I am writing in regard to AMC's spectacular television phenomenon, The Walking Dead. I suppose this could be construed as fan mail of sorts, one of countless you'll probably sift through today. I doubt it will stand out among the lot, but I feel an overwhelming urge to express myself in the vain hope that it will be read by someone—that someone will see where I'm coming from and understand my gratitude and my hopes.
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How many letters do you get espousing their love for Daryl Dixon? Dozens, hundreds—thousands, probably. I can't blame them, since I'm doing much the same. You've accidentally stumbled into one of the character gems of a generation; among an already-excellent cast of compelling and powerful actors—Andrew Lincoln, Chandler Riggs, Danai Gurira, to name just a few—Norman Reedus' Daryl catches the eye and the viewer's unexpected affections. So much is made of him in articles as the redneck with a heart of gold, etc. But he's so much more complicated than that; he's so subtly built that it'd be hard to pin Daryl down to just one characteristic when he's defined by much more—which leads me to my intent in writing this letter to you.
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I love, more than I can probably articulate, that Daryl Dixon could very easily be or is intended to be gay.
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I am a queer woman watching this show weekly—on the edge of my seat at every cliffhanger, dying a little over the entire summer until it comes back to herald the fall—and in Daryl I see a towering powerhouse of a queer character who has the ability to change the way LGBT individuals are perceived and represented in media. Not a lot of characters are given this ability—though bisexual invisibility means that there's an assumption of straightness made anytime someone is shown to be romantically interested in someone of the opposite gender, Daryl is unique in that he has never been derailed from this with a female love interest, never even mentioned one in his past, never had one propped in front of him or made any indication of a sexual interest in women. This has allowed his character to bloom independently, to be about his own awakening and acceptance of himself with the love and respect of Rick and the other people around him. A huge part of Daryl's progression as a character has been this acceptance of self, and I'm not alone in thinking that includes an acceptance of his homosexuality. A queer reading of Daryl Dixon's character is one that blows my mind with its obviousness and its simple effectiveness. It makes sense to me and to many other fans, especially queer fans, who, before the wonderful addition of Tara Chambler this season, viewed Daryl Dixon as our representative on the show and still do. Simply, clearly, wholeheartedly—why not?
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Daryl accepting this part of himself with the audience's awareness—something many fans already have but many more are oblivious to, as they're approaching it from a default assumption of straightness—would be nothing less than monumental for queer representation in television. Daryl defies every paraded stereotype of a gay man. A fifth-or-sixth season reveal of his sexuality would mean that every viewer who has been with Daryl since the beginning will have seen him as a person first, by his sexuality second, as so few queer characters in television are ever allowed to be. The importance this has to viewers around the world cannot be overstated. I've cried at this show before—I've cried many times—but never would it have been because I was seeing right before my eyes the simple and moving destruction of every stereotype of my people that media so commonly perpetuates and derides.
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This isn't about Daryl Dixon being in a relationship by any means- I love his discovering this much and growing this much independently, through the love and care of Rick and the rest of his chosen family. This is about Daryl Dixon as a character—as a wonderful, three-dimensional, and heartbreakingly human character—and carrying through on that to make him more real than I ever dreamed I would get to see on my television.
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Even if this story is never told—if Daryl is left ambiguous and distant, if Daryl's potential remains blessedly unhindered by romantic entanglements with female characters—I want to say an overwhelming thank you for giving the queer community and fans everywhere a character that they could see themselves in, a real person and a real gay man who defies expectations in more ways than one. Daryl Dixon is a phenomenal character, and I'm elated that I can read him as a queer character. I pray that you will use this power wisely and in such a way that viewers are challenged to let go of their prejudices and preconceptions, as you have before.
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And while this is The Walking Dead so undoubtedly there is suffering ahead, I hope truly that this is one area in which you will continue to move hearts, minds, and hopes.