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[queen-dong]

Hi

[queen-dong]

i hope that if future me sees this, that it’s better than it is now

[your-fave-has-ptsd]

yall ever have flashbacks for no reason other than It’s Night

[mentalhealth]

this is so important

[too-relatable-ouch]

[khaaji]

So children don't get traumatized because they get hurt.

Children get traumatized because they're alone with the hurt.

[wilting-willows-wallow]

Me: Trying to acknowledge the messed up things my parents did

Also me: Trying not to demonize my parents because they're humans and make mistakes as parents

But Also me: Am I just trying to excuse/minimize the stuff they did?

Finally Result= Internal Screaming

[r04ch4ch3]

I don't know the source of this, if you do tell me so I can credit. Just posting this bc it's relevant to my own experience.

[healingchildhoodtrauma]

[queen-dong]

haven’t posted on this account probably since early highschool but i’m in my 20’s and now i’m falling apart again and i don’t know if it’s going to get better this time

[nb-nightwing-deactivated2022111]

ok here's one

[you-big-palooka]

Super strong when he needs to be (?)

[nb-nightwing-deactivated2022111]

Excellent addition!

[galoots]

Add "adoptive dads"!

[nb-nightwing-deactivated2022111]

SO! TRUE!

[galoots]

WAIT

Has identical nephews with rhyming names!

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unlocking a conspiracy they're actually the same character

[nb-nightwing-deactivated2022111]

You all had the option to not make me wake up to this message 50 times in my activity

[nb-nightwing-deactivated2022111]

/lh, nm

[sword-and-nightingale]

Oh my god, Skinsona...that's so cursed.

[whitepeopletwitter]

[loveless-void]

[scenessystem]

~Just Complex Childhood Trauma Things~

Medical appointments are a trigger

Deep shame from your parents being ashamed

Hypersexuality

Startle reflex to the max

Random kinda happy things make you doubt it happened

Other adults knew something was wrong but ignored it

Matching Sibling Symptoms

Looking back as an adult like “Wow that’s fucked up”

Big inner life makes up for the old one

Hospitals instead of school

Chronic mystery pain

Child to Suicidal in record time

Addiction at a really young age

Hatting the thing ur addicted to because your parent was too

Yelling makes you freeze

Hating when you see yourself doing the thing ur parent did, even if it’s just being loud or using the same phrase

Feeling like you deserve

Feeling guilty for being such a fuck-up

Being “so mature” the whole time growing up

We’re the ‘weird kid’, ‘class clown’ and /or 'burnout’

Had inappropriate relationships online

Self-harm of some kind

All those mental illness labels

Nowhere feels safe

Not really feeling like a human person

Dissociating the day away

No identity 

Hiding the crying 

Why am I like this? (its the trauma)

Where did the years go?

Having imaginary friends 

Rich fantasy life

Body dysmorphia 

Hate school & hate home 

probably had a shitty first partner

[justgirlythings]

Well… since a thread blew up on twitter about me being a lesbian I thought I’d officially just reintroduce myself to those of you who don’t know. My name’s Becky. I created this blog when I was 13 with the help of a few girls. Honestly, it was a joke that kind of blew up. Somehow I brought joy to girls and boys all across the world (”justgirlythings” but literally any man or woman could laugh/relate to this blog) and that’s all I really could’ve asked for when creating this. The above picture is me and my fiancée Chelsi. 

I’d like to thank you all for coming along on this journey with me for the past decade. 

[justgirlythings]

Chelsi Stewart on TikTok

Everything changed when I met you🤍 #lgbt #lesbian #gay

Watch a cute TikTok my fiancée made of us 🥺

[bagelboys-withcreamcheese]

Songs To Listen To During This Time

Movement songs for BLM, feminism, LGBTQ+ community, as well as songs to hopefully put you in a good mood (sorry there are no links :/ )

•Nina Cried Power -Hozier

•Meet Me On The Battlefield -SVRCINA

•Lean On Me -Bill Withers

•Heal The World -Michael Jackson

•I Know Where I’ve Been -Hairspray (a good movie to watch)

•No Plan -Hozier

•Soldier -Fleurie

•Imagine -Pentatonix (Cover, I like theirs better than the original, but that’s just my opinion)

•Dynasty -MIIA

•Saturn -Sleeping At Last

•Sour Patch Kids -Bryce Vine

•Lemons -Brye

•Familia -Nicki Minaj, Anuel AA, Bantu

•That Bitch -Bea Miller

•Who You Are -Jessie J (Or the Anna Clendening cover)

•Girls/Girls/Boys -P!ATD

•Parents -Yungblud

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