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Proship Confessions

Hello, this blog is dedicated as an anonymous space for proship and/or anti-harassment folk to vent about frustrations they have either within, outside of, or regarding being proship or anti-harassment.

Admin is 25+ and uses he/him pronouns. Confessions are posted at his discretion. Each confession is of the opinion of the confessor and does not necessarily reflect on thoughts of the community as a whole.

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Which fandom has the worst antiship crowd?

Confession #18

Let's ask the audience

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follow up on #13. i do agree being -13 online is a parent fault 100% lol, but by warnings, i mean “warning !! this type of relationship is not good in real life. if you are in a relationship like this, or somebody says its okay irl, please get help!! this is okay because it is not real life.”

Confession 17

Hmmm I guess if you think your creation reaches little kids then you can but I don't think they'll understand. Kids under 13 won't infer the context ykwim? And the warning might come across like you're welcoming them into the space. If you want to you totally can but I think its adding extra stress on yourself. At the end of the day you're just sharing what you love and if you stay away from circles that invite little kids you're less likely to need to do things like that.

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Have you seen those antiship confession accounts? Theyre deranged

Confession #16

(Yes....just screenshots sometimes)

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genuine question.

I myself am not proship, nor really like any terms

just a very open-minded adult is what I'd call myself i guess

i still get that little voice that tells me that I'm breaking people's DNI's when they say dni proship or kink or dni anti

i don't label myself proship and i understand where antis are coming from, but probably have "proship" views like percentage wise

I just exist- i genuinely have both anti and proship friends but keep them separate-ish (except for few friends) since it's not really my whole life

im really those tumblrs that don't have a stance in their bio, i just reblog and like what i like

in anyone's opinion, do you think I'm breaking their dni? sometimes i feel like i am

Confession #15

In my opinion if you don't identify as proship it doesn't apply. But it also may depend on the acct. If they have it in their bio, but have like thousands of followers and don't really talk about ship drama, then it doesn't matter that much. If they're a small acct or post about it they'll probably care more. Ultimately just use your best judgement.

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Hey, genuine question to either blog owner or anyone willing to weigh in: Would it still be weird/breaking boundaries to interact with someone who still has proship DNI in their rentry when I have good reason to believe their stance has changed? Please read the entire thing.

A year ago, this person followed my blog where I am openly proship. I looked at their account and saw that in their rentry, they had proship DNI. I politely messaged them and informed them of this. They were polite back and unfollowed.

Recently, I stumbled across their account again through old art. I didn't recognize them at first and accidentally interacted with some of their posts bc their rentry is a tiny link in their bio that I missed initially. I deleted these interactions after realizing, but I saw that they mentioned being more active on twt nowadays so I figured I'd check bc their art is cool.

While they are not explicitly proship, they are following pretty much ONLY accounts that label themselves as "anti-censorship" and post about taboo kinks. One of their reposts is defending ageplay.

OP at least WAS in a fandom that's small and full of antis, and so I'd really like to reach out if they are proship now. But they still do have proship DNI in their rentry...? It very well could be outdated and I am leaning towards them having never changed it.

However, I am unsure if actually reaching out and just asking politely if they've changed their stance on things would be okay. I genuinely don't wish to break boundaries intentionally.

Confession #14

My opinion is that you don't need to worry about it. From what it sounds like, it definitely sounds like they are exploring different ideas right now, but may not want to label themselves as proship or associate too closely with people who do. Jumping in and asking them to label their feelings may not be great, especially since you do not know them personally.

I also don't think you need to worry about your interactions. If it shows up on your feed and you interact, that's fine. They haven't blocked you, so I don't think they're going to be against you interacting through likes persay.

Ultimately, I think you shouldn't worry too much about them. Since they're just a stranger online, it's better to just hang out in your space for now. If they want to befriend you later, they might!

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i feel like a lot of us proshippers who post edits of our ships online ANYWHERE kinda need to start putting warnings more, bc there are gonna be young children who may see it and think its ok irl.

Confession #13

(I don't usually chime in on these, but what would you assume a warning should be like? When I think "young children" I am imagining under 13 years old? This seems like a complicated issue that involves the lack of parental supervision...)

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We need more proship fandom events

Confession #12

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Ppl always assume proship see ourselves as the perpetrator in darkships. I see myself as the victim idk!

Confession #11

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Are any proship also into dd lb/g? I'm curious. I feel so alone lol

Confess #10

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I hate being an autistic person with a lot of "childlike" interests but also very much a darkshipper and a freak in general. So many of my fandoms are full of minors and/or antis and 😭😭😭😭😭

Confess #9

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sometimes i feel like even my own thoughts (horny) about the dark ship i like are too much even for my own blog if you know have i mean. which is kind of funny because the ship is fucked up and i have definitely posted some fucked shit before and it would hardly be the worst thing posted in the ship tag but im always worried that one of these posts is gonna be the one that gets me got for some reason lol

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Confess #8

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I hate that what ships are considered problematic changes by the fandom because like I'm in a fandom where there is a ship between two adults who only ever knew each other as adults but one is in a mentor position and one is in a mentee position. it's considered pedophilia and incest. But again these characters are adults and only ever knew each other as adults and they aren't related whatsoever either biologically or adoptive

But you go to another fandom and that kind of dynamic is totally normal

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Confess #7

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thank you ao3 for protecting writers and never allowing censorship to plague your platform. we love and respect you for this

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Why are most anti shippers also radfems?

Confess #6

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I hate how many teenagers are in Pro ship spaces like in some ways I mean it's totally fine for them to be proship it's great but I really don't like seeing them talk about like the things that they are so openly. And then they constantly want to try and troll people too and it just makes it look worse.

Confess # 5

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