[thatadult]

sending “I hope you get that job” vibes to the people out here tryna get jobs

[theeeprotagonist]

reblogging for yall bc the shit worked for me lol

[blkmedusa]

Karma will pop me if I don’t

[overthadose-deactivated20170522]

🙏🏽

[11-11-1992]

Reblogging for @shaelab

[shaelab-deactivated20160923]

Thank you!

And good luck to everyone else🙏🏾

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Stop being a People Pleaser

1. Recognize that you have choices. Usually people-pleasers feel as if they don’t have a choice, and they have to say yes when someone asks for their help. But you DO have a choice – and it’s Ok to say no.

2. Decide on your priorities. If you already have commitments or you have set priorities then it’s easy to say no as you’ve a genuine “excuse”. Do what matters most to you, and please remember - it’s your life!

3. Stall for time – don’t give an answer right away. Say you need a bit of time before you make up your mind. That allows you time and space to think about the consequences. For other things will likely suffer if you take on far too much.

4. Don’t be afraid to add conditions to your yeses. For example, say that you’ll only say yes if someone else says yes as well – or only take on a new task for a set period of time.

5. Are you being manipulated? There are plenty who will use you to ensure their plans succeed, so watch out for those compliments and empty flattery.

6. Be firm when you say no. The first time you say no it feels uncomfortable and hard. But once you’ve done that a few times it starts to feel much easier. Also, if you sound confident then others take you seriously.

7. Don’t defend you decision. You have a right to say no – and to NOT defend yourself. It’s your life after all - you don’t have to explain “why” … or come up with excuses … or be pushed and pressurised. And don’t apologise to others - saying no is not a crime!

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Solange | Losing You

[africanaquarian]

Oh wow Christmas is next Tuesday? I think this is the least I’ve cared about it my whole life

[bayareamo-deactivated20190527]

Facts

[mens-rights-activia]

What if I told y’all the earth was a skinny legend and her waist was snatched to the gods. Then would y’all finally stan her and do more to fight global warming??? 🤔🤔🤔

[pissyelliott]

oh you want us to stan earth? name any of her number one singles……. that’s what i thought.

[mens-rights-activia]

I’m pretty sure Earth’s number one single is you, since no one wants to date a clown

[melonmemes]

[atomictiki]

Trying to find the same porn a month later

[theoriginalblackbarbie]

Listen I need to say this. Ain’t no way in hell and I mean AIN’T NO WAY IN HELL ARE YOU GOING TO TELL ME THAT BLACK WOMEN HAVE THE OBLIGATION TO HEAL BROKEN NIGGAS.In general it’s not your significant other’s job to heal what your family couldn’t. It’s selfish and manipulative.

[keeyawnuh]

Honestly I never really care for them but after watching this my heart is warm

[keeyawnuh]

[thecommonchick]

Same sis, same

[flip-this-table]

More blanekts means more maximum comfy

[medusabraids]

me talking abt my fave tv shows to myself 

[cybrrbunny-deactivated20250304]

me

[mulaneysbutt]

[distractible-dave]

me: I have so much to do and no idea where to start I’m so stressed

me, twenty minutes later: I’m bored I have nothing to do

[lamatar]

We all broke our rules for someone.

[dxmnkxm]

Lesson learned hard

[ithelpstodream]

[naturally-twisted-deactivated20]

Literally

[vibesofgolden]

I felt that

[yung-feo-deactivated20220411]

“When the RIGHT person asks if you’re okay”

[vuelosola]

Saging ur time line

[unsweetened-black-tea]

I feel all the positive energy. I radiate all of the positive energy