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[galactic-crossing]

“So, no head?”, by @chanbanhi

[catboydoll]

we’re all dead now.

[untitledaccount42069-deactivate]

what if we were cute little cats kissing in the garden... haha... just kidding.... unless?

[ivan-shishkin]

Birch and mountain ash, 1878, Ivan Shishkin

[ierotating-deactivated20151115]

cr

[iero-frank]

[klopbondy]

[theloadera-deactivated20160104]

How The Gods Kill

[100493503004422]

me: I’m doing pretty well, I feel pretty good me ten minutes later: not once in my life have I ever been ok

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[brainweirdkohai]

forgiveness isn’t the goal for everyone. it shouldn’t be the goal for everyone, and we need to stop upholding it as the ideal way of handling trauma, abuse, or mistreatment. for many people, forgiveness is the go-to. they forgive and forgive and forgive and let people walk over them because they forgive too much. there is power, for those people, to hate and hold grudges. that hate doesn’t have to be temporary and isn’t something everyone should try to move past. there’s power in hate. there’s self-respect in holding a grudge. there’s validation in it. it’s a way of saying “what happened to me was wrong.” never tear that away from someone who has struggled to see that.

for some, forgiveness is healing. for others, it’s dismissal and invalidation.

[y2kaestheticinstitute]

Yayoi Kusama, Dots Obsession – New Century (2000)

[magicalforestfairy]

Bondegården

[guccikisses]

[inlove-core]

i will be with you on all your good days, and on the bad ones too, bc i love all of you even when you cant love yourself

[heavensghost]