I have a niece that's just getting into Pokemon caretaking, and just like her big ol business father, she enjoys battling a lil too much.
I think seeing her peer's evolved Pokemon made her overextend herself forcefully? Instead of letting evolution come "naturally", she's trying to force her Pokemon to evolve faster than expected.
What I'm wanting is to get her to stop this method as forced evolution can be seen as a form of betrayal? At least to me, growing up way too fast isn't the healthiest way to perceive the world. But, like most kids, she is stubborn.
So I wanted to ask a professional professor (you) what evolution represents in Pokemon. Whether they represent growing up with age, a new proper body that is fit for their higher echelon of power, or maybe something else. Or is it more of a case by case basis?
Really, I feel like she needs a professional to tell her what's up cause when her family says it, I feel like it for her perspective, it feels like everyone is looking down on her, while in reality all we want is to cherish the moments she has with her Pokemon, not trying to grow up too fast, like how sometimes we as adults kinda had to, for reasons more than one.
Ah! Perhaps naturally, but very unfortunately from an adult's point of view, it is in fact very common for youngsters to want both their Pokemon and their own selves to grow up far too fast!
It most certainly is not worth it, however!
It can be very easy to look at a Pokemon and the way they evolve, and see only a smaller and weaker creature becoming bigger and stronger in one exciting moment! And when you are stuck in your own human body, which grows at its own slow pace and absolutely will not be hurried up no matter how much you would like it to be, this is very attractive! When I was a child I too wished I could simply find a special stone, or meet a particular development criteria, and transform magically into a fully functional adult without having to do stupid things like 'puberty' or 'school'!
But the thing is, even Pokemon grow like humans do! If you look at a Zigzagoon that has been a mature Zigzagoon for years, it will look different than one that is only a few months into its maturity! Not as different as between a Zigzagoon and a Linoone or even an Obstagoon of course, but it will be bigger, with more developed muscles, rougher fur, and longer, harder nails. All these things are things that make it better at being a Zigzagoon! And a Zigzagoon that is good at being a Zigzagoon will, once it has adjusted, be good at being a Linoone!
And why is that? Well, one thing a lot of people forget is that, even in very dramatic evolutions, that is not a whole new body for the evolving Pokemon! It is the same body they had before, just altered! A Pokemon that has had time to grow into its body, to become good at using it in its previous form, will find it much easier to learn to use its altered, evolved body, no matter how many new limbs it has!
After all, imagine a little toddler who has only just learned to walk suddenly being given an adult body to move around! They would have an awful lot of trouble with that!
The thing is, if you wish to battle a Pokemon, they have to learn to do a lot of different things. They have to learn to use different moves in different situations, to dodge other attacks, to recover quickly from being hit by attacks, to know when to hold their ground and when to advance or retreat even if their trainer isn't telling them every little detail. All of these things are much easier to do when they have a good grasp on how their bodies work! Base form Pokemon have less raw power to work with, so they are less likely to hurt themselves or others in the process of learning how to channel their abilities!
And... being young is the time for learning! Pokemon, like humans, have brains that absorb knowledge like little sponges when they are young! You may think this contradicts what I said earlier- after all, wouldn't then it be easier for a young Pokemon to learn to use its new body? - but in actuality that is such a big task that it distracts from learning the other important things, like how to be a good friend to its teammates and trainer, and how to battle effectively! You will have to help a newly evolved Pokemon learn how to battle in new ways in any case; it is a lot easier to do so if they have already learned the basics!
In summary: the way to get a good battling Pokemon, a Pokemon that can help you all the way through the Gym Challenge if you choose to take it on, or through Contest battles, or even with Ranger training, is not to rush straight away to the evolution with the most power that the Pokemon will then struggle greatly to know how to use, but to let them learn and grow in their own time, and learn exactly how battling works for them, before you introduce a different body and more raw power! Less power, wielded effectively, can beat more power wielded without skill any day!