a lot of y’all out here making posts about how much you support enbies but will invalidate them if they don’t fit the mold.
the mold is white, naturally androgynous, non aligned, short hair, really skinny, afab, actively transitioning, identifing as trans, binding, pansexual or asexual, listening to indie or alt music, has a goblincore aesthetic, and maybe dyed hair.
let me clarify, if you fit this mold as a nonbinary person, you’re valid and you’re nonbinary. i’m not saying you aren’t.
i’m just saying if this is the ONLY type of nonbinary person you support, you’re enbyphobic.
nonbinary people can be poc, lesbian, gay, bi, amab, binary aligned, not transistioning, not identifying as trans, fat, and overall not fit your “ùwú enby space babey” aesthetic.
let nonbinary people exist the way they do.
stop treating our identities like things to be discussed or debated NO MATTER WHAT SIDE YOURE ON. nonbinary people are nonbinary and are valid, end of convo. our validity was NEVER up for debate. periodt.
if you take away one thing from this, let it be to LISTEN TO NONBINARY PPL.
- sincerely, a very pissed black autistic nonbinary butch lesbian with she/her and they/them pronouns
terfs/gender critical people and transmeds/truscum, don’t even BREATHE near this post.
nonbinary people can add on but binary trans ppl and cis people should only spread.
There’s nothing wrong with being afab and not binding and and still having long hair or other ‘feminine’ features.
