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Kitten she/her - if you've ever been the one to dance alone by a window you are welcome here

[prettynestykitten]

"The ships hung in the sky in much the same way that bricks don’t."

Writins n laughs n thinkins

She/her tma

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Hi terf looking for my nsft. Nice followers may ask

[prettynestykitten]

Transfems aka the female left behind

[nyanletnest]

[innerchildabortionclinic]

should i be buying kerrygold ?

yes

[squidwardtelevision]

[autistickiramman]

autistic femmes who don’t wear makeup because of sensory issues. autistic femmes who don’t show skin. autistic femmes who can’t make eye contact. autistic femmes who get overstimulated and shut down. autistic femmes who are nonverbal or have verbal shutdowns. autistic femmes who age regress. autistic femmes who don’t like to go out very often. autistic femmes who stim in ‘annoying’ ways. autistic femmes who need reassurance. autistic femmes

[stargazersasha]

if you are a trans woman you have to sing to yourself. if you voice train that’s fine. if you don’t voice train that’s okay. but you have to sing to yourself

[stargazersasha]

may every trans woman have a safe place to hear herself sing.

[prettynestykitten]

5 years of hrt

The evolution of the StellarKitten. Now begins a new era. An era where we get so buff and maybe an even fatter ass

[proudspoonie]

Some pix of old me, middle me, and now me

[thembocoles]

meow

[prettynestykitten]

"I love fat bitches" the skinny person says

"Enough to touch us, to hold us tight in warm embrace?" We ask, skin starved.

The silence follows. Their hands never sinking into the fat, instead wrapping around tiny waists.

"I love fat bitches" the slim person says

"Enough to see our bodies, to show the world you care?" We ask, thirsty for commonality of body

The silence follows. They can't suppress the disgust, revoltion to look for long.

"I love fat bitches" the thin person says

"Enough to be there, to love us?" We ask, isolated and unwanted.

The silence follows. They already love the bodies like theirs. There is no room for something so monstrous.

"I love fat bitches!" They say

"Then don't call us bitches and eat a burger." we say, boiling over.

"You can't say that to me, do you know how much I have suffered to look like this? You couldnt comprehend what I went through. This body is the result of my victory and I deserve the spoils. ITS NOT MY FAULT ALL MY LOVE IS FOR US" The skinny person rages, entitled to bodies like theirs, their prize.

The silence follows, a scared, shouted-down silence, ended with the final nail.

"I have an ED."

As if it's only for them. As if it's theirs.

[prettynestykitten]

What do you mean the pipeline from unconventionally attractive but skinny egg to beautiful slim trans women is not just an exploration of self-worth, but an Active effort by the patriarchy to class transness as skinny fuckability, to show the only acceptable form of a trans body is a socially beautiful one and the ousting of fat and clockier transfems within trans spaces by trans women and tme people is in direct reaction to this new standard being perpetuated by the community members who are enjoying their position of relative privilege??

That's crazy talk. No don't look at my friendship group that has 0 fat transfems. No pls. We're just girlies! We were all clocky once right girlies??

[prettynestykitten]

Hot patootie bless my soul!

I really love that fat trans girl!

[adornedfemme]

counter to all the new years resolutioner diet bullshit, might I recommend unlearning your fatphobia with some light reading:

fearing the black body: the racial origins of fat phobia by sabrina strings

what we don't talk about when we talk about fat by aubrey gordon

the belly of the beast: the politics of anti-fatness as anti-blackness by da’shaun harrison

(there are many many more books I can list for those interested & your library probably has all of these)

[prettynestykitten]

Vis a vis the insta transfeminist discourse. I hate being right about people. People who focus on clicks, money and views will always show a lack of care. As for these insta dolls who got tricked into backing a hoax? Saw it coming. You know how?

Fatphobia! If they are willing to always perpetuate their own victimhood ("skinnyphobia and the like), which all of the women involved HAVE done, then the lies are an easier reach.

So please listen to fat trannies. Listen to us. The moment you allow yourself to believe lies like skinny people being victims of skinnyphobia, when you position yourself as always correct then the pitfalls come. I'm not saying every transfeminist has to be perfect or silent. But gods we are too ok with backing anyone who has the energy to hold the anger we all feel. The moment I noticed the dolls that supported this hoax are all skinny conventionally attractive and uplift each other in a self sustaining circle I got worried some ugly shit like this would happen. Cus it always does. When the general world and our own community treats us as liars, frauds, groomers and tricksters what's one more lie that actually benefits you?

[prettynestykitten]

A reminder that in the only western trans study done on eating disorders trans people in general are something like 10x more likely to develop and diagnose an eating disorder than a cis person

For trans women this amount increases even more once they have begun Gender Affirming Care due to being a target of transmisogynistic fatphobia deeming our fatness as "male".

Imagine that. Fighting bigotry, suicidal ideation and who knows what else, finally finding a version of the body that you could be comfortable and happy in. Then starving it. Because your skinny sisters ignored you the moment they started passing/recieving tme attention. Because tme people overwhelmingly do not date or love fat transfems. Because someone might look at our fat and take away our worth and womanhood. So you go hungry. Just hoping it'll make you skinny like the sisters that abandoned you. Because you miss the family you all claimed to be.

[roomwithavoid]

the more educated you get on fat issues the more you realize that almost everything that supposedly justifies fatphobia is actually complete bullshit. most of the health conditions that are treated as almost divine punishment for being fat (like heart issues and diabetes) are being revealed to actually *cause weight gain* instead of being caused *by* it. this goes for social 'consequences' of being fat, too. is that "neckbeard" redditor actually fat because he spends all his time online, or is it that he spends all of his time online because he's not treated like a person if you can see that he's fat, so the internet is his best option? everything is less accessible to fat people. seats on busses, at restaurants, and even at things like amusement parks, are frequently too small to comfortably sit in for a fat person. people treat you worse if you're fat, or even try to avoid you entirely. you get judged for doing leisure activities, or even for exercising at a public gym, (which proves the claims of trying to motivate you to get fit are bullshit btw) getting filmed and laughed at, posted online for your body to be a punchline. if you want to be progressive or body positive you *need* to be examining your beliefs. oppressed people are routinely forced into positions that, from the outside, may justify the narrative about these people. black folk are pushed into poverty, so that crime is often their only means of survival, enforcing the idea that black folk are criminals. queer folk are made unsafe in public so that we use codes to identify each other, enforcing the idea that queer folk are trying to secretly seduce people to be gay. and yes, fat folk are forced indoors and online so that they can enforce the narrative that we are lazy shut-ins.

[imathers]

#if you are skinny you need to take an interest in this#get involved with fat liberation#start fighting people on fatphobia#get mad at them when they are casually fatphobic around you because youre thin#make them afraid#defend your fat friends

[prettynestykitten]

Very telling that the new wave of tumblr transfeminists are skinny conventionally attractive folk who have not mentioned fatphobia unprompted and in fact have been seen engaging in fatphobic rhetoric around pretty privilege. This goes for styx for that new mouse girl a constant pattern emerges. You only want transfeminism from those you want to fuck. Esp here and on insta resistance to shallow rhetoric around body fascist ideals is pushed to the side for the trans acceptance of the body being twisted into a performance of idealised sexual traits.

If the only women you listen to are the skinny ones, how can we ever actually utilise feminism?