Twitter Hiatus
I'm taking a break from Twitter until I realize what I want to get out of Twitter. In the past it was a great tool for making connections in the local community. Then I learned I can seek out friends with common interests (movies and hockey). Then I was fascinated by small exchanges with pro athletes and filmmakers/actors, etc. What a cool place to be! What a small world we live in. Unfortunately, Twitter can be a lonely place for a guy with opinions.
Due to many factors my social media time is designated to specific hours of the day. I am ok with this. Social media is a part of my life but I’m careful not to place it above things that matter more: my wife, my cat, my family and my friends. When I have time I enjoy jumping on, sharing thoughts on what’s going on in my life and holler at my friends with similar interests. I make an effort to share movie tweets shortly after I watch a movie. 1 time out of 20 a friend will comment on said tweet, 1 time out of 132 I’ll get a “favorite” and 1 time out of 157 I’ll get a retweet. The lack of response has weighed on my soul. Sometimes I’ll see friends/acquaintances post something like, “Omg Captain America 2!” That tweet gets 20 retweets instantly with double that number in favorites. Obviously I’m doing something wrong. I do my part to support friends and fellow writers, it's not a two-way street.
When I post full movie reviews or an interview I’m more likely to hear from a bitter filmmaker (It has happened twice) than from an actual friend/colleague. That stings a lot. It’s an internal struggle that I doubt will ever go away. I take pride in what I do. It feels like I’m presenting myself to an empty audience. Maybe this is on me. Maybe I need to learn techniques to receive any form of response. Maybe some clickbait inspired headlines would help. (I’ll never do that) It would be crazy for me to say I’m only in this for retweets, favorites and conversation. A little bit of that once in a while would be nice, though.
This isn’t just about movies. I share a bunch about my personal life and I might as well just talk to a wall in terms of sharing. Maybe my life is boring. Maybe it’s not a big deal that I just landed the best job of my life and only one friend responded (I <3 u Nikki!). I have lost friends on Twitter and I’m still confused as to why. I care about people. When I stop hearing from someone, I notice so I check their profile only to find out I have been blocked by that person. I cannot count the many fellow Canucks fans I have lost as followers. I probably lost them because I have strong, often blunt opinions on the team. It’s weird that people don’t like to have their expectations curbed. I still hold my stance that you’re delusional if you thought the Canucks had a good chance at the Cup after the Boston Cup run. This doesn’t make me less of a fan, this makes me a fan with a realistic outlook. I can still root for my team while keeping my expectations low. One time I lost a slew of female mutual followers because I told them to ignore a stupid, attention ***** who insults people to get a reaction. She got her reaction, I told them “Just ignore her.” Things escalated and I lost a handful of fellow fans I chatted with on a regular basis. More recently I lost a fellow Canucks fan who I followed from day 1. It hurts when I lose people I respect. I’ll take responsibility for it, doesn’t mean I have to like it when they peace out without saying a word.
Where does that leave me? Frustrated, annoyed, hurt and confused. Social media changes every day so I’m taking this time to re-think what I want out of Twitter. This likely means that I will follow fewer people. On the positive side it’s giving me more ideas for using Instagram and Facebook. Facebook has been the one constant for me. I post something there and it’s rare when I do not receive some form of engagement from someone. When I comment on someone’s status or photo I get a reply. IT IS SO WEIRD! The success rate of engagement is much higher for me on Facebook. For Twitter I feel like a Naggy Maggy sending people Tweets that I’m not sure they read at all. I don’t know how long I’ll be away. It may be 72 hours, could be a month but I’ll be back. Hell...I wonder how many people will never read this in the first place! lol It’s all good. Y’all don’t have to read it and THANK YOU if you are reading and talking to me on social media. If you want to keep in touch look me up on FB and Instagram (adriancharlie)












