QPP Suggestions

♡ opened requests, pda, aesthetics, advice, suggestions, etc related to qprs ♡

[bettiez]

y’all might be living in 2018 with your “big dick energy” but im living in 3018 and i am filled to the brim with kawaii potato energy

[qppsuggestions]

tw// abuse ment. I know this is mostly a positive blog and I hate to be negative but I don't know where else to go to post this(?), but I recently just got out of an abusive relationship with a former qpp of mine and I've been really upset and hurt and he took one of my best friends away from me. I'm coming here just to ask for some help or support of any kind. tysm if i get a response to this.

im really sorry to hear this,, because this is vague i cant offer an in depth response but i really hope that you can find a healthy way to heal from this. if you need anyone my dms are always open! please be safe, dear!

[qppsuggestions]

I think I fucked up my relationship with my qpp... we used to kiss and stuff, but I was never quite sure what I was doing and that made me nervous, but today they told me that I didn’t really kiss them back and they felt under appreciated and now they don’t want to kiss anymore and they don’t want me to call them my partner. I don’t know what to do... I’ve messed this up so badly, I don’t know how to fix it, and my heart hurts just thinking about all this :/

talk to them! explain that you were just unsure of boundaries and what to do; communication is key !!!

[qppsuggestions]

I think my good friend just asked me to be her qpp?? We were talking about our plans to room together after I graduate university, and she was like "well us moving in together would basically make us a platonic couple!" and I was like ?? and !! and "haha yeah I'd be down with that" because I kinda would?? and she was like "it's basically the basis of our relationship" and I was like "LOL valid" and we moved on, but now she's gone and I'm kind of freaking out?? WHAT HAPPENED AND WHAT DO I DO NOW

this seems like maybe she’d want to be qpps! bring it up with her !!

[qppsuggestions]

my qpp is aaaaaaa so good yis, she's so amazing n funny n she makes me so happy n I just wanna hug her n cuddle her n pet her floof hair n make her feel loved she makes me so happyyyy aaaaaaa I love her so much she's so amazin ♡♡♡

!!!!

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I meet my qpp for the first time on Friday, and I am TERRIFIED of screwing it up. But I’m so excited at the same time. They’re one of my best friends and I love them so much.

everything will go wonderfully!

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my qpp is my best friend in the world, they’re my sun and my moon and my stars, and i can’t wait until the day i can meet them and hug them and kiss them and cuddle with them. they’re the light of my life and i’m so happy i met them (and this blog is what inspired me to ask them for a qpr in the first place)!!!

thats adorable omg..

[qppsuggestions]

Okay, this is a pretty open question, but... how do you even start searching for/navigating QPRs? Just... how? Very Confused Aro Person asking this...

tumblr is a good place!

[qppsuggestions]

Hey, I have a quick question and I was wondering if you could give some advice? I'm not exactly sure how to tell one of my friends that I want to be in a QPR with them, since I've never done it before. Do you have any ideas on how I can ask them?

bring up how they feel about qprs? :0

[qppsuggestions]

(2/2) but i know he might think of me weirdly, or it'll put pressure on him. I dont know what he'll think of it, or me. or how he'll handle it. im scared. im scared it'll make things awkward. btw, we have a sorta long distance relationship, we cant really see eachother in person until next year. i'd appreciate some advice. i really love your blog. thanks for running it. <3

you should absolutely talk to him about it! voice how you’re feeling, and work from there <3

[qppsuggestions]

(1/2) Hey, okay, so.. im in a QPR with an amazing person i met about half a year ago, and honestly, we got into our partnership fast. im aroace, and he's straight. Throughout the partnership, i've gotten a lot more comfortable with holding hands, kissing, stuff like that (but never anything sexual). and in the past month, i've been questioning if im in love with him. like romantic love. I know he probably doesnt feel the same way, Part of me wants to tell him, but

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[qppsuggestions]

I kinda lowkey feel like me and my qpp aren't any different from our relationships w/ friends in terms of commitment (and intimacy tbh) and idk how to tell her that I kinda want more.... Also we're in high school so thinking about long-term stuff is scary so idk what to do.

bring it up! its important to voice concerns regarding the relationship because it’s just as real as a romantic one! <3

[qppsuggestions]

my qpp is one of my best friend and i love them so much!! they’re currently dating someone, but i’m so grateful to be considered one of their qpps!! i would fight the sun for them

<3

[qppsuggestions]

my QPP is coming back from europe in a little over a month and I'm so excited. (I'm australian and she is to but went to europe for 2 years to study and it's been so long because we were only a thing for about 6 weeks before she went)

thats lovely!

[qppsuggestions]

hi okay so i love my qpp, shes super open-minded and i cant wait to cuddle her and hold her hand (we're in an ldr)

!!! ♡

[qppsuggestions]

I really regret asking my qpp to be my qpp three years ago. It complicated our friendship so much and I don't think there's a way to cancel out these past three years and go back to being best friends like we were before.

maybe ask for a break? or talk to them about it! communication is important, especially if there’s a problem in the relationship

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i have a friend whom i really want to ask about being in a qpr, but i’m really scared because they’re 4 years older than me and are also in a romantic relationship and i really don’t want to feel like i’m impeding on that!!

the only thing i can suggest is to keep in mind the age difference and ask them!!