The Truth About Kinky Women
This was written in response to a FetLife post. The poster was wondering why no one was responding to his profile or his entreaties to be invited to parties.
You want to meet a girl that you can explore your kinky side with. Thatβs wonderful.
Let me ask you something:
Do you have a match.com or OK Cupid a profile that says βIβm a guy. Iβm looking for a girl. If youβre a girl or know a girl, would you send her to me please?β
Suppose youβre into stamp collecting. Do you go into stamp-collecting forums and say βIβm a guy who thinks he may like stamp collecting, and Iβm looking for a girl to fuck and teach me about stamp collecting.β?
Do you see a girl at Starbucks drinking coffee and say βHey, I like coffee, too. Wanna fuck?β
Every time you post on here asking for people to βhelp you out,β thatβs exactly what youβre doing.
You seem to think that just because a woman is into getting tied up, beaten, and fucked in the ass, sheβs somehow different from a βnormalβ woman. You seem to think that just because a woman likes to have sex, talk about sex, and sometimes be naked in front of people, she should want to do that with you, without knowing anything at all about you except that you like women to get naked in front of you.
Submissives arenβt submissive to everyone
Youβll hear submissives say βIβm submissive, but Iβm not your submissive.β No matter how many times youβve read The Story of O, there is no chateau full of submissive women who are available on demand to anyone who wants to use them.
Kinky women are not whores
Some kinky women may like it when their partner calls them βwhore,β but theyβre not sex workers. Theyβre not in the business of making sex of any sort available to all comers. (And contrary to popular belief, there is not a rule that actual sex workers have to accept whoever is willing to pay them.)
Some kinky women have multiple partners. Some women will do some sort of limited play with people they just met. As a rule most women will not get intimate with a guy they know nothing about. Kinky women are no different.
Kinky women are not objects
Sure, some women like being objectified, to be used as furniture, ashtrays, fuck toys, even toilets. But you know what? The women who like that trust the people who do that to them, Do you know why they trust them? Because they know them as people. They have connected as human beings before they connected as kinksters.
Kinky women have feelings
Do some kinky women want to be humiliated, degraded, hurt, and used? Absolutely. This may be hard to understand, but while they may want all those things, they want them in a supportive, trusting, and caring environment. You call my girlfriend a bitch, sheβll kick your balls. I call her a bitch, and she melts in my arms. See the difference?
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