reality's gay

hi. i like writing. i also like yapping. (same username on reddit and ao3 and prob a few more places) (she/they)

[privygrid]

intro post because it's time.

• My name is privygrid, which, admittedly, is a little bit long, so you can just use privy as well. I also go by Luna.

• I use she/they, and I would appreciate it if you could avoid gendered terms for me.

• I am of legally adult age.

• I am Turkish, born and raised in Turkey. (and no, i do not use "Turkiye/Türkiye" while speaking English. I know it was changed a year or something ago, it's just a personal choice.)

• I am the eldest of three kids.

• I am currently a university student majoring in English Translation and Interpreting.

• I am very much queer (oriented aroace, agender, demifamilial).

• I am sex averse and romance repulsed, however I don't usually have a problem when shipping characters in fiction. My romance repulsedness mainly applies to real life.

• I am most likely autistic, though I do not have a diagnosis.

• I like languages, I speak Turkish and English fluently and I am currently learning Italian and Korean.

• I've been a kpop fan since sometime in 2020, and my favorite group is Dreamcatcher.

• I still keep up with newer kpop idols/groups but not as much as I used to.

• My other blogs are @this-is-afamphobia and @privystudies if you want to check them out.

• I enjoy reading fanfiction, and I am very much proship.

• Some of my fandoms are Weak Hero Class, Sweet Home, The Amazing Digital Circus, Murder Drones, Epic the Musical, and Arcane.

• No DNI, I don't really see the point of them.

• If you ever want to send an ask, go right ahead. I enjoy seeing things in my inbox.

Thank you if you've read this far, have a digital cupcake 🧁

[this-is-arophobia]

Hi ! I recently came out to my mom as aroace. We had a very long conversation about aromantism. Because "love is like covid, you can say you don't want it, you have it anyways". And then, the "you don't have found the right person yet ". Or even "You're too young to know what you want "(I'm almost an adult). I explained better, I told her what I feel. And she kept doing the comparison between love and covid. Thank you !

this is arophobia and alovephobia (the whole 'love is like covid' comparison')

@this-is-alovephobia

[littledeviantsworld-deactivated]

Did you ever just feel so lucky for knowing someone you met online? Like.. I was one click away from not following you. I was one second away from never even knowing of your existence.I would never have been this happy!!!...

[in-your-wall-s]

@siriuslyobsessed394 I’m so glad I saw you and thought you were funny and started talking to you

[siriuslyobsessed394]

NO REAL OMG @sage-black-or-remus-lupin-90 MY DIVA TY FOR BRINGING ME TO WALLS I WILL THANK YOU PROFUSELY IF YOU EVER COME BACKKK

[artemisiamasterofnone]

Many friends but shoutout to @flyerguardian and @jacksfoxevangeline today

[flyerguardian]

Awwwww thank you<3333

This applies to literally all of my friends on here y'all are so cool vjksnfjwidqjd but speciaaaaal shout out to my ogs @caravalxjurdan240 @itzursafespace @wrensvoices <3333

[caravalxjurdan240]

OMFGGG THANK YOUUUU

@artemisiamasterofnone @itzursafespace @wrensvoices @booklover5111 @colourobserver @stories-i-guess @obsessivebookwormalert @obsess-over-ink-on-dead-trees @zais--doll--mine--expo @imjusthereforthecake LOVE Y'ALLLLL

[itzursafespace]

THIS IS GENUINELY THE SWEETEST THING EVER 🥺

TYYYYYY

@athreadofroses @flyerguardian @artemisiamasterofnone @feellikeasadsong @wrensvoices @obsess-over-ink-on-dead-trees @fawnbunny01134 @feellikeasadsong @xcruelprincessx @writingprincessblog @wordslikepoisonn @misdollie @aurora-reads-books @bookaddictedrose @b3anieperson @charlieloveshughbiggs @future-muse @jamezplayzmc @phantomfandoms491 @rainydays-5 @throneofem @the-silent-romantic

[artemisiamasterofnone]

omg ME? tyy

We havent talked much so im surprised...

@obsessivebookwormalert @amir-of-choccymilk-elias @caravalxjurdan240

[amir-of-choccymilk-elias]

wait what

@privygrid @zeta-finnish @killer-offical @ebulatheduck @raccoon-go-bweh @the-lotus-files @alastorscuntologydegree @anonmous-offical @obsessivebookwormalert @itsuwari-no-kibo-offical

[privygrid]

aww love you too amir

@viktorscuntywaist @the-girl-who-lives-in-delusion13 @cyxnmoon @kasane-poteto-chip @randomfandoms47 @welltimedtumbleweed @aixtra @ebulatheduck (sorry you got tagged twice)

yall are the first ones that came to mind ily all

[sensoryeen]

continuing my love for aroace Ryland Grace, I enjoy imagining his dynamic with Rocky and Adrian as a third wheeler with two friends in a relationship who treat him like a semi-son. like this. he's 100% a designated backseat princess.

[notsotinyblob]

happy pride everybody

[wumbsie]

i came out as nonbinary this pride month so here's my contribution

[teashoesandhair]

Dear everyone who is currently working on a Thing, whatever that Thing may be,

Good luck with the Thing. You can do the Thing. You will do the Thing. You just have to do the Thing.

Best wishes,

Someone who is also doing a Thing

[official-kovaxworx]

I’ll try

[willow-wisp-fae]

Thank you, now I must go to work on the Thing more.

[privygrid]

I’m gonna go play with my Thing

[kasane-poteto-chip]

i was literally just thinking about writing a fic that I’ve been having ideas for omg

guess I gotta go work on Snowfall!!

[privygrid]

Thats a really nice word for a name i love it

[kasane-poteto-chip]

it also fits the story!!!!!!

it’s a snowgrave fic if that means anything to you

[privygrid]

No it doesnt i dont know what that is, sorry

But i still love it

[teashoesandhair]

Dear everyone who is currently working on a Thing, whatever that Thing may be,

Good luck with the Thing. You can do the Thing. You will do the Thing. You just have to do the Thing.

Best wishes,

Someone who is also doing a Thing

[official-kovaxworx]

I’ll try

[willow-wisp-fae]

Thank you, now I must go to work on the Thing more.

[privygrid]

I’m gonna go play with my Thing

[kasane-poteto-chip]

i was literally just thinking about writing a fic that I’ve been having ideas for omg

guess I gotta go work on Snowfall!!

[privygrid]

Thats a really nice word for a name i love it

[teashoesandhair]

Dear everyone who is currently working on a Thing, whatever that Thing may be,

Good luck with the Thing. You can do the Thing. You will do the Thing. You just have to do the Thing.

Best wishes,

Someone who is also doing a Thing

[official-kovaxworx]

I’ll try

[willow-wisp-fae]

Thank you, now I must go to work on the Thing more.

[privygrid]

I’m gonna go play with my Thing

[breakfastonvenusss]

to those of u who spam like my posts just know ur the wind beneath my wings

[dungeonmastersconsortium]

yeah, sure, it was the "power of friendship" that defeated you, and not my super cool "mega bone explosions" spell that I worked really hard on, whatever idiot

[teashoesandhair]

Dear everyone who is currently working on a Thing, whatever that Thing may be,

Good luck with the Thing. You can do the Thing. You will do the Thing. You just have to do the Thing.

Best wishes,

Someone who is also doing a Thing

[official-kovaxworx]

I’ll try

[willow-wisp-fae]

Thank you, now I must go to work on the Thing more.

[privygrid]

I'm gonna go play with my Thing

[gnocchioli]

Imagine all the things I could do if I just did them.

[technicoloranarchy]

“Aphobia discourse ended” but…

you still think aspec representation is a loss for queer representation.

you still can’t see a character with no romantic or sexual interests and interact with them without shipping them.

you still don’t accept people who are aplatonic, afamial, or any other kind of nonrose anattractional.

you still don’t accept alloaces and alloaros, people who are oriented aroace, people who are cupidosexual or cupioromantic, etc.

you still don’t accept hetero aspecs.

you still associate asexuality and aromanticism with whiteness, thinness, conformity, etc.

you still think of arormanticism as something that only occurs in tandem with asexuality.

you still think of aspec adults as lesser than allo adults, infantilize them, etc.

Maybe the discourse did end. But the bigotry hasn’t gone away.

[wormnextdoor]

i love queerplatonic relationships where one of them is aroace and the other isn't. i love when the allo character has a crush that fades over time. i love when they don't care what they are to each other as long as they're together. i love when romance is an option that they don't choose. i love when both aros and allos feel fulfilled without romance or sex.

[sans-the-skeleconch-offical]

Fun fact: I am absolutely terrified of the day that one of my posts get a youtuber voiceover!

I am NOT popular enough for that!

[marker-official]

you are!!!

im mostly sure I'm not, though.

[sans-the-skeleconch-offical]

I am absolutely not popular enough!

I barely have 175 followers!

[anonmous-offical]

Uh

[sans-the-skeleconch-offical]

DO. NOT.

I do not want 10k notes!

Thats how you attract the youtubers!

[anonmous-offical]

@no-one-offical @the-one-and-only-piper-offical @evilpineapple-offical @weedleysnumberonefan @satan-offical @nasa @kingkit7734 @harbinger-of-silly

Tag game guys

What’s your favorite color:3

[zeta-finnish]

Hello.

I don't have a favourite colour i just found this.

[amir-of-choccymilk-elias]

Black

@artemisiamasterofnone @privygrid @alastorscuntologydegree @queryoh @artemisiarising @the-lotus-files @the-diary-of-a-moody-teenager @ebulatheduck @itsuwari-no-kibo-offical @mooshroomdicktator @aquemm @h1v3wing @birdnerdlol @killer-offical @raccoon-go-bweh @raventhecrispy-offical @obsessivebookwormalert

I probably have more moots than this but I can’t remember

[privygrid]

blue, hello youtube

@viktorscuntywaist @the-girl-who-lives-in-delusion13 @randomfandoms47 @welltimedtumbleweed @kasane-poteto-chip @cyxnmoon @plutonium-17 @fleshcoloredskies @koreanthrillerenjoyer @drjayes @boosterseat3

[segamascott]