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You ever just try to write a good bio and you sit there and over-think it to the point where you write something, edit it, and then trash it because it didn't feel right? Well, that's what happened here... [: Daily Playlist:

[smoovetay]

you’re being presented with two choices : Evolve or Repeat.

[theambitiouswoman]

I’m far from perfect. I make mistakes and I’m always learning. Every day I grow more and strive to become a better person. I get stressed. Someone always tries to insult me or put me down. I’m challenged. I get mad and sometimes I’m so exhausted that I even ask myself why. I’m harder on myself than my hardest days combined. But I never give up. We’re all human you guys. Too many people are afraid of making a mistake or too worried about what other people think. Your family won’t always believe in you. Your friends will laugh at your goals. No one talks about these things but they happen. The thing is, you have to realize that your goals are bigger than you or your bad days. That all your bad days happen for you to become stronger and better. And if you let these temporary emotions stop you, then you don’t deserve your dreams.

[fuckthisbloganditscurses]

Happiness Will Come To You.

[12goblins]

when tho

[fuckthisbloganditscurses]

When You Least Expect It. Probably Late March

[wizardshark]

reblog for happiness to come for you in late march!

[ithelpstodream]

[naturalblkgirlsrock-deactivated]

[wnq-writers]

1. No matter how much you wish or beg someone to stay, if they don’t want to stay, they won’t. People leave when they find that it will benefit them more to do so than stay by your side. 2. Even when it feels like it, caring is not a bad thing. You cannot care or love someone too much. It is their choice to love you back with such a passion that it is equal. If they do not, it doesn’t mean that you’re caring too much. Do not love less just to match someone else’s love. You deserve better than that. So love and care without limit. One day someone will love you the same way. 3. People are going to say things about you. Society is going to try to turn you into someone that fits their standards. People are going to assume things that aren’t true just because that’s what “most people would do” in your situation. You don’t have to follow the rules. People that matter, people that care, don’t want someone like everyone else. Different is good, no matter what people will think. It’s worth it. 4. Things get better. Life is always throwing things at you, some bad and some good. The good things make it worth it. Focus on that, no matter what. Living is worth it, getting out of bed and facing your fears is worth it. It may not feel like it, but as long as you know it, one day, you’ll believe it.

dream-poet349,   writing prompt #62: list 3-10 pieces of advice you’d give yourself (via thelovejournals)

[swagintherain]

[safelyendangered]

wholesome

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[yourlesbiandad]

*looking in a mirror trying to practice self-love* ur doing great u stupid bitch

[shena92]

Alternative Black Girls

In middle school, I used to cry bc they said I wasn’t black enough

I had nothing with me to lean off

Finally the truth has been spoken, the real enemy is you, not them

I know who I am now with the struggles that tugged my mind & almost caused me to be blind

I am just a black girl. The same one who is still the most disrespected

The one who watches anime and play video games,

Listen to rock music, listen to k music, and cosplay my features,

Very quirky but I’m still in the game,

Be kawaii & embrace my melanin,

Maybe you should stop assuming that all black girls are classless & ignorant,

We’ve been silence for so long that we feel the need to express our lives,

But, you don’t wanna hear us but rather see us tear ourselves apart in hell,

We chosen our own destiny & respect all black girls around the world,

Society is the one to blame and they claim to tame me,

But no no,

I’m livin for my lifestyle for that I breathe in the life cycle,

Just to escape this bullshit called reality,

I’m fatality and this is my philosophy,

[gravitren]

We all know what erectile dysfunction is but literally no one is ever taught what vaginismus is and it can cause people to feel extremely lost, broken, and cause people to take their own lives. Raise. Awareness.

[pokemonprofessor]

For the uninformed, vaginismus is when the vagina painfully tightens and spasms when faced with pressure, usually from anything trying to insert into the vagina. It’s the reason I can’t wear tampons, and why many people can’t have vaginal sex without severe pain.

There’s not a lot of treatments, and there isn’t a single one that is for vaginismus exclusively - they’re all medications or treatments to treat symptoms, but not the causes. In fact, for a long time doctors waved off vaginismus as a purely psychological disorder in cis women.

Seriously, this is so unaddressed and uncared for in medical circles. Please spread awareness, even if all it’s for is to let those who have it but don’t have a name for it finally be able to understand what’s happening to their bodies.

[frustratedwaffle]

I’ve never even heard of this??

[shadowkat678]

Me neither. :(

[theblvckcool]

We don’t have to explain self love

[swagintherain]

Perfectly stated.

[fuckscooter]

we need carbs and we need fats and we need proteins and honestly fuck diet culture for normalizing malnourishment 

[ruinedchildhood]

[bantugal]

😭😭😭

[phil-of-the-phuture]

This is the most wholesome meme

[notnottreasure]

Damn…I wish someone liked me like that

[micdotcom]

Women engineers get real about the worst sexism they’ve experienced at work

When Annie, a 29-year-old software engineer in Austin, Texas, fixed her male coworker’s code while he was on vacation, he got mad.

“He said to me in front of everyone that I was a cunt because I thought I could write better code than him,” Annie told Mic in a Twitter message.

Annie said she responded to her coworker during the team meeting, telling him that his comment was “out of line,” but none of the other men spoke up. She was the only woman on a team of nine at a mid-size startup.

“Shortly after, I asked to move to another team, which was approved, and he got promoted,” she added. Read more. (7/17/2017 11:13 AM)

[iamatinyowl]

No, not every man. But, it could be any man.

[socialjustice-whentheycry]

So you believe all men are rapists from default? Well that isn’t sexist at all.

[iamatinyowl]

“Not every man” - Me, in that post right there, the one you just read. the post you literally just replied to