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| Don't repost my art pls | - | NB/All pronouns are fine! | 26 | I'm Emily, a character designer and D&D dungeon master. I draw, I swear.

[pocket-deer-belly]

at some point in being autistic it becomes really clear that everyone wants you to come up with solutions to problems you've never been helped with

[pocket-deer-belly]

i don't know how to fix our communicative problems, you're the source of it and it's exhausting to be treated as irrational for not responding correctly to small talk, do you think you could help a disabled bitch out and not put the onus of solving the problem on me, the one who is constantly excluded and treated as a freak

[pocket-deer-belly]

and then when you point this out they're like "but we literally put up with you, could you do something for us please?" and it's like. you put up with me?

[anarchopuppy]

we dont talk abt the way that constantly being distrusted and talked over as a disabled kid makes it impossible to understand ur own feelings as a disabled adult

i learned very quickly that if i said "im tired all the time and cant find the motivation to do schoolwork" theyd say "no ur just lazy, stop making excuses" and if i said "my ritalin makes me feel uncomfortable and itchy all day" theyd say "stop being difficult and just take the pills" and theyre the adults and im just a lying lazy kid so what they say goes

so since correctly identifying and expressing my feelings was punished i focused instead on making excuses that adults would accept. "i cant bear to spend another day doing busywork in that awful windowless building where all the students and faculty hate me" turned into "i just threw up". until i learned to skip the step where i ask myself why i feel so awful, bc that information sure isnt going to help me

eventually all i was left with was the internalized voice of my teachers and parents insisting that no matter how miserable and exhausted i am i just need to stop faking it and try harder. and its taking a long long time to unlearn that and figure out how im supposed to know how i feel

[greatmountainfloofsquatch]

As a disabled kid, I noticed and came to loathe the cultural belief that kids are "lazy" and "trying to get out of things" in general. Treating kids with suspicion and distrust only makes them less trustworthy.

[lara-cherriinie]

my name is Susie Deltarune and my power is being oblivious as fuck

[hollow-head]

"who do you self insert as when you read?"

This is me when I read:

[mel-can-draw]

[keropppiii]

krusie’s repost HAPPY PRIDE 😻

[yoshida-midoriko]

[p0kegifs-blog]

[verymerrymart]

[waddei]

hello team cherry, please throw that spider into the ocean as soon as possible, thank you.

[tigerwithasniper]

Reblog if you’re Team Instinct

Reblog here for Team Mystic

Reblog here for Team Valor

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[howlingday]

It’s been ages, but… here we are again.

[godlessondheimite]

all media today is writers frantically trying to make their work idiotproof and then the audience frantically trying to make themselves better idiots

[guttertongue]

Loam: A rich, fertile soil composed of sand, silt, clay and humus.

[kezrekade]

Only on the darkest arctic nights can you encounter this Primordial Pokémon. It manifests as aurora and ice, gently towering over the pole's frigid denizens... ✨❄️🧊 (There are 12 kinds of Pokémon in this #art! Can you find 'em all? Some are well hidden... Have fun, open your mind, & don't give away answers! 💕) Image on Bluesky~

[milksparrow]

牺牲与奉献

[senblades]

Hope, the luxury and folly of immortal things

[koumouby]