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HELP.

Hi. I know it’s been a long time. I’m sorry. Someone decided to do a continuation of my story “I Found” on AO3 without asking me first. Maybe they thought that making it a “gift work” would make it okay but it absolutely is not. I left a comment for them to cease immediately and take it down, especially bc they have very triggering topics in the warnings that I do not want associated with my story or characters. I’m at a loss for words that this is even happening. Is there anything I can do about this?

#riverdale #ao3 #sweet pea #bughead #jughead jones #betty cooper #cheryl blossom #*

finalhorsegirl

obsessed with this stupid shirt i found at goodwill the other day

Update

Hi sweet besties. I know it’s been a long time. I’m still sorting life stuff out (I’ve been okay I promise!! Just have been working through continuous loss) but I hope to be back soon. <3

#*

MISS YOU 🥰

miss you🧡

#answered

wakandawinterprincess

PLEASE watch this video. Because holy SHIT it's so well done!

woajwbat223

oh mY GOD SIR PLEASE

allmyhorrorsarewild

Anakin and Padme vs. Sam and Bucky rolling in a field of flowers.

You really gonna try to tell me this isn’t the same thing?

jenndoesnotcare

I just left my husband alone with our two children for sixteen days. I was not worried about anything regarding the house, their food, or their wellbeing. I put all the appointments in the family calendar and my husband checked it and kept them. I literally did not worry about them. I missed them, and I was sad that they missed me, but I didn’t worry about them AT ALL. I need to impress upon you all that I missed their company, but was not worried for their welfare.

I also did no meal prep. I don’t even think I went shopping right before I left.

This is not about apples and oranges. This isn’t even about my husband. This is about the fact that this is apparently WEIRD.

Another mum at my daughter’s school is leaving for ten days. She’s taking her youngest (who is a very small baby) and leaving her husband with their two girls. She has been cooking for days preparing freezer meals. She’s panicking and deputizing her six year old to remind him how to make school lunches. AND I AM APPALLED.

A) He is definitely not helpless. (He’s a doctor or something.) What gendered bullshit. B) THAT LITTLE GIRL IS NOT OLD ENOUGH TO BE RESPONSIBLE FOR HER AND HER SISTER’S WELLBEING. WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK. C) Why is she married to this person and creating children with him if he’s this big of an idiot?

While she was laughingly recounting this, the other mums were nodding and smiling sympathetically, like oh yes, I too have my caveman at home!! Such managing required! I was the only one who was like “Dude, he’ll be fine. Literally. He will be fine.” I said it a lot. She was not convinced. She kept bringing up her older daughter. She’ll be like a little mum!

NO.

NO NO NO NO.

NO.

Straight women, don’t do this shit. It’s gross. Don’t infantilize your husbands and then expect your daughters to pick up the slack. So fucking gross. So. So. GROSS.

fozmeadows

The fact that so many adults think a six year old girl is more capable of learning and performing basic domestic tasks than a grown-ass man says it all, really.

parentheticalaside

This stuff is so toxic and awful. I told a car full of women one time that I refused to be in another relationship until I met a man who was capable of making his own doctors’ appointments and washing the dishes. They told me I was going to die alone.

Fuck this shit. Don’t enable men’s incompetence and label it cute.

randomfandomteacher

SMDH

go-catch-a-chickn

Omg thank you for this 🙏

sarjear

When my boyfriend and I decided to move in together his mom said she wouldn’t “come by to clean, anymore”. I was shocked and pissed, and told my boyfriend he needed to learn how to clean everything in the apartment by himself, so that I didn’t have to teach or do it for him, because that is NOT MY JOB. He was fine with this and has learned how to clean everything with mostly just basic life skills and the occasional question. Like it has never taken him extra long to clean something because he was learning how to do it or anything. And I, nor anyone else needed to be over his shoulder telling him what to do. Like adult men can figure shit out, you don’t need to do it for them. And if you did, there would be a lot less of us putting up with them.