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Get in the habit of talking about your joys more than your problems.
Love this show so much <3
I'm craving iced coffee so much 😭😭
fear is such a delicious sentiment
The most beautiful thing about a person is their soul
Nah bc just look at this…
September will be full of good physical health
September will be full of good mental health
September will be full of answered prayers
September will be full of good energy
September will be full of good news
September will be full of good luck
September will be full of blessings
September will be full of peace
September will be full of love
I missed posting on Tumblr..
It genuinely is a more elite version of threads..
here to remind you guys that when you’ve been being consistent and seeing a lot of progress with loa on your shifting journey and start feeling doubts flood and rush back in or begin to revert back to old habits, it is actually an extinction burst!
your subcon knows reality is changing and that you’re gaining everything you want and those last few doubts and limiting beliefs are holding on to see if you’ll stop persisting because they don’t want to die out!
let them die.
How to Dress Without Caring (and Look Like Yourself)
I didn’t stop caring to be cool. I stopped caring because I moved so often I never had time to catch up. every city had a new code, a new uniform, and I never had the instructions. so eventually, I gave up trying to follow them and realised I didn’t need them in the first place.
If you’re trying to let go of other people’s expectations, but still want to feel like you when you get dressed, here’s what actually helps:
How to Stop Caring (In a Healthy Way)
get used to being slightly misunderstood. people might not get your outfit, but that’s fine, you’re not dressing for explanation.
stop dressing for the ‘idea’ of yourself. dress for how you feel that day, not for the version of you you think other people expect.
notice what you reach for on bad days. that’s probably your real style. or at least a hint to what comforts you.
don’t justify your choices. Someone asks why you’re dressed like that? shrug. “I felt like it.” that’s enough.
realise the outfit you regret least is usually the one you felt most like yourself in. not the one you dressed up to impress.
accept that some days you’ll look weird. that’s part of it. style evolves through mistakes.
How to Find Your Style (When You’ve Stopped Performing)
start with colour. what colours do you feel good in? build around those. for me its cool toned pinks, light blue, cream, white, black, and deep red. I'm still trying to figure out how I feel about greys.
find a silhouette you love and wear it to death. long skirt girl. giant blazer guy. little shirt and big trousers combo. repeat it. no shame.
save outfit photos, not of others, of yourself. catch the ones where you look like you.
notice the textures you love touching. soft cotton, linen, leather, fleece, silk. let that guide your wardrobe.
make uniforms. you’re not boring for repeating things. you’re iconic. my uniform will always be the black skirt, tights, loafers, and some top combo. its my safe option.
shop like you have amnesia. ignore what’s trendy. If you saw this in a thrift store and had never scrolled Pinterest, would you still want it?
let your clothes be a memory map. what you wore when you felt beautiful, or strong, or invisible in a good way. Keep those pieces close.
you don’t need to be a minimalist or a maximalist. you just need to feel okay walking out the door.
that’s all style really is: the quiet confidence that you dressed for yourself. and no one else. <3
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Guys I’m thinking of starting vlogging over on my Instagram…. What do you all think? <33
Like little vlog reels on Instagram.. but idk if my life is sorta boring?
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May will be full of blessings
May will be full of good physical health
May will be full of good news
May will be full of good luck
May will be full of good mental health
May will be full of answered prayers
May will be full of peace
May will be full of love
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If you can persist in the negative with no evidence, then you can persist in the positive with no evidence. - 𝜗𝜚
so true.. btw I’m typing this from the iPhone I manifested <3