proshipper, anti harrassment, pro kink, anti para
side blog, can't follow back or send asks
reblogs welcomed and appreciated
not here to debate or argue, just to educate people on what the pro para movement/community is doing, on how kinks aren't inherently paraphilas/the distinction between kinks and paraphilas, and to encourage proshippers/others who have been silent out of fear of harrassment from pro paras to speak up and defend themselves and their community from paras invading and appropriating their spaces/tags/labels/etc
i understand that paraphilic attractions can be disordered attractions, but are not always disordered attractions
i do not believe people with inherently non-consensual paraphilas are doomed to become abusers or are inherently abusers
i do not hate people with inherently non-consensual paraphilas as long as they do not choose to act on their attractions, but i am uncomfortable around them regardless of whether they have acted on their attractions or not due to nature of their attractions and i know that my discomfort is both natural and acceptable
i believe that inherently non-consensual paraphilas should be destigmatized in the sense people can feel safe and confident when reaching out to professionals for help, i do not believe paraphilas should be normalized and become something to be causally discussed and talked about
i believe paraphiles using fictional characters to cope with their disordered attractions is healthy and i welcome that. i do not tolerate, let alone welcome, paraphilas who use real people, children, animals, etc to cope with their attractions, be it by grooming, molestating, or raping their being of desire, or by writing/drawing RPF of real people, children, animals, etc
will post infrequently in order to protect my mental health
will not tolerate harrassment towards anyone, anti/pro para, proshipper/antishipper, etc
will block pro paras unwilling to listen, hostile/rude/abusive antis, people with inherently non-consensual paraphilas, and trolls
please direct vents, questions, confessions, etc that are anti para related to the inbox
for simplicity and ease of creating and strengthen the anti para community, here is an emoji combo i made that you can stick in your tags, pinned post, bio, on flags, pfps, headers and where else you want to:
what i mean by being anti para:
the people who support and/ignore pedophiles, zoophiles, necrophiles and other people with inherently non-consensual paraphilas talking about REAL LIFE children, animals, corpses, etc in public spaces untagged and/or mistagged
the people who argue that fantasies about REAL LIFE children and animals is the same, let alone even remotely compatible to fantasies about cartoon characters (examples: liking lolisho or [insert anime protagonist] makes you a pedophile/liking furry characters makes you a zoophile, or that writing RPF of a child is the same as writing a fanfic involving a fictional character)
people who participate, encourage, or ignore pedophiles, zoophiles, necrophiles and other people with inherently non-consensual paraphilas mistagging posts about real children and/or animals with tags meant for fiction
people who argue that proship and/or pro kink must involve being pro para too, or else you're a hypocrite/[insert derogatory buzz word]
people who agrue that pedophiles, zoophiles, necrophiles and other people with inherently non-consensual paras should be allowed contact with, and/or should be allowed to rape the children, corpses, and/or animal they are attracted to by lying and saying that children and animals can consent, and/or saying that raping these children, corpses, and/or animals does not do harm
people who push the misinformation that all kinks are paraphilas because all paraphilas are kinks, when in reality most kinks are not paraphilas and all paraphilas are kinks. think squares and rectangles, squares can be rectangles but rectangles aren't always squares (in fact, most rectangles aren't squares)
people who take blame off pedophiles, zoophiles, necophiles and other people with inherently non-consensual paraphilas when they choose to act on those paras and rape a child, animal, corpse or adult and instead place blame on society and/or specific communities for not being comfortable around or not accepting those paraphiles
people who harrass, bully, shame and guilt trip others for not being comfortable and/or accepting of people with inherently non-consensual paraphilas
people who use paraphilas being a disorder to harrass, bully and guilt others into tolerating paraphiles, be it by making false accusations of ableism, infantilizing paraphiles, etc
people who conflate and/or compare having a paraphila to being schizophrenic, having BPD, or some other kind of stigmatized neurodivergency
people who conflate and/or compare paraphilia to sexualities and being lgbt, and/or people who appropriate lgbt language to describe paraphilas/paraphiles
