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'05 autistic&adhd (all pronouns) |tone indicators appreciated| this is my safe space to rant&ramble pls be kind

[ladylokilaufeyson5]

“this ship isn’t canon” to YOU. I, however, am delusional

[softctrll]

The real barbie is Y/n.

Y/n’s a doctor, a cop, a scientist, an agent, vet, hero, villain, astronaut, lawyer, spy, criminal, artist, chef, engineer, psychologist, architect, journalist, firefighter, event planner, mechanic, photographer, musician, actor, interior designer, bartender, fashion designer, barista, florist, forensic scientist, flight attendant, profiler, tour guide, translator, etc.

[lightning-system]

As a medium/lower support needs autistic who works with young higher support needs autistic:

We all matter. We all have the same diagnosis. We all deserve to be treated with dignity and respect.

But we are not the same.

I can mask and might be seen as 'odd' or 'weird' in public. The students I work with are seen as 'dangerous' and 'practically little kids'.

I can go to university and work with accommodations. The students I work with likely will never live independently and a few might find jobs that support them but still pay them less than an abled worker.

I have full control of my finances. The students I work with aren't allowed to make independent financial decisions, even if capable.

If I say 'no,' I'm making a choice. The students I work with can't say 'no' without being labeled as defiant and difficult.

I can feed myself, bathe myself, and take care of myself with extreme challenges. The students I work with are unable to take care of themselves without high levels of support/one on one support.

I had an IEP in high school but was mainstreamed in classes. The students I work with take separate classes and some rarely get to interact with their abled peers.

Our experiences are fundamentally different. Higher support needs autistics will experience a specific type of ableism I never will, and can never fully understand.

Lower support needs autistics need to stop saying we understand what higher support needs autistics are going through and then present autism as only being disabling because of society/lack of acceptance because that is dangerous. We need to stop saying every autistic person is capable of everything if given the right support because that leaves out huge parts of our community who will never be able to do certain things, regardless of support.

We are worthy of existence regardless of our abilities.

Autism is a spectrum. It is not the same for every autistic person. Autism acceptance and advocacy has to come with accepting, acknowledging, and listening to our higher support needs peers.

[kunikloj]

It’s so sad that in order to get people to care about Palestine, we completely ignore the thousands of innocent men who have been killed in this genocide. We have to say “children”, or “women and children”, with slightly lower numbers, because the full death count is somehow seen as less tragic when we include men.

My heart aches for the innocent men of Palestine who have been slaughtered. You mattered just as much as anyone else. And for the men who are doing everything in their power to help their fellow Palestinians, we love and respect you. Thank you for all that you do.

[bebsi-cola]

like. there's going to be times that you're inconvenienced by a disabled person in public. maybe their wheelchair will take up more space than someone without one. maybe one wheelchair user bay could hold three standing people. so what? they have the right to use public spaces. in fact they need to use them as well. no matter how inconvenienced you feel, that's someone's existence. they can't just not exist in public, or stay home forever, or suddenly become abled just for your convenience. they can't give up on living their lives for you

[sayruq]

As always don't forget about eSims

[longlivepalestine]

I hate this world.

fuck the USA. fuck Israel

death to all colonizers

Republican Representative Brian Mast is questioning the innocence of babies killed in Gaza.

[nightixx]

I saw some artist sharing art about what's happening in Palestine and saying "I'm joining the trend"

GENOCIDE ISN'T A TREND

SHOWING YOUR SUPPORT TO A POPULATION ISN'T A TREND

PALESTINE ISN'T A TREND

[totallynotcensorship]

[nondivisable]

some of yall need to understand that "my body, my choice" also applies to:

addicts in active addiction with no intention of quitting

phys disabled people who deny medical treatment

neurodivergent people who deny psychiatric treatment (yes, including schizophrenic people and people with personality disorders)

trans people who want or don't want to medically transition (yes, including trans masc lesbians with top surgery and trans women without bottom surgery, yall are so weird to them wtf)

and if you can't understand that, then you don't get to use the phrase

[nondivisable]

hi im muting my notifications on this post cause i cant deal anymore but first i need a last angry rant

where in it do you see "my body my choice means im exempt from consequences"? NOWHERE, because that's obviously not the case

yes, people with PDs can be abusive without their meds

yes, being raised in an addictive household can be bad for a child

yes, refusing treatment for medical conditions can make you a "burden" for your family (im actually way more mad at this one than the rest, im just choosing my battles)

as much as it is my choice whether or not to medicate my personality disorder, it is also yours to be involved with me or not

i have gone AWOL for months due to this, i've canceled plans last minute, i've hurt people's feelings

some of these people accept that that's the way i am and are still my friends and some don't and we don't talk anymore. i broke up with my ex over this because i was a very bad romantic partner. we're still friends, but they usually lean on others for emotional support cause i can't understand it. i am mad about none of these things, because i know them to be true. i also know strong meds make me want to kill myself. they make me not feel like a person. i refuse to take meds to be more palatable to you.

ALL OF THESE THINGS CAN COEXIST

people can do shit that is harmful to you, but that doesn't give you the right to deprive them of their basic human rights

(shoutout to the person who called me a white american liberal, i'm latine and an agressive socialist but it did make me take the rest of their post less seriously, otherwise i would've cried)

also also, just because this is the last time i'm speaking on this:

every one of you who starts your post with "i agree with the transition part but" is a hypocrite

not too long ago - not to mention to this day - transmasc lesbians and trans men who didn't medically transition were kicked out of every single queer circle, trans spaces, lesbian spaces, gay spaces. because of closed mentality

if you can open your mind to one of these things, you can open it to all. deconstruct yourself or whatever the fuck

[la7ma-mafrooma-deactivated20251]

Please do not contribute to the demonization of Palestinian boys and men by erasing them from your pro-Palestinian posts. Innocent civilians have been killed and others have survived and have to endure survivor's guilt and an indescribable amount of grief and fear. That includes men, women, and children. Palestinian men and boys are innocent too. They've been humiliated, subjected to sexual violence at the hands of the occupation, had to carry the remains of their loved ones, and a lot of them have been killed during carpet bombings or by Israeli snipers.

Please do not exclude them!

[snakedice]

free Palestine, but remember something

young chinese cambodian , says something important. If there is a true ceasefire, and the genocide against the gazan people ends, dont do that white people advocacy thing, and instantly stop paying attention to palestine. Rehabilitate please! After a genocide, the economy, education, the landscape is changed for so much worse. Notice how they bomb things like hospitals, schools, and universities? its to make recovering from this harder for gaza. Its happened before for people who've suffered from genocide, for once dont let it happen again. I hope that soon, gaza can escape literal hell, brought by israel

[theoneandonlyve]

The desire for platonic intimacy is killing me rn. Like not even sex just like hugging and holding hands and cuddling like I need friends I can be close to.

[thataroacedude]

REBLOG IF YOUR BLOG IS A SAFE SPACE FOR AROMANTIC PEOPLE AND IF YOU THINK THEY ARE VALID

I want to see how many people actually are willing to say this and not just act like it

[cpunkhobie]

"disability only exists because the world isnt accessible" idk how to tell you this but chronic pain still hurts

[cpunkhobie]

i like the sentiment and i think its true in many ways, but people with mobility issues will still have mobility issues in an accommodating world, people with sensory disabilities will still have those disabilities in an accommodating world. and thats not including neurodiversity where two people with the exact same disorder will have very different experiences with them. like there's not a world where someone with agoraphobia wont be scared to leave the house just cause outside is more accessible

i dont think it accounts for the wide range of disability experience and caters more to low-support needs people. i think life would be so much easier if being disabled was less stigmatized, but disability wont just go away once it is

[cpunkhobie]

you can't autism proof a bright summer day, but you can normalize stimming and using sensory aids in public

[chaotic-queer-disaster]

apparently we r doing this again

Selective Mutism: an anxiety disorder. The inability to talk is caused by social anxiety due to the people and/or situation around the selectively mute individual. Often starts in childhood.

Speech Loss: a term for being unable to speak for a certain period of time, usually due to autism-related reasons (e.g. being overwhelmed or burnt out). Can overlap with Selective Mutism, the disorder, but it is not the same thing. (For one, SL is a trait; SM is a whole disorder.)

Nonverbal/Nonspeaking: a term for people who are always or almost always unable to talk. If you're unable to talk for an hour/day/week, you're not "going nonverbal"; you're "losing speech". If you've never been able to talk more than a few utterances, that's nonverbal.

Semiverbal/Semispeaking: a term for people who struggle greatly to speak to communicate. This might include taking awhile to form sentences, speaking with very few words, relying on echolalia, using gestures to communicate, and not always making sense to others.

Hyperverbal: people who speak more than what's typical, though we can still experience speech loss. This can include things like having a large vocabulary, using more words than necessary/usual to say something, talking to ourselves, talking for the sake of talking, using a lot of non-communicative echolalia, not realizing we're talking, or rambling often.

A Note: over time, your place on the verbalizing spectrum (nonverbal, semiverbal, average, hyperverbal) CAN change, but that's not, like, "oh i was hyperverbal this week and nonverbal last week"; it's about overarching patterns. Additionally, Selective Mutism does not inherently put someone at a certain spot on the verbalizing spectrum.

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