The Jackals Perspective

Puppy Play and General BDSM

[tinyfearlessleader]

“Twink eats out tasty hole in public” #MakeYourLifeAPornhubTitle

[sir-erik]

*sighs* … @tinyfearlessleader … living proof that boys need Sirs. 

[pup-mischief]

You know it @sir-erik

[pup-mischief]

That moment when a puppy fills your hole with his hot seed. Rrrrffff nothing can compare.

[pup-mischief]

This is my place, where I belong being used by those who are better than me.

[pup-mischief]

Inclusion in the Community

So it's been a while since I posted something on here on Tumblr. I have been dealing with personal issues on my life as well as other things that are going on around me with those I care about. However I want to take some time out today to discuss something that seems to be a continuous topic of discussion within our community.

Having been in the community for 6 years I have seen the level of inclusivity fluctuate. We seem to forget that just because someone elses kinks, gender, pronouns, or what have you doesnt make the individual any different than ourselves. They are still a part of this community. I have seen accusations of consent violations slung around as carelessly as lube in an orgy, i have seen peoples reputations destroyed on the words of one or two individuals because that person didnt align the way they felt they should, i have watched minorities within the community be told to sit down, be quiet and know your place. This kind of action goes against the very message that we claim to hold closest to us. All inclusion and support for those who are in this lifestyle with us.

Not everyone is guilty of this. It seems to always be a small group of individuals who are caught up in the mindset of oh I must protect the community, i must be heard, i must be seen as a leader and if I oust this one person or one group of people because I know all of the nasty tidbits of things about them no matter how old the "dirt" is then i have succeeded in my job. No what you have done is ostracized someone or someones who may have made poor decisions in the past and are now trying to reconcile themselves and prove that they are a valuable member of society and this community.

Its true the internet is forever but going halfcocked on something when you dont know everything ,except what a webpage or what someone else says shows you for who you really are. A shallow narrow minded individual whos only goal is to cause drama and discontent. I have been the victim of this I wont lie. I have done things in the past that I am not proud of and I have had people try to use it against me. It doesnt feel good, especially when they dont k ow anything about you except what they heard.

How can we say that we are inclusive or supportive of all in the community when these actions are taken against its members. How can I say I accept you for who you are if I cannot look past the negative and see the positive. Now thats not to say that everyone fits this criteria because lets face it there are some toxic people out there. Looking at whats on the inside and not whats on the outside is what makes a person a good judge of character. Not reading what everyone else says and forming our own opinions and judgments based on the HERE and NOW and I ot the past is what will help remove the stigma that our community has of being hypocritical and exclusionary.

[pup-mischief]

Pupdate

So it's been awhile since I have been on here on Tumblr. My how the time has flown. Let's see moved from Seattle to Portland and then back to Seattle and then back to Portland. I now have two pups of my own who I am working with on a regular basis. Life has been very challenging but has also had its good moments over the past couple of years. I don't really have any heavy topics I want to post about at this moment but I probably will here in the next few days. See you all soon

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REBLOG TO JOIN THE ZOOTOPIA JUNIOR RANGER SCOUTS

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[kinkywiddlemind]

Nicely done. Such a extremely white straitjacket. How very medical play looking…

[pup-mischief]

Fucking hot boy in a straight jacket and diaper. Hell yeah

[pup-mischief]

Trouble Getting Into Headspace

Ok guys I am going to discuss something that I have not really seen anything about the pup mentallity and pup headspace. That would be pups having a hard time getting into pup headspace. As most people who have read my blog know from reading my previous post about Pup Mentallity there is something called pup headspace which is the headspace that pups go into to be their pup selves.

Headspace is something that is always evolving and always changing along with you as events happen in your lives. Most of the time the events that happen in your human life do not affect the ability of you to go into headspace. There are those moments and I have talked with many pups who have said that at times they have had a hard time going into pup headspace. Just like pup headspace is different from pup to pup the reasons that a pup might be having difficulty can vary depending on the pup. 

I know for myself personally when I am going through a lot of stress or emotional shit that I have a hard time getting into headspace. This tends to be true for most pups as well. The human brain is a wonderful thing however when dealing with something traumatic like the loss of a loved one, a relationship ending, the loss of a job etc its difficult at times to focus on more than one thing at a time. It is at this time that a pup may have difficulty going into pup headspace. Trying to cope with emotional trauma or stress can definitely affect a pups headspace as the pup in question may feel detached from their pup side and feel like there is a block mentally between them and their pup headspace. It can be overcome but in my personal experience only the reassurance and love of a handler/trainer/owner/dom as well as time will help the pup overcome this obstacle.

Another thing that can affect a pup going into headspace can be physical trauma. Yes some people say awww pain is just weakness leaving the body. Ummmmm yeah if you want to believe that then hey more power to you. Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, HOWEVER try focusing on anything other than feeling physical pain and you will find that its almost impossible. This aspect of having difficulty getting into headspace is pretty self explanitory.

And then there is my personal favorite because while its understandable its also so adorable. And that would be the brand new puppy. Yup I am talking about the puppy who has never been in headspace. All throughout your life you are taught what is acceptable and what is not and the mentality of the pup is definitely not something that is taught to be acceptable. So while you can put the hood, knee pads, paws and whatever else you would like to add to that list if its your first time going into headspace expect some difficulty. I am going to use an example here to explain what I am talking about.

A friend of mine who has been wanting to get into pup play finally got to pup out for her first time tonight. She started out by using meditation to get into the mindset and then we put the pup hood on her. Once she had the hood on (yes a female puppy) she managed to slip deeper into headspace however as she told me once she came out of headspace that her biggest obstacle was breaking through that mental training that we all received growing up. Once she was able to break through it holy hell open the flood gates and let the pups out. I have to say that watching a pup hit headspace for the first time was exhilarating and brought tears to my eyes. To help someone into that headspace and see them become who they truly are deep down inside is an experience I wish that everyone could feel and witness. 

In closing if you are having difficulty getting into headspace then I encourage you to follow some of the ideas that I have mentioned here. If you have a Dom then please go to them and talk to them about your concerns and see if they have any other ideas other than the ones I have listed here. Remember these are just my opinions and suggestions not something that works for everyone. So to you pups that are going through this keep pupping on and you will get back into headspace. Don't give up and be who you are. As always guys nuzzles and hugs.

[pup-mischief]

The Mindset of the Human Puppy

So now that I have broken the surface with my post about Females in Pup play (Thank you by the way Pup Razz for the wonderful comments on both here and Facebook) I figured I would discuss using references from my favorite website www.siriuspups.net about the pup mindset. 

The psychology behind pup play goes a lot deeper than most people think. Most people that I have talked to think oh so you get down on all fours and just act like a dog? Ummmm for some people this may be the case and you know what more power to them. Pup play isnt about sinking deep into headspace all the time. Its whatever your comfort level is.

Some people are comfortable just barking and acting like a dog without going into headspace. Others are content to just watch from the sidelines and bark or ruff at points if they are barked or ruffed at. This to is ok. I think the first and foremost important detail of pup play that a lot of people forget is its what makes you most comfortable. Now i know for me I cant help but go deep into headspace. Pup play has been such a huge part of my mental healing that anytime I hit the mats I go straight into headspace and its a bitch to bring me out. Just ask a couple of the people have how been interim handlers for me at moshes and they will tell you the same thing. 

Now enough of my own personal opinions lets see what some of the more experienced people have to say about the Pup Mindset. "Being a pup means you are also a man or woman, a human being at the same time. You are never going to be fully transformed. However, as a human you have the best platform to aid you to become a pup - your mind. Using your imagination and empathy you can embrace your animal urges and focus them into a pup experience that is often called pupspace or pupzone. The pupzone is not easy to attain, and needs practice and work like any other Pup skill." 

Being a pup means letting go of your human self, who you imagine yourself to be, letting go of judging and thinking and attempting to control the world and be someone. A pup is just a pup, a raw natural animal, naked and exposed to the world and ready to explore and experience with his senses. Being a pup means not knowing, being open to experience without having to judge, to categorise. A pup doesn't take things personally, since he is not a person. He feels, he reacts, and he stays in the moment. It is play, it is simple experience without feeling judged or social pressure to conform or be a human being.

Letting go and becoming a pup means not dwelling on something, not fixating on your human issues and experiences, and being able to pass by what comes into your brain from your human mind. It is more like witnessing, observing, passing through experiences as a pup and going with the flow - instead of being a human who should be acting or doing something." Ok lets stop for a second and go over some of this. Any of this sound familiar from my last post? Or maybe from earlier on in this post? The simple fact of the matter is whether you have been a pup, are currently a pup or you are just starting out on your pup journey you will find that the experiences that you will have or have had molded you into the person that you are today in the human sense. 

Now take your experiences you have had as a puppy. They will play a part in how you transform mentally and emotionally as a pup. Like Jyan says "Letting go and becoming a pup means not dwelling on something, not fixating on your human issues and experiences, and being able to pass by what comes into your brain from your human mind." This speaks directly to allowing yourself to sink into that pup headspace and not focusing on what has happened or what will happen. Its about letting everything pass by that comes into your mind as a human and focusing on the moment. Well I feel like I have presented some pretty good information. As always if you have questions you can feel free to ask me or better yet go to www.siriuspups.net and send them a message and ask them if you feel that you can get a better answer from them. As always *nuzzles and hugs*

[pup-mischief]

Females in Pup Play

So a friend of mine Pup Razz (who has a wonderful blog on females in pup play btw) posted about females involved in pup play. She is a sweetheart and I love her to death. Ok all the out of the way I am going to post my own thoughts on females involved in the pup play community. 

Pup play  has been a part of the leather community for many years. For the longest time it was a hidden part of the community. It started out as something that Masters or Sirs would do to their slaves or boys to humiliate them or punish them. Treating a sub as less than human has been a part of humiliation play for some time. What a lot of Sirs and Masters found was that their submissive's enjoyed being treated as dogs or puppies or that they took on the characteristics of a dog or puppy when put into that headspace thus pup play was born. 

Pup play has evolved over the years and in the past two or three years has really exploded into the mainstream of the leather community. More and more individuals involved in the leather lifestyle are joining the pup community. Just like with the BDSM and leather community there are many differen facets of the pup play scene. There are gear pups, natural pups, rubber pups, leather pups, and the list goes on. The biggest part is that a lot of people think that pup play is only for males and this is where I have an issue.

Recently I had the honor of being invited to Denver's Puppies in the Mountains event. I proudly wear my 2013 Pack tag around my neck showing my involvement with their event. While I was up in Denver I saw at least five or six female puppies. Yes thats right FEMALE PUPPIES. Females, Transgender, Male, Gender Fluid or whatever the hell you want to call them can be involved in pup play. 

The biggest thing that I think a lot of people dont realize is that pup play is for any and everyone. You dont have to have a cock hanging between your legs to be a puppy. Pup play isnt about who is the most dominant or who has the biggest penis hanging between their legs. Its about the connection that a person has with their pup side. Its about expressing who they feel they are inside of themselves. Pup play inst about gender, gear, being owned, being a stray etc. Its about connecting with that part of your mind and body that says "hey I am a puppy and I want to play". Its about being who you feel you are deep down inside and not allowing anyone to dictate who you are. its about the release that the pup headspace provides for each and every individual puppy as well as their owners, handlers, trainers, etc. 

I have found that I can get on the mats with a female puppy just as much as I can with a male puppy. When you are in pup headspace gender doesnt matter. Its about whats going on in the moment. Not whats going on tomorrow or next week or even next year. Its about being a pup and playing and romping around with other pups. It doesnt matter if you are big, small, medium, extra extra large. I feel like I am repeating myself here but I feel that the point is that pup play is about going into that part of you psyche that says I want to be a puppy and be me for a little while thank you very much. 

In closing I have to say that my experiences with females pups though I am gay has been a positive one. I find that I am intrigued and encourage females who want to get involved in pup play or are starting on their journey into pup play to throw all the stereotypes out of the window and just hit the mats with tail wagging and have a tail wagging good time. If someone cant accept the fact you are female and a pup thats thier problem. Dont let some asshole dictate who you are and detract you from being what you feel deep down in your soul. *nuzzles and hugs*