[poppypost]

@ you know who you are

hey i doubt you even look at my tumblr anymore but if you do please talk to me. lol no this isnt some stunt this is literally liscensed therapists have asked me to talk with you about this and even my mom says i need closure. so if you can will you please. thx.

B

[poppypost]

hello im back a lot has changed

1 . i no longer identify as a lesbian (i’m bi ! whoops)

2 . yes i know my most popular post is about lesbianism

3 . actually not much has changed other than that

[poppypost]

if i follow u and u only want lesbians following feel free to sb i know like 20 of my mutuals are/were set up like that 👌🏼

[poppypost]

@ you know who you are

hey i doubt you even look at my tumblr anymore but if you do please talk to me. lol no this isnt some stunt this is literally liscensed therapists have asked me to talk with you about this and even my mom says i need closure. so if you can will you please. thx.

B

[poppypost]

why do you have to clarify that​ you're anti terf when you write lesbian posts? interesting isn't it. almost like there's a connection with a meaningless made up scapegoat buzzword and an oppressed minority always being the target of it hm

What

[poppypost]

anyway i put anti terf cuz i don't want them associating with me bye

[poppypost]

hello im back a lot has changed

1 . i no longer identify as a lesbian (i'm bi ! whoops)

2 . yes i know my most popular post is about lesbianism

3 . actually not much has changed other than that

[poppypost]

@ you know who you are

hey i doubt you even look at my tumblr anymore but if you do please talk to me. lol no this isnt some stunt this is literally liscensed therapists have asked me to talk with you about this and even my mom says i need closure. so if you can will you please. thx.

B

[poppypost]

why do you have to clarify that​ you're anti terf when you write lesbian posts? interesting isn't it. almost like there's a connection with a meaningless made up scapegoat buzzword and an oppressed minority always being the target of it hm

What

[sttumblebum]

[thank-you-everyone-deactivated2]

*holding clipboard* hm…. *kisses your cheek* interestning… *writes down results on clipboard but the results are a drawing of us holding hands*

[freshmoviequotes]

It (1990)

[betterthanabortion]

“My body, my choice” only makes sense when someone else’s life isn’t at stake.

[fandomsandfeminism]

Fun fact: If my younger sister was in a car accident and desperately needed a blood transfusion to live, and I was the only person on Earth who could donate blood to save her, and even though donating blood is a relatively easy, safe, and quick procedure no one can force me to give blood. Yes, even to save the life of a fully grown person, it would be ILLEGAL to FORCE me to donate blood if I didn’t want to.

See, we have this concept called “bodily autonomy.” It’s this….cultural notion that a person’s control over their own body is above all important and must not be infringed upon. 

Like, we can’t even take LIFE SAVING organs from CORPSES unless the person whose corpse it is gave consent before their death. Even corpses get bodily autonomy. 

To tell people that they MUST sacrifice their bodily autonomy for 9 months against their will in an incredibly expensive, invasive, difficult process to save what YOU view as another human life (a debatable claim in the early stages of pregnancy when the VAST majority of abortions are performed) is desperately unethical. You can’t even ask people to sacrifice bodily autonomy to give up organs they aren’t using anymore after they have died. 

You’re asking people who can become pregnant to accept less bodily autonomy than we grant to dead bodies. 

[albinwonderland]

reblogging for commentary 

[generalmaluga]

But, assuming the mother wasn’t raped, the choice to HAVE a baby and risk sacrificing their “bodily autonomy” is a choice that the mother made. YOu don’t have to have sex with someone. Cases of rape aside, it isn’t ethical to say abortion is justified. The unborn baby has rights, too. 

[fandomsandfeminism]

First point: Bodily autonomy can be preserved, even if another life is dependent on it. See again the example about the blood donation. 

And here’s another point: When you say that “rape is the exception” you betray something FUNDAMENTALLY BROKEN about your own argument.

Because a fetus produced from sexual assault is biologically NO DIFFERENT than a fetus produced from consensual sex. No difference at all.

If one is alive, so is the other. If one is a person, so is the other. If one has a soul, then so does the other. If one is a little blessing that happened for a reason and must be protected, then so is the other. 

When you say that “Rape is the exception” what you betray is this: It isn’t about a life. This isn’t about the little soul sitting inside some person’s womb, because if it was you wouldn’t care about HOW it got there, only that it is a little life that needs protecting.

When you say “rape is the exception” what you say is this: You are treating pregnancy as a punishment. You are PUNISHING people who have had CONSENSUAL SEX but don’t want to go through a pregnancy. People who DARED to have consensual sex without the goal of procreation in mind, and this is their “consequence.“ 

And that is gross. 

[antiporn-activist]

Boom.

[glitterysouldinosaur-blog]

1995 Gay Olympics sketch from the mid-1990s Australian comedy show Big Girls Blouse.

[emogyptian-deactivated20180909]

u know when someone is taking a picture of u n u can already FEEL it’s ugly

[gothyeehaw]

are you in college? if you are, what's your major?

I am, I major in Fat nutology and have a minor in goth girls

[poppypost]

w

[poppypost]

im back

wjats this fucking update

i hate i

[androginking]

lol an ex boyfriend went through my phone to find an out of context convo from two weeks back of me and my best friend (lots of scrolling to get to a literal 5 text exchange) talking about a girl i found hot and used that to “confirm” i couldn’t be trusted esp since i was bisexual and constantly used that against me. so yeah, bisexuals in m/f relationships absolutely need their community’s support because straight people do not associate w us and only give a fuck about us when we hide our identities.

straight is a construct of institutional power which bisexuals do not and can never have so by lumping us with our actual oppressors is setting us up for actual abuse. we’re not asking our community to love m/f relationships. we’re asking our community to love us, bisexuals, like we love our community because regardless of who we’re with we are still vulnerable to harm from straight society.