now at @kyrt4t

dont follow this blog (not active). @pepper_407 on ao3.

[purgeshubble-deactivated]

This account will always have my entire heart; I have had it since before I was a teenager and well into my 20s but now I must give it up...

For the reason of I don't have the password and no longer have access to the email associated with it (lmao). But don't worry if u like the shit I do, the same stuff happens on my new blog (courtillyy).

The fact that this account will be still getting notes makes me both happy and sad. The most important thing is that everyone who wants to keep following me knows where to go. Goodbye to a blog that unironically helped my teenage self have a place to belong.

[genderkoolaid]

i see "men bad" jokes as very similar to suicide jokes. like making them every once in a while isn't the worst thing, but if you Keep making them constantly. it DOES shape how you start thinking and you WILL become a more unpleasant and bitter person and also make people around you uncomfortable. and sometimes you just gotta choose to not make or engage with certain jokes, even if they are amusing to you, because its just not who you wanna be

[jasontoddschildbearinghips]

Respectfully, bad take. Stop tone policing people who are affected by misogyny. We are allowed to be just fucking pissed, and if it makes people more uncomfortable than the men who cause harm, that is their bias.

If I am a more bitter person because I lived in a world where I was oppressed by men, then I am another victim. And I am bitter, oppression has made me a worse person, because that’s how that works.

[bookwyrmbutch]

OP, do you feel similarly about other groups of oppressors? Do you think hating straight people as a gay person, able-bodied people as a disabled person, or white people as a person of color makes you bitter and unpleasant? Or is it just men who are off limits?

[genderkoolaid]

No, I think what I said applies to all groups. Making jokes on occasion is one thing. But when you are constantly going "straight people are worthless," it does start to reinforce the unironic belief that some people are, essentially, less human and worthy of any amount of hatred. And not only will that make those people, it will make people who aren't straight/abled/white uncomfortable because they know and care about someone who is, or the attitude is something they disagree with.

I'm not saying Ever Making A Joke At A Powerful Group's expense is bad. There is a difference between an oppressive group joking about those they oppressed to reinforce the status quo, and oppressed people making jokes about them to cope with life and push back.

It's about not pretending it doesn't have a real affect on your beliefs. at some point you DO unironically believe that straight people are worse, which means you believe that someone should have their worth judged by their sexuality. and THAT becomes the kind of person you are. it's not that the impact of oppressors making jokes about the oppression being equal to that of the reverse. there is a reason why making fun of white people is different than white people making fun of people of color; there's a lot of real harm that weighs behind those jokes, and they are a way of reinforcing the oppressive status quo. but ultimately you have to confront whether you want yourself, or your movement, to have certain values. you can't just hide behind "it doesn't matter because it's just jokes" because like. aside from what you see as moral. do you plan on being powerless forever? do you plan on your beliefs never having an impact on the world?

[academicblorbo]

"if you are over 30 on Tumblr the mental illness won" "the aging fanbase of Tumblr" motherfucker if you are over 30 and have been here the entire time it means the mental illness didn't win we are still alive WE MADE IT

[hi-raethia]

me personally i will never get used to the insidious creeping of AI into everything we do and own. i hate this adapt or die mentality

[purgeshubble-deactivated]

I'm like some form of demisexual where it's only streamers and occasionally fictional characters. and also this one bartender. that im attracted to

[transfemzedaph]

c!joel? genderqueer.

cc!joel? trans woman.

[transfemzedaph]

every rb this gets i fear it will escape into the place where everyone will hate me for this post jdbfbfb

[gaysie]

you ever read fanfiction so good you start experiencing penis envy. sorry is this a safe space

[sotrias-labyrinth-deactivated20]

but anyways if you guys could reblog good posts and not bad posts I would appreciate that. saves me a lot of trouble

[conarcoin]

minecraft youtubers don't try to fuck your mods challenge

[conarcoin]

why is it always this tho surely its not worth it

[antimony-medusa]

The fast clips in Tommy's new music video

[bronzetomatoes]

I'm sending a bomb threat to the next lovejoy concert

[gloww0rms]

this randomly blew up on twitter so i figured i’d post it here bc lord knows everyone on this app is neurodivergent

[striders]

[jon-jarchivist-sims]

Hold on, let me look something up real quick

[jon-jarchivist-sims]

Yeah this is funny

[im-a-goat-in-disguise]

[spiribia]

I like when the bus stops directly in front of you out of the line of waiting people and opens its doors. Chosen by the dragon

[redstonedust]

my favourite part of this wild life session was watching their reactions to the wild card bc the range says so much about them. like some clocked the slow mo being the wild card immidiately while others were stuck going "aw dang it my game is frozen." i think the ggggs were the only people who assume it must be a temporary effect and debating how they can fix it while ren and martyn are too busy role-playing to have a coherent thought. joel deciding the first thing he needs to do is slow mo walk away from an explosion. how many people across the map start immidiately punching eachother for no reason. this season is literally just dropping things in their enclosure and seeing how they react and i love it.

[knightedangel-deactivated202412]

men’s tummies men’s tummies men’s tummies

[knightedangel-deactivated202412]

thinking about kissing a man’s hairy tummy rn btw

[hungry-skeleton]

Teeth weak as fuck why can't you be like bones

[hungry-skeleton]

Bones: with time I will mend this fracture stronger then ever. You were wise to put your faith in me.

Teeth: auuggh pleeasseee get this granule of sugar awaaayy from meee I am MELTING and BURNING nnnNNOOO you are cleaning me TOO HARD;! aaaiughh my fucking enamellll one billion cavities for you!!! Your sins against me are PERMANENT you SICK BITCH