there was a time when hthr and I first got together where I would give her limited information about things such as my job, exactly where I lived, where I spent my time, etc and she would send me things that she had figured out, just randomly. sending me the address of my job, sending me the names of parks I like to go to, and anything else she figured out. this game got a little too easy once she started visiting me regularly, but one time she did manage to show up at the park I was at for my lunch break without me realizing until she was getting into my car.
these days, our game isn't really viable as we know practically everything about each other. but I've been thinking about taking an extended trip somewhere. a place small enough that it's not too hard to find me, but big enough that she wouldn't be too easy to spot. I don't tell her my itinerary, just the dates and the main destination. maybe I choose a city that she have friends in that I don't know about, and maybe I go out to a bar one night and she tells her friends to flirt with me and get me to go with them, only for her to knock the wind out of me, throw a bag over my head, and shove me in a trunk the second we step into the alley. maybe I get a glimpse of her face as she punches me, maybe I don't see it's her until I wake up disoriented in some basement somewhere, cold and scared and maybe wishing just a little that I hadn't given her standing consent to ignore my safeword.