men who are “afraid of” or “intimidated by” intelligent, competent women who speak their mind and who want a “weaker”, younger, inexperienced, vulnerable girlfriend are truly the most pathetic maggots. do you love her or do you love control? why do you want her to admire you rather than be someone you would admire, do you want a partner or a mirror for your narcissism? do you want a spouse or a maid who fucks you?
And they don't even feel the need to hide it. I've had men older than me by approximately 10 years say to me (when i was in my 20s and in my 30s) that they didn't date women their own age because they are too "difficult " or because they "are already ser in their ways and you can't teach them how you like things "...and they (the older guys) thought that i would be flattered by that, cause i was the younger, easier to manipulate version of those women.
And the truth is girls do get flattered by that type of reasoning without realizing that every girl, with time and experience, will become the difficult woman. Because the "difficult woman" is just the woman that already know the ways men manipulate and how little value they actually have in our lives. Ugh
