Alt kink account, contains preg/tummy/etc content, Minors DNI under any fucking circumstance, asks n suggestions (enthusiastically) open :) frothing @ the mouth over altpreg content, Queer creator, aroace aka loveless meat faggot
Mid 20s, They/Them (Nb genderqueer, questioning they/him??? I am lost)
Made it over to tumblr! I'm a preg/altpreg artist who actively froths at the mouth over tummies :)
Minors will be deleted from reality itself by my hand, do NOT. FOLLOW ME. Tell me if I tag something wrong as well, please!
Note: I am aroace and attracted to the bodily aspect of kink, not the sex part of it. The way I come across with certain things may be different than expected!
Open to RP but very selective. Like, very.
Feel free to drop an ask/request! I take fantasies and ideas :)
time to get on my high horse for a sec. People in this community---and in the world at large---absolutely MUST unlearn the idea that pregnancy is inherently something that is done to someone.
Obviously this is a part of the fun for some people, and there's nothing wrong with that, but it's pretty clear that a lot of people have this idea of pregnancy as a transitive action completely ingrained in their minds. This frames pregnancy as an intrinsic act of power, something that one party inflicts over another. I see this constantly. And I do mean constantly.
This is a reflection of millenia of sexism, under which women (and those forced to live as women) are pushed into the role of passive victim and men (and those forced to live as men) are pushed into the role of active perpetrator. And it's just... not true. Pregnancy is in fact something that's mostly done by one person and that's the pregnant one. It is an active thing---that a carrier does. Completely solo, sometimes, if they use nonstandard fertilization methods.
Which is to say: 1. By all means go ahead and keep using pregnancy in your power dynamic fantasy, but do it with the conscious awareness that this is fantasy. And 2. please make more hot shit about people getting pregnant as a power play im begging you pleeeeeeeaseeee
1- Your sona is absolutely adorable and should be drawn more (by other people if you're comfortable with that)
2- What is your limit on how big a preggy belly could be?
That's very sweet of you, thank you! I would totally be cool with that, fanart is amazing.
Size wise, once it starts being proportional to the body or taller than the torso, I tend to lose interest. Highest I personally go is low-end hyper unless its a specific situation I'd say.
performing psychological warfrare on a friend again. also this style is really hard to figure out this looks low effort (because it is) I barely cared for this show but yknow
r/bbit but something is clearly obviously slightly different hmmmmmm.
Just released my Paralives Pregnancy kink modpack! It was labelled as explicit (good job tumblr) so I am also talking about it here where the post can hopefully actually be seen. Feel free to take a look!
Why hello there!!! I've decided to finally release these little doodads I made for the pregnancy/belly freaks in the Paralives community. I've cut these up into three different mods so you can mix and match on what you want!
MOD PACK DOWNLOAD
Initial Notes
To install, place INDIVIDUAL unzipped folders into: C\Users[userhere]\AppData\LocalLow\Paralives\Paralives
You can change the size of your para's pregnancy slider without them actually being pregnant. Open the command console with CTRL + SHIFT + C and type in SetSlider StomachPregnant with a value from 0 to 1 at the end. Case sensitive.
The largest size of the belly is BIG. The idea of this mod is to give people who want a variety of sizes a range they can use by manipulating sliders.
These work on all adult body types!
Known Issues
There is an issue with the pregnancy idle animation that plays when the game detects that your para is a certain distance along in a pregnancy. When messing with the number of visual updates as done in the third mod, this can trigger earlier or later. I do not know how to fix this at the moment so please be aware of this. There is likely something in brain logic that can be edited but I do not have those skills yet.
Along with this, there is a set animation that plays where the para will rub their stomach. I do not have enough animation and modding experience to make multiple animations for the different sizes, nor to alter it in general. Please be aware of this. This is also made more difficult considering there would have to be another animation made for every step of growth, so again, there are things that may be bothersome and I apologize for that! This is directly tied to the visual update phases, which is the third mod.
Certain clothing with accessories on top like added buttons or ties will clip, which sucks but it is what it is. You would have to go in and edit each outfit to appear differently while a para is pregnant.
1-Bigger Belly Morph
Exactly what it sounds like! I edited the pregnancy morph to make it much bigger. It looks a bit absurd at the full size but that kind of is the point.
2-Pregnant Navel Skin Detail
Little skin detail available in the character creator! It automatically matches to the color of the skin given to the para so it works with all tones.
3- Fluid/Gradual Belly Growth
Instead of there being only 2 steps of growth for the belly, the size/slider will update 200 times over the course of the pregnancy! Refer to the bug section as this one does cause the most "visual" problems in terms of animation.
Please enjoy and let me know if anything isn't working!!
the thing is like. i get that it's scary and makes people who do desire to get pregnant uncomfortable when we talk about the brutality and violence of pregnancy and the damage that pregnancy can do to your body
but you deserve to give informed consent to that process.
the lies around pregnancy - that it's inherently safe, that it doesn't do you permanent damage, that it's only extremely rare for people to die of pregnancy complications, etc like
all of these are lies constructed so that more people will get pregnant w/o knowing all that
there needs to be more talk about the impact of miscarriages and how common they are, how different abortion processes are and how accessible they are
but also like. talking about how pregnancy fucks your body up should not be taboo
this is a process that permanently changes most people's bodies, and that's even if the pregnancy doesn't do them like. severe illness or injury
and i just think everybody should have a right to KNOW that
bc to live in a society that intentionally obscures and hides facts about a completely optional and dangerous process does so for a reason, and that reason is based in a very sinister ideology that does not value bodily autonomy or informed consent
Here is a story about the depths to which pregnant people are seen as a vessel for a baby, and the importance of finding prenatal care that assumes you are a human and not a baby holder:
When I was pregnant I was in a million forums for pregnant people because (cough adhd hyperfixation) and I had something called SPD (Symphysis pubis dysfunction) (not Sensory Processing Disorder though I also have that) which is where your pubic bones separate early (more or less) because they get all loosey goosey as your body gets ready to crank that baby out.
Except my pubic bone got confused and got misaligned at like 3 months pregnant. I could barely walk. I couldn't roll over in bed. Doing something that required me to shift my weight from one foot to another like opening a door knob was like an excruciatingly painful knife being stabbed into my pubic bone, I can't express how intense and blinding it was.
So I am in one million baby forums like "am I dying what is happening why is there a knife in my pubic bone" and all these people are like "I have that too! my doctor says it's normal and not to worry because it doesn't hurt the baby. I just deal with it by laying in bed for months in excruciating pain and think about how lucky I am to be having a little miracle growing in my body."
So lol nope. I went to my midwife and they are like, "Oh squeeze a can between your knees look up a physical therapy youtube on SPD" and I did that can-squeeze thing and it CURED THE PROBLEM in ONE DAY. I had been SUFFERING, y'all, it felt miraculous.
And I was so full of rage (flames, flames on the side of my face) that people are being told "Oh, it's NORMAL just deal with it" "It doesn't hurt the baby." Like, look, yes it's NORMAL but it's 100% treatable!!! SPD (again, not Sensory processing disorder) affects 1 in 5 pregnant people.
I was lucky to have amazing midwives (need a gender neutral term for that profession, but they see pregnant men and women)(side note highly recommend midwives if you are gender nonconfirming/a man/etc) and I have DOZENS of examples of shit like this.
(Another example is post partum friends being like "oh I am peeing my pants 900x day after giving birth" and my doctor says it's NORMAL so I just dealt with it for decades. My midwives were like "Oh that's normal and also physical therapy cures that in like 2 sessions")
When my sister was looking to get pregnant she was given the best advice. She was told that being pregnant is an experience akin to being in a moderate sized car crash, in terms of risk and lasting injury.
Some people in moderate car crashes are very lucky, and walk away with zero injury. Some are very unlucky, and die. But most people fall into the third category, where they'll be injured at the time, then heal, and then for the rest of their life they have some minor and liveable complication from the injury. Like a knee that lets you know when the rain is coming, or a back that doesn't like seats without lumbar support, or a shoulder that never quite gets its full range of motion back.
The vast majority of people survive and thrive, like. But their body is never the same again. And people should know that when they make the choice of whether to put their body through that or not
my mom had a complication postpartum that caused pain and swelling in her left leg. at the time she was told it was "milk leg" and that it was normal and she'd be fine, but it never went away or got better. she finally found a doctor recently who was willing to do some tests and found out it's a condition called "May-Thurner syndrome" and had surgery to fix it
she's been suffering with this since she gave birth to me. I'm 38 years old. she had that surgery last week.
there needs to be more dialogue about the things your body goes through during pregnancy. "that's normal" or "everyone goes through that" need to stop being used to shut down conversations about the horrific, permanent damage that can be done to bodies during pregnancy and childbirth. just because it's "normal" doesn't mean it needs to be endured
I know this is not pertinent to the post but midwife is probably not gendered in the way you think. (The post gets this right btw but I see a lot of people getting it backwards) The “wife” in midwife (with the woman in OE) refers to the person giving birth, not the Obstetrician.
Granted, it still needs to be updated because not just women give birth.
Here is an etymologically equivalent but gender neutral term I just made:
Hey also: babies are not medicine, or unconditional love playthings. Having a baby won't save your relationship, or fix the problems in your life if you haven't done the work to get yourself in a good place mentally, physically, and emotionally, already. People don't ask to be born, and having to grow up with parents that transfer their problems onto their children just perpetuates the cycles of abuse and life-long issues. Given you're not likely to get clear, concise, unbiased healthcare anyway, as seen above, and it will be continually impressed upon you that it is your duty to have children, make sure you're not succumbing to social pressures, or wanting to be a parent for the wrong reasons.
Genuinely, I think a large part of why so many people are unwilling to talk about risks, complications, pain and injury around birth, pregnancy and lactation is because of how deeply ingrained the (primarily but not exclusively) religious idea that "a woman's body is designed to have children" is. Because if you actually sat down and looked, clear-eyed, at all the many ways in which even a healthy pregnancy can negatively impact the body, it would be that much harder to believe that design factors in at all, unless we're willing to argue that the designer was shit at their job. But if you're sold the idea that pregnancy is some divinely ordained and/or ultimate expression of Feminine Life Purpose, and then you have a bad experience, you're much more likely to blame yourself, or to think there's something wrong with you, or to suffer in silence because nobody ever told you this could happen so there must not be any easy solutions, and that makes me so fucking mad I could spit.
the bugpreg mark. you know exactly who the fuck this is. i do not know what else to add. be free. do what you desire
Ah, yes. You. The very you I know. I know of you. I know of this idea. I know what you want, I know how you want it. And yes...I will...give you...the bugpreg Mark.
This story contains male pregnancy and alien pregnancy.
"Amber? You okay...?"
Amber blinked, and looked between both Mark and Eve before her. "Wait, so just...if I may recap real quick," she started, leaning one hand against a wall, "you battled some weird wasp alien creature, and it got you with its stinger before dying..."
"Yes."
"And it got you...pregnant?"
Mark glanced away, blushing bashfully. "More or less," Eve confirmed. "We got some people to run some scans of him at the GDA. They think its an egg of some kind. Fortunately, I had some favors to turn in, so Cecil still doesn't know yet. We're the only people here who really know of this, besides Debbie."
"That's...that's crazy," Amber mumbled, grasping the side of her head. "How is this...working? And how's it gonna—"
"When it happens, it'll happen!" Mark quickly spoke up, clearly uncomfortable. "It's been about two weeks, and I just wanted to tell someone else to get this off my chest a bit. You're one of the few people I still trust closely. Was probably gonna tell William soon, too."
"I appreciate the trust. Believe me, I won't tell a soul. This is definitely weird side of super heroics stuff..." She sized up Mark, noticing the large hoodie he wore. "...are you showing by now?"
"Amber!" Mark exclaimed in distress.
"Oh, he totally is," Eve nodded with a chuckle.
"Eve...," he huffed in exasperation.
"Can I see it?" Amber inquired, with some renewed interest.
"Come on..." He turned to Eve as if for some way out.
All she did was smile at him. "It's fine. From what I know, pregnant people love getting their bellies rubbed."
He rolled his eyes. "Ugh...fine...," he sighed. Reaching down, he grasped the hem of his hoodie, and after a moment's hesitation, he lifted it up, revealing just how much the hoodie was truly hiding. Amber's eyes widened in shock; had she not just been told he got impregnated weeks ago, she could have reasoned he was nearly due.
"Oh my god," she gasped, stepping forward and reaching a hand out. "You're HUGE!!"
"Gee, thanks, Amber..."
Her face flushed, just realizing what she said. "Oh, no, I-I meant, like..."
"No, it's fine, really. I am...massive..."
"The pregnancy is likely accelerated due to the alien being bug-like," Eve clarified, pointing at her partner's belly. "Mark is probably gonna pop sometime the end of this month, maybe start of next month. Either way, baby is due soon."
"Can you not say it like that? I feel like I actually will pop here."
"Oh, please. You think this is a lot?" Amber chuckled with a raised eyebrow, patting the side of his bump. "You should see the pictures my mom has when she was pregnant with me. I was a pretty large baby, all considered." She looked down and started rubbing his stomach. "Jeez, your skin is ridiculously soft..."
"Well, uh, Eve does a lot of oil rubs..."
"Nah, I just supply the oils," Eve clarified with a wink, reaching over to feel his bump as well. "He's the one who takes care of it. All Marky-Mark work here."
"Aww, that's cute!"
"Oh, brother...," Mark sighed, pinching the bridge of his nose.
"Ah, come on, Mark. You got two girls rubbing your pregnant belly. What could be better?"
Mark glanced Eve's way, and then over at a smiling Amber, before grumbling and glancing away, a clear blush still on his face as both girls shared a laugh.
lovvve love love when a skinny guy eats far too much and his tummy stretches out into a gentle curve to hold all that food. something so cute about a flat stomach becoming a considerably full lil belly, slightly plumped and aching in the best way possible from all his indulgences :3
should I release the paralives pregnancy mod like. now or wait until its more fleshed out. It has issues but the core of what it needs to do it does if that’s anything.
i actually don't think it's unreasonable to have lines between "kinks that are weird and gross to YOU but are perfectly harmless and you should mind your own business" and "kinks that are weird and gross but in a way that's actually tangibly harmful and you should probably have a problem with" like yes there will always be weird puritanical people who think that a fart fetish is the exact same level of "degeneracy" (which is a weird you should never use btw) as actual pedophilia, but like i don't think the solution to people being prudish about sex should be the opposite extreme of having 0 standards. it's kinda lazy in my opinion.
i've seen this trend of people on tumblr posting "people who have weird sex fetishes are a key part of the community and alienating them is not going to make straight people like you more" or some variation of that discourse which like yes i agree that people with weird sex fetishes are cool, but than someone will asks"ok but pedophilia and incest is bad, right?" which in case like 99 percent of the time op is like "um can't believe you completely missed the point of the post" and it's like uh no actually that bit is actually very important and kind of recontextizes the entire post because the fact that you include "incest and raceplay and lolicon porn" on the same level as like. pupplay or gaining is like. an issue. like people in extremely kink positive standards still have basic standards and guidelines to prevent potential abuse, there's a reason alot of kinksters got really pissed at 50 shades of grey, or why there's guides for impact play so you don't permanently scar your partner, there are still like. basic accountability guys???
