthur through magic and intrigue.

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LILITH IN THE HOUSES: Pros & Cons

These are my personal observations on people around me and not facts.

1ST HOUSE

Pros: Naturally comes across as confident even if they are not. Good looks. Intelligent.

Cons: Being the elephant in the room. Being sexualized and outcasted. Unable to go unnoticed.

2ND HOUSE

Pros: Good at making money, beautiful lips, sexy voice, magic hands.

Cons: Attracts envy from others, greedy, financial problems. Questionable morals. Might feel drawn to criminal activity.

3RD HOUSE

Pros: Intelligent, always an ace up your sleeve, good at sweet talking. Poker face.

Cons: Intrusive thoughts, might have suffered mental abuse, might come across as faking of sarcastic even when you are serious. Issues with siblings. Bullying in early school years. Lying.

4TH HOUSE

Pros: Intuition, can survive anything, protective over yourself and others, a lot of integrity.

Cons: Bad relationship with women, issues with femininity, toxic mother.

5TH HOUSE

Pros: Social, popular and charming. Beautiful hair.

Cons: Attention seeking, issues with kids.

6TH HOUSE

Pros: Great work ethic, comes across as put together

Cons: Too critical, impossible standards and expectations on yourself and others

7TH HOUSE

Pros: Gets who they want, charming and social, knows by instinct what their partner needs.

Cons: Attracts very weird and destructive people, gets obsessive over partners.

8TH HOUSE

Pros: Powerful. Always have the upper hand. S*x with them is like magic.

Cons: Loss of boundaries and self control when it comes to sex, too vengeful for their own good. Attracts stalkers.

9TH HOUSE

Pros: Fights for equality, good at discovering the truth.

Cons: Loss of faith in life, feels trapped where they grew up.

10TH HOUSE

Pros: Calculating, makes friends in high places easily. Beautiful facial features and body structure.

Cons: Gets a bad reputation easily, seen as a homewrecker. Obsessed with status and power.

11TH HOUSE

Pros: Humanitarian, protector of the underdogs and the outcasts, wants to change the world for the better

Cons: Never feels accepted, bullying. Outcasted and avoided by the ”in” crowd.

12TH HOUSE

Pros: Psychic, excellent judge of character, comes across as innocent.

Cons: Gets addicted easily, too sensitive, gives too much without getting anything back.

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synastry and composite observations: pt 1

synastry

- venus opposite mars is HOT and better than the conjunction (imo) if you like a push and pull dynamic in a relationship. the attraction is off the charts and both energies feel balanced by the other.

- venus in the 8th house means neither person will ever forget the other. it feels like there is so much history between the two and feelings will last even if a breakup happens lmao

- when venus falls into the 7th house in synastry, the venus person is infatuated with the house person, viewing them as their ideal partner

- the chemistry with moon conjunct ascendant is palpable, they have a genuine telepathic connection. these two can almost feel the other person thinking about them even if they’re not physically together. outsiders can sense it too lmao it cannot be hidden

- JUNO CONJUNCT JUPITER bby i can’t it’s my fav. juno and jupiter were actually married in mythology so these are natural partners. the juno person is completely devoted to jupiter and ADORES them. such a happy, genuine connection

- lilith in the fifth and lilith in the 8th. girl these couples be getting UP to shit in the bedroom lmao these are great placements for sex

- south node conjunct the ascendant (or north node conjunct the descendant) will recognise one another immediately. there is a sense of having met before, an ease or a comfort comes with taking to each other. they have a past life connection and are infatuated with each other

- moon in the 9th is so sweet. they love travelling and experiencing new things together. they have similar beliefs and outlooks on life and the moon person could look up to the house person and admire them for who they are.

- moon, mars or venus in the 9th can also mean that the two come from different backgrounds or cultures. maybe you’re foreign to each other or maybe one comes from a rich family and the other doesn’t

- mars square neptune. i need a moment. this is HIGHLY sexual and the mars probably wants to dominate the neptune and fantasises about it too

- moon in the 12th house absolutely adore each other. both people feel comfort knowing that the other completely understands them, there is no need to explain themselves. moon person is more tender and gentle towards the house person than they are with others

- a first house stellium in synastry with no water house overlays can indicate a one night stand type or friends with benefits situation

- sun opposite moon is a gorgeous aspect. both partners are fascinated by one another and attracted to each other’s personalities

- moon conjunct or trine mars at a tight orb. OOF the sexual tension is through the roof

- venus in the 6th is sweet (especially if it conjuncts the descendant too). the venus person will literally do anything to see the house person smile.

- mars in the 3rd means the mars will be attracted to the house’s voice. STRONG dirty talk placement lmao

- moon conjunct moon or moon in the 4th are some of the most comforting aspects/placements to have in synastry. there was an immediate comfort and trust between the two, a loving, warm connection

composite

- gemini moon in composite is my FAVOURITE lmao these two burst out laughing at each other every 2 seconds. also SO much playful teasing

- aquarius sun in composite is ‘best friend couple’ vibes, so cute

- scorpio rising or midheaven in the composite indicates a POWER COUPLE

- venus in the composite first house means the couple are attractive and ‘look good together’ to others

- moon in the fifth how does it feel being god’s favourite couple? they just have so much fun together and no matter how long they’ve been in a relationship, this joy never fades

- north node in cancer hints at a deeply intimate, long lasting relationship

- mercury in cancer or pisces in composite shows a couple who speak gently and kindly to each other and outsiders notice this, it’s so sweet

- mars in the first are always doing something lmao. they are seen as an energetic, active couple by outsiders and are probably always touching each other/ looking at each other at public gatherings

- jupiter in the tenth means both partners help each other expand their careers. by being together, their careers improve

- composite lilith in leo LOVE to please one another. there is incredibly strong sexual attraction and compatibility

itscupidsaki

Synastry placements & observations 💘

Disclaimer: I am not a professional astrologer. I am doing these for fun. This post is based off my own observations and research that I have done.

💕 Venus conjunct ascendant makes the Venus person admire the ascendant person’s appearance and persona. Venus may view them as their ideal type, though it can become a very superficial attachment, especially if there aren’t any other supporting harmonious aspects. Overtime, the Ascendant person may feel as if the Venus person only appreciates them for their looks, rather than their other qualities. When in a very tight orb, it can give the feel of ‘Love at first sight’.

🦋 Moon in the 8th is an incredibly intense and transformative connection, full of tears and heartbreak. The house person may grow overly obsessed over the moon person, to the point it’s intoxicating. The moon person might not even be aware of the house persons feelings. With such a strong mental bond, it can repulse a lot of people, especially if they’re not used to the intensity of it.

🌸 Uranus conjunct/trine/sextile venus. The Venus person feels accepted by the Uranus person to express themselves freely. This makes the Venus person very comfortable and content to be around the Uranus person. Uranus-Venus creates a very exciting dynamic which is unpredictable yet magnetic. Uranus conjunct/square/opposite Venus. The Venus person may sometimes feel judged by the Uranus person, who might think Venus comes across a bit ‘weird’.

❄️ With Jupiter in the 9th, the Jupiter person can bring expansion into the house persons views and knowledge. The Jupiter person can almost seem like a mentor or teacher for the house person. They could also bring them a lot of abundance and encouragement within their lives. E.g motivating them into completing a project. It can also bring a connection towards travelling together.

🌿 Moon in the 5th creates a very fun connection between two people. They find entertainment and joy within one another. The house person may find that the moon person is someone that want to spend a lot of their free time with.

🌎 Planets in the 4th, can make the house person comfortable around the planet person. They’re not afraid to express themselves and be vulnerable around them. Both parties can feel like being right at home.

💕 6th house synastry, can make the planet person be supportive towards the house person in everyday life. They may be able to help each other with work or do little things for them. Which gives me the love language of ‘acts of service’ and ‘quality time’. I do think 6th house synastry is important for romantic relationships, as it does represent daily routines/everyday life and having that connection together.

🦋 Pluto aspecting the ascendant. The Pluto person may feel a need to control and have power over the ascendant person. If aspected positively, Pluto person will allow the ascendant person to go through many transformations within their period together, in order grow and develop. Whereas if aspected negatively can cause power struggles between both or control issues from the pluto person’s side.

🌸 Pluto conjunct, square or opposite moon. Literal hell. I’ll argue that this is the most intense and painful synastry aspect, as Pluto the planet of destruction is effecting your moon; your mind, vulnerability and deepest emotions. This can bring the moon person much pain and mental trauma, if both parties aren’t responsible within the connection. A very obsessive connection, where the moon person feels like they cannot live without the pluto person and the pluto person instead wants to be in control of the situation. If either one chooses to betray the other, love and obsession will very quickly turn to pure hatred, similarly to Mars-Pluto. Though with moon-Pluto, the moon person may give the Pluto person more chances, as they’ll ignore the red flags at first.

💍 Sun conjunct moon can be found in the charts of many married couples. It brings a familiarity from both sides, even feeling like a ‘soulmate’ type connection. Sun represents father and moon mother/wife, which makes the pair see each other as marriage material/ long term partners.

🌿 Having Sun, moon or ascendant in the same sign, (person 1: Leo ascendant, person 2: Leo sun) gives a feel like they can understand each other, due to their similarities.

❄️ Chiron conjunct/trine/sextile Venus is considered to be a preferred aspect for long term connections, as it shows the Venus person is able to help heal the wounds of the Chiron person. Chiron square and opposition is challenging and instead of healing, it can instead cause more pain for the relationship. Though both sides would have to work together for this connection to be strong. Venus square Chiron can be found in relationships with different backgrounds, showing there might be outside challenges to overcome, e.g different cultures and aiming to get accepted by families.

🌎 Saturn aspects are ideal for long-term connections. Specifically Harsh aspects (conjunction, square, oppositions) are binding and difficult to leave.

💕 Moon - Venus aspects are so loving and incredibly romantic. They show each other extravagant displays of affection and often have the love language of gift giving. The Venus person adores the emotional side of the moon person and the moon person admires the Venus person’s charm and persona. This makes for very cute couples. I imagine star gazing, roses and the cliche stereo music outside of the house.

🦋 Mars - Moon can give for very sensual tension. Mars is impatient and craves the moon person, though the moon person doesn’t give in too easily, the moon person presents themselves as this nurturing figure for the Mars, seducing them. Though the Mars person may get annoyed at the moon persons child-like nature, and even poke fun at them, which might upset the moon person. On a more platonic level, the Mars person may get easily annoyed at the moon person or how sensitive they are.

🌸 Stellium opposite stellium. This is an ‘opposites attract’ type of relationship. It’s almost like you’re interacting with your polar opposite, portraying all the qualities you lack. This can almost seem like a soulmate type of connection, due to the balance created within this. Though highly fascinated by each other, there will be friction with the amount of oppositions and strong energy from both stelliums. A lot of excitement, drama, heartache and magnetism.

❄️ Lilith - Mars/sun = Intensity, a lot of attraction, excitement and a hint of danger. Power clashes. Lilith - Venus = Venus admires lilith’s dark side and energy. Though Lilith dominant relationships can have a feel of forbidden energy with it.

🌿 Mars aspecting Mars is literal wars. Joking around, playful teasing and fights. There’s almost a riveraly between each other, with battles and clashing over minor inconveniences. Can easily trigger and annoy each other more than others. Though the sensual chemistry will be compatible.

🌎 You may feel a strong attraction towards someone when your chart ruler is in contact with their Venus or Mars.

Having 100% compatibility doesn’t = best relationships. So don’t worry if there are incompatible factors in a chart or squares and oppositions. Because this will allow you to grow from the connections as they bring to table elements you might be lacking. Having planets in the 7th will always create oppositions and is this bad? No, we seek the qualities of our 7th house. Some of my best and most exciting relationships have almost been somewhat incompatible.

Lots of love & Luck

ItsCupidSaki 🕊

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The best, the worst, and the most instense synastry aspects I’ve experienced

Note: this isn’t a post about the best aspects - or the worst - a synastry chart can have, there’s no universal good or bad, only energy. This post analyzes the aspects I have personally experienced in different relationships throughout my life and how they manifested in the connection.

A single synastry aspect will never be enough to define a connection, as it’s very important to look at the chart as a whole and find a way to balance things out. If you’re interested in synastry or natal astrology, I’d advise you to get a chart interpretation done by a professional. Find out more here!

The best

Moon conjunct Asc (ascendant/rising sign) (☾ ☌Asc): one of the safest, most harmonious and tranquil relationships I have ever had. With this aspect there’s mutual intuitive understanding, comfort, and a feeling of “coming home” when together. The Moon person trusts the Asc person, which helps make the latter more empathetic and understanding. Both feel at ease with each other and easily open up about memories, thoughts and traumas they were reluctant to share with others, or perhaps never discussed openly before. This aspect usually brings personal healing for both partners with it. Both parties benefit from it and have the potential to better themselves here. The emotional connection is very strong and usually doesn’t take a lot of time to reach a deeper level. Two important downsides of this aspect are the possibility of becoming too dependant on one another and the naturally very emotional nature of the relationship which not everyone could be ready to handle.

A similar energy to the Moon/Asc conjunction is created by a Moon/Moon conjunction.

Jupiter trine Pluto (♃ △ ♇): this aspect manifested in the connection through constant respect, inspiration and support of each other’s ideas. We were able to bring each other up and set realistic goals for what otherwise would’ve just stayed a dream. In this aspect Jupiter can often help both partners further develop their spirituality. It’s also a great aspect when it comes to money, as it can bring abundance to both partners in the relationship, especially through those ideas they were able to come up with together. Even if the relationship doesn’t last, this aspect will ensure both the parties underwent profound change together and are now better versions of themselves. The Pluto person captivayes Jupiter by how deeply emotionally raw they can be, and this helps the Jupiter person get in touch with their emotional side as well. In turn Jupiter helps Pluto open up to different exoer more. Together this duo can travel, be very fortunate, and find natural understanding in one another.

Sun conjunct Mercury (☉ ☌ ☿): this aspect in synastry provides the pair with endless interesting conversations. Natural understanding between the two is favored by the Mercury person reflecting who the Sun person really is. Conversations can go on for hours ranging from deep thoughts to daily mundane topics. Both partners usually learn a lot in this relationship, not only by discussing almost anything, but also from trying nex things together out of curiosity. Conflicts are usually resolved in a logical and light manner rather than soul crushing fights. The sense of humor shared by the partners is amazing, as well as the respect and support for each other’s ideas and projects.

Moon trine Mercury (☾ △ ☿ ): here the Moon person finds a new way of expressing themselves and possibly find it in them to discuss topics they have never shared before with anybody else. The partners usually share common interests and hobbies, and enjoy each other’s company. It’s a relaxed, nurturing, encouraging and positive connection. There’s mutual support and an emphasis on going after their dreams!

I had a similar supportive energy (but more mentally enthralling) with a Mercury/Mercury trine

The worst

These aspects are always challenging in synastry, but never impossible. The way these energies manifested in my life were also influenced by the rest of the synastry charts. For the right people, all of these can be amazing encouragements for betterment and growth.

Saturn opposite Pluto (♄ ☍ ♇): an aspect I unfortunately had to repeat in several relationships before learning my lesson, the energy here is serious, controlling, limiting, explosive, domineering and destructive. It is a hard aspect to balance, and is usually expressed by the Saturn person trying to limit and change Pluto’s nature, blaming them for the feelings of instability in the relationship. The Pluto person projects their deepest wounds and unhealed trauma onto the relationship and their partner. When triggered Pluto can be explosive and destructive, which is uncontrollable no matter how hard Saturn tries to keep things cool. Resentment, pain and feelings of inadequacy are often triggered in both partners.

Mars opposite Saturn (♂☍ ♄): this aspect is very domineering and can make both partners try to impose themselves on the other, resulting in conflict and fights. To work this opposition requires various compromises on both sides. Both partners admire the other, but they feel like they’re always in competition and need to prove their worth. Feelings of resentment aren’t uncommon. The partners aren’t totally ready to accept each other’s difference and although there’s usually a lot of sexual tension, the Saturn person might distance themselves once intimacy is achieved between them. Often this aspects makes the two partners bring out the worst in one another.

The most intense

Venus conjunct Black Moon Lilith (♀ ☌ BML): very intense connection, instant sexual attraction, a lot of desire. This can have an obsessive quality for both, but for the Venus person especially, it may be hard for them to really let go or forget their oartner, even years down the line. There’s something secretive and taboo about this connection. It could be kept a secret for some time, or be a “on again, off again” type of relationship. If that’s the case, the Lilith person is usually the one trying to maintain their independence and being resistant to a long term commitment. This aspect can also indicate knowing that someone’s not good for you but going after them anyway: the desire is so strong it overpowers will. Even if the relationship ends, there will always be mutual attraction between these people.

Mars conjunct Asc (♂☌Asc): pretty self explanatory, a lot of drive, sexual energy, crazy attraction. A good sexual compatibility.

Pluto conjunct Mars (♇ ☌ ♂): this energy is like Mars conj Asc but on steroids. Extreme attraction and magnetism, it’s transformative, raw and intimate. It can at times lead to power struggles. It can also easily become obsessive; it is difficult for both partners to not think or forget about the other, especially for the Mars person. Very much physical, this energy isn’t soft and sensual like Moon/Venus aspects. It’s deep, obsessive, raw, almost impossible to stop. The attraction between the two people is usually immediate and sparks are flying from the moment they meet. A very intense and overwhelming aspect, this energy finds release through sex. This energy however can also trigger both parties to violent or agressive responses, and usually burns out pretty quickly. In my persona experience, ending a relationship fueled by this intensity is difficult and usually changes both people in the end. It can be very hard to let go.

Moon trine Mars (☾ △ ♂): obviously a very favorable aspect for the relationship, the sexual attraction and chemistry between us were insane! This aspect was expressed by a spontaneous, immediate, lasting and passionate attraction between us. The partners ususally help one another, the Moon person by nurturing Mars emotional side, and Mars by helping their partner archieve courage and strenght. It’s a beautiful aspect and can help a relationship last.

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could you tell me about opinion lilith conjunct ascendant in synastry ? thankyou so much for answer :) may your day be filled with many beautiful things🌹

Synastry - Lilith conjunct Ascendant

there's a lot of temptation, fascination and recognition with this aspect.

the ascendant person sees lilith as someone who's wild and intense, who pushes them to accept and express their darkest side of themselves. the lilith person will make the asc person do more wild things, things that are not socially acceptable. they're going to make them more promiscuous and embrace their independence/rebellious side of themselves. lilith wants the asc to lose control. they can also be triggered by the asc person to speak up, cause the asc expresses themselves openly while the other part doesn't do that.

you obviously need to look at the whole chart to see if this connection can work out or not

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