Queer Beans

She/Her. 20. Queer ace. Inclusionist.

[lgbtprideawards]

Hello all! Thank you all for your nominations over the past few weeks of Pride, now it’s time for you all to vote on your favorite bloggers! 

Since some categories did not get many nominations, we will still be accepting nominees for the best mlm blog, the best trans/nb blog, the best LGBT+ blog, and the cutest relationship categories. You may still do write-in nominations, and if a blogger is written in more than 5 times they will be added to the roster, but other than that nominations outside the previously mentioned categories are closed.

Click this link to cast your vote!

(nominated blogs tagged under the cut)

Keep reading

[queer-beans-and-ace-screams]

Note how they're all exclusionists. I submitted one for my two of my favorite wlw blogs who are both inclusionists and they aren't included.

[vaspider]

NerdyKeppie Pride 2019 Giveaway!

So, earlier today, I got a literal boxful of strawberry milk flavour. But cooler than that (and that was super cool and extremely delicious), the sender sent us funds to sponsor a giveaway for gift cards. :D 

We’ve decided to match their generosity, which makes for our biggest giveaway ever: 

Eight $20 NerdyKeppie.com gift cards!

The giveaway will run from midnight 6/6/19 until midnight 6/13/19. 

We’re running our giveaway through Rafflecopter. We’ll also consider each reblog of this post an entry - don’t spam your friends, please.

I can’t demand you follow me to be eligible, but it would be rad.

Multiple reblogs AND likes count, just don’t spam followers.

Please no giveaway blogs

Please no anti-feminists, racists, TERFs, exclusionists, anti-sjws, queerphobes, or other bigots. I will 100% pick someone else if I find these views on your blog.

Entries only count until June 13th, 2019 @ 11:59pm (EST)

I’ll be either emailing or sending a message/ask to the winners (depending on how you enter) and you’ll have 48h to answer, after which I’ll move on to the next person

Now the boring stuff: this giveaway is not associated with Twitter, Tumblr or Facebook in any way. 

[feminismandmedia]

I’m literally shaking because I’m so furious. 

The blog @/blockterfs has added feminismandmedia, the-queer-and-beloved, and several other blogs that have open trans, nonbinary, anti-transmed/truscum people on there blog to their terf block list. You can find that here. 

They are literally lumping us in with terfs. 

Why? Oh because we asked them politely to please not tag OUR post with something triggering to us, and if they had to have it tagged that way, to simply delete the reblog. You can find the situation in question here. 

They responded with being rude as well as blocking us, some of us avid followers, and I guess now adding us to a TERF block list. This blocklist is now not trustworthy in any sense, which is a shame because it was a good resource for trans & nonbinary people, including myself. 

Please do not use this blocklist anymore. Please do not support this user who would be so vindictive to put trans and nonbinary people in danger. 

This is not helping trans people. This is literally putting trans and nonbinary people in harms way, as well as othering them from their communities. 

Please share so others can be aware that it is no longer a trustworthy source.

Edit: I think regardless of your stance on us using queer or how it should be tagged, I think we can all agree that trans & nonbinary people being labeled as TERFs without them holding any transphobic beliefs is super gross.

Please do not harass. That’s not the intent. We just deserve to say our piece especially since they are actively harming us and trying to separate us from the community. People mass block without looking.

[feminismandmedia]

People have asked how they can help. 

1. Spread this information and if you see someone reblogging @/blockterfs, let them know of what happened. 

2. Help create a verifiable blocklist that isn’t run by a bigot. I certainly do not have the time or the spoons, but if someone wanted to manage that, they should. I know one has been created to block queerphobes. @blockqueerphobia but it would be awesome if someone could run something like this again. 

3. This one is super important. Reblog and post queer positivity. Queer people’s voices and identities matter. Support us. 

I have a queer positivity blog (run by all non-cis anti-transmed/truscum people) that also got added to the list. You can check out @the-queer-and-beloved

[feminismandmedia]

If you want a new terf blocklist, you can check out @terfblocklists which was created by a mutual! 

If you want to know another reason why it’s bad to add us to the terf block list despite us NOT being TERFs, it also opens TERFs up to following us and interacting with us. 

This is putting trans & nonbinary people in danger and there is no excuse for it. If you’re annoyed with my constant reblogs you can blacklist the tag “blockterfs” 

[genderqueerpositivity]

Some folks in this community clearly believe that the LGBT acronym ranks identites in order of importance and it shows.

[the-queer-and-beloved]

To all the people who tag queer

I know you may want to protect yourselves and your followers who may be triggered by it. That’s okay! Just as some of us have made the choice not to tag it, some of you have made the choice to tag it. That’s cool!

Just a few things: 

please please start tagging it as “queer” or “q word” instead of “q slur” so that we can reach some sort of compromise. Tagging it as q slur constantly is quite detrimental to our feelings. Other forms of tagging work just as well! 

please double check if the OP of the post is okay with you adding that tag. Some of us would rather you just not reblog at all. This is an issue of respecting boundaries and triggering US. I know that personally, I don’t like my stuff being tagged as “q slur” or “q word” but if you tag it as “queer” I’m totally fine, and it can still be blacklisted!

[the-asexual-activist]

Important

Block the following user, they’re an ace troll blog that’s only existed for 4 days and only started posting more frequently when the started getting attention on their first post. They’re lesbophobic so just a warning.

This is a very similar format to the known troll blog “asexualpower”, from the lesbophobia to the “agbtq+” thing that exclusionists had taken seriously before despite being an obvious troll (pic for comparison).

Whoever runs this blog is a lesbophobe and generally toxic troll. Block and ignore, don’t interact.

[bisexualgambit]

CONGRATULATIONS EVERYONE WE HAVE REACHED A UNLOCKED A NEW LEVEL OF DISCOURSE WITH THE ACE COMMUNITY IM PROUD OF EACH AND EVERY ONE OF YOU LMFAO.

[not-your-fae]

We’re not human. We’re actually aliens/mermaids/fae/gods!

[wetwareproblem]

SGA Discourse level: Past “recycled biphobia and transphobia,” straight into “literally repeating homophobia verbatim.”

[livebloggingmydescentintomadness]

[lesbosprincess-deactivated20190]

unless yall wanna provide actual sources of fagrage doing the shit yall say they did then do not expect to be believed

[ungracefulace]

Well for starters they are still blatantly lying about me purposefully misgendering them and ignoring it even though I have already apologized and fixed the post AND THEYVE SEEN IT

[lesbosprincess-deactivated20190]

> be me

> watch ur friend get harassed

> make a post asking for sources regarding why they were being harassed

> gets a reblog

> reblog does not contain any sources

[ungracefulace]

Yall are mutuals… you can see what they post. But if you insist!

They have been reblogging this multiple times today for no reason accept for maybe to frame inclusionists (specifically me) in a terrible light. But this was earlier today.

As you can see here I’ve already apologized and corrected it! I did this yesterday like an hour after I fucked up, and I would have done it earlier but I was busy trying to leave work so I was preoccupied. Something you would think tumblr user fag “I cant spend all my time online I have work and a life” rage would understand.

But wait! You might be thinking “oh well where does that PROVE they saw it, smartass”. Allow me to direct you to them interacting with the second ask they sent me demanding an apology I already gave and implying im ignoring them because I was busy and couldnt answer immediately (like, deadass they sent this and made like 2-3 posts about inclusionists not owning up to mistakes, purposefully misgendering and accepting misgendering like 10 minutes after they sent the first ask)

This all happened yesterday, which you can check by looking at the posts linked. But still they are trying to demonize me, a trans person, for making a mistake that I corrected and apologized for. A mistake that wasnt malicious in any way, but yall are still accusing me of dogpiling and harassing them even though I as one person by definition can not dogpile, and I havent even interacted with them directly past asks they sent me! They have me blocked and I dont block evade so i’m not gonna be interacting with them anytime soon. But they are a liar, and they should own up to it instead of ignoring it, which ironically is what they’re accusing me of doing. Funny how that works huh?

[queer-beans-and-ace-screams]

They're still saying that ungracefulace didn't apologize. As someone who is constantly misgendered, this is frustrating because they DID apologise and didn't do it intentionally. They owned up to it and handled it like they should have.

And now fagrage is lying about it and seriously? That makes all of us who get misgendered look bad.

[animefacialrecognitionsoftware01]

lookit what was just sent to me c:

@anna-discourse @bricksotherblog @lesbie-vague

[animefacialrecognitionsoftware01]

Exclusies collect ur trash for once

[animefacialrecognitionsoftware01]

aphobickaito, inevitably: “uhm im LITCHERALLY a CSI victim ok i can say this checkmate asexies”

Just u wait its coming

[actualdisasterbi]

There’s literally not a single valid defense for ANYONE sending anyone else the kind of shit that aphobickaito sent to you, @animefacialrecognitionsoftware

I couldn’t give fewer fucks about what they’re gone through (which sounds harsh, I’m aware) - That’s not a good excuse to turn around and be a raging toilet seat towards another person, complete with death threats, ableism, and graphic talk of both death and rape.

The fact that there’s only 45 notes on this post, and - I haven’t checked yet - but I’m assuming 0 of those 45 are exclusionists calling this disgusting ass behavior out speaks volumes.

[actualdisasterbi]

Never forget that the same exclusionists currently pissed at the state of the ‘Ace Discourse’ tag, claiming that the whole Cake VS Dragon debate is immature, are the same exclusionists who very likely indulged in the “PISS YOUR PANTS LMAO” or “GO OUTSIDE” trend of 2018.

Don’t let them carry that shit into 2019, y’all.  

Keep fighting the good, harmless fight, aces/aros.

[yourfavisalesbian]

Cora Hale from Teen Wolf is a moon lesbian! (requested by anonymous, moon lesbian flag designed by @moonbian )

[moonbianreceipts]

actually @lgbtpnflags made the moon lesbian flag plz credit her in the future k thx bye!! 

[aromoji]

No they didn’t.

[queer-beans-and-ace-screams]

Pretty sure lgbtpnflags even admitted they didn't

[nyanbinary-ferris]

aces: h-

exclusionists: actually you stole the letter h from homosexuals further proving your inability to be creative and reinforcing your homophobia as you continue to steal from us gays. in this essay i will-

[ace-and-aro-wlw-positivity]

Cake/Dragon Discourse!

Alright alright, so I wholeheartedly believe that dragons are aspec culture as a whole, meaning they aren’t just for aces, but are for aros too. 

I’m also not totally sold on cake being the true ace symbol, so I propose two options here since dragons are totally for all aspecs.

Cake 🍰

or

Ace playing cards ♠️♥️♣️♦️

[applearo]

I wholeheartedly support this alternative!

[frogspit02]

just so exclusionists and non transfeminine people reblogging my post know, rbing posts about intracommunity transmisogyny doesnt automatically make you woke and you are still expected to do more to understand the struggles trans women within the community face as compared to you. also exclusionist ideology is founded on terf ideology so stop using my post to make yourself seem safe to trans women because you really are not @ exclusionists

[yiffscourse]

anyways exclusionists and terfs arent comparable and ur being a tool by trying to conflate the two. fuck off and perish and go apologize to all of the exclusionist trans women you’ve insulted.

[ungracefulace]

Imagine being so deep in discourse you’re gonna tell a trans girl to fuck off because they are saying has LITERALLY been proven multiple times because it insults exclusionist trans women when you arent a trans woman and are literally insulting them for talking about struggles they face within the community.

Theres been posts by terfs saying that ace exclusion is a gateway to trans exclusion, with other terfs who started out as just ace exclusionists agreeing. Theres been multiple ace exclusionists who have turned into terfs (even ones who were trans, like bigmeangatekeeper) and theres an ongoing list of hundreds of exclusionist terfs.

Like… you are LITERALLY proving her point here. Loving trans women you agree with doesnt mean you care about trans women :/ just because exclusionist doesnt mean terf doesnt mean that theres no correlation between the ideology, and transfemine people noticing this doesnt make them a tool.

[aroacemonster]

terfs in the discourse tag

We have terfs who admit that ace discourse was their first step towards radfem ideas. We’ve had multiple break downs of how terfs and radfems try to radialize other people by using ace/bi/pan/nb/queer/etc. discourse. We’ve had multiple break downs of how popular exclusionist arguments use the same faulty logic and arguments that radfems use.

Can exclusionists maybe finally admit that this is a problem and either drop the discourse entirely or try to come up with arguments that aren’t copied from radfems?

[korrasera]

This is really important to recognize, because exclusionists don’t often want to recognize this dirty little truth about their community.

[queer-beans-and-ace-screams]

🙃🙃🙃🙃

[v1l1fy]

soft-dere/care-dere is a transphobic kid who thinks stalking and murder is an “aesthetic” and is overall disgusting. She is in the witch community and is an obvious terf. She pretends to be a lesbian when she posts on her sideblog about being straight or at the least bisexual. She is disgusting and has no place in the witch community. With the way she said trans headcanons are just as unhealthy as real murderers (not shown but I’ll try to get a screenshot) to how she finds trans positive posts just to shit on them. She is disgusting and truely a bad name for the witch community.

@mr—moth @dreamyluigi-anti @anti-truscum @antitransmedicalism @terflies @terfsrgross @webber-course @travelers-banter @lee-anti @katocourse

[newleafcourse]

Vivziepop is a racist pedo nasty.

@webber-course @dreamyluigi-anti @anna-discourse

[leon-against-jerkwads]

Oh no…. and I loved her work too….. it’s so disappointing when people you looked up to end up being awful, but it inspires me to do more for the animation community.