Dead Blog By A Dead Kid

No longer using this blog but keeping it up anyways. I have stopped because of harassment. Stay strong and safe, friends.

[dapperalbinobudgie]

can someone punch richard spencer in the face again? 2017 started off strong with him getting walloped on the regular, but now i feel like we as a society are slacking in this particular area

[queerghostt]

Hey it’s me, just wanted to pop in and say i’m sorry for everything. I tried being a patient and helpful and generally good person while I was here and I know I made a lot of mistakes and maybe sometimes made things worse by talking about things that I shouldn't have. I was and have still been in a hard place in my life. 

I’m still here, still living and coping with everything going on around me. I hope you're all doing okay. I’m incredibly grateful for the people who helped me through the issues I talked about when I was here. You're beautiful and amazing people. Thank you for being patient and understanding with me.

[queerghostt]

Some people still are not aware and that’s okay! But i’m gonna stop checking in on this account, and keep it as an archive, because I do not want some people who were harassing me to have my URL anymore. Please shoot me a message so we can stay in contact if we are mutuals or you just want to follow my new blog! No discourse please, though if you need some help and want to talk privately i’ll always be up for that. I love u guys. Bye bye.

[queerghostt]

Hello everyone, just to keep updated, I got engaged tonight! Very cool stuff:) hope you're all doing well.

[queerghostt]

Hey friend. Don't know if you'll get this, but I don't know your other blog so I'm sending it here. I hope your somplace safe and that you're doing the best you can. You're often in my thoughts and I wish you the best.

Hello there, thank you so much. You're wonderful and i’’ glad you sent his. 8mm doing okay. Some bad things have happened but I am holding on.

I’m following you with my new blog, i’ll message you from it so you know who I am. And again thank you for thinking of me. Thank you for existing.

[lgbtkhaleesi]

Probably an unpopular opinion on the tumbles.com

But you don’t just get to make up any orientation you want out of thin air and call people bigots for not understanding or accepting it

The burden of proof lies on you. You have to validate that orientation by having other people experience the same things. You have to have it be a pattern and it has to be something believable and scientifically backed. (As much as it can be) All orientations are subjective to individual experiences, yes, but all of them should be able to be proven.

You can’t just claim whatever you want and expect people to take you on your word, that’s lunacy. “I can call whatever I want an orientation and be right” is the dumbest argument I have even seen.

[mukhannath]

ive got gender on the mind because im talking with some transphobes right now in my university’s facebook page who are saying stuff like nonbinary people dont exist and a bunch of well meaning cis are trying to argue against it with scientific “evidence” for nonbinary people which makes me very uncomfortable; im not looking for my identity to be validated by science because its purely sociological, but this doesnt make it any less real. never mind the fact that this is basically the source of transmedicalism and truscum talk. 

i bring this up because similarly, i shouldnt have to back up my orientation with science. i feel like, the idea that orientation has to be psychologically quantified is something that indirectly led to the pathologization of non-straight people. so in the same way as gender, people absolutely can “call whatever I want an orientation and be right” because they are not biological concepts, they are personal concepts. 

also, i dont think that orientations have to be common in order to be accepted. sexual orientation is something that is inherent to people, but the subdivisions between them are socially constructed and really, everything exists on a spectrum. so if someone finds that their orientation is different enough from all the existing terms and would like to identify as a new term then go ahead.

also i really hate the “burden of proof lies on you” thing because as we speak some cis is saying the exact same thing to me and i’m like jfc i have no energy or time to make every transphobe understand my gender its their responsibility to educate themselves about it and be less shitty. similar, people should not be shitty towards sexualities they havent heard of before. 

basically, in response to your post, i say No thanks 

[lgbtkhaleesi]

I mean.. okay? You can say No Thanks and so people can then say No Thanks to your orientation lol??

I know you’ll take this the wrong way but what the hell. You can hate truscum all you wish but they kind of have a point in that regard? Being transgender is about the transition. It’s going from one gender to another. Dysphoria should be a way for it to be measured. That doesn’t mean being non-binary is fake or not LGBT because it is, it just means they are perhaps two separate categories that should be treated separately so that trans individuals can get the treatments to transition that they need. Instead of being denied as my BF was because doctors now think it’s “trendy” to be trans. That’s a whole other argument tho, so I digressed.

The pathology of non-straight people was because of homophobia. It was to fix them, not to study and understand their experiences. That’s not what I’m talking about.

But we need words that mean something. We need to be able to communicate experiences to others in ways they’ll understand, with concepts they’ll understand. I can’t just tell a straight person I’m ceptasexual and expect them to understand that is what I call my very personal experience of feeling sexual desire. They’ll use that to discredit me and my experiences because they are so individual. But if you have people and a community that is supporting it and saying, “Yes, we all feel this!” then it’s harder to ignore and gets society to make laws to protect and equalize it.

And what world do you live in where you can just get people to take you at your word? This whole thing is about having ammo against people that would say you don’t exist. People are not going to educate themselves about it, people are assholes. The burden of proof lies with you to have something so solid scientifically to be undeniable, or enough people to cause an uproar.

[mukhannath]

[aphobe-nonsense]

look at this cis girl trying to tell people what being transgender is about. 😁

also it is not my responsibility to make other people believe my orientation exists. if someone is an asshole about it, that’s their fault, not mine. i should not have to ‘prove’ anything to anyone. 

[lgbtkhaleesi]

sigh copy and paste again and again jesus

I’m not a truscum, I’m dating a transman (who is a self-identified truscum because of this lol) that’s been denied T for 2 fucking years and gatekept by straight idiots and I’ve been at his side for every step including injecting him with T every week so 1) fuck you. 2) Part of the reason he was gatekept is because of doctors thinking it’s a “fad” to be trans or NB, which fuck those doctors, but also like if NB and trans were separate it might be easier for trans people to get meds, just saying. NB isn’t about the transition, to my understanding. So access to medical supplies isn’t a concern. If I’m wrong, correct me. This is how I understand it.

[aphobe-nonsense]

oh, so you aren’t truscum but you agree with them and are dating one. of course. i mean i’m sorry to hear that your boyfriend had that experience but that has literally nothing to do with nonbinary people. like i said earlier, it should not be my responsibility to make cis people take me seriously. because lbr transphobes are gonna be transphobes regardless of what we do to try and appease them. 

also idgaf who you’re dating, you don’t get a say in what being transgender or nonbinary is about. sit down. 

[lesbian-janai]

I can’t believe she used “I’m dating someone who identifies as truscum” as proof that she’s not truscum…. @ op, if people think you’re truscum, maybe you should look at what you said instead of spouting “I’m not truscum” b/c people aren’t accusing you for no reason. the number one rule in being a cis ally is to listen to trans and nonbinary people, and you’re not doing that. you shouldn’t even have a say in what trans and nonbinary people experience b/c you’re cis so can you please just stay in your lane?

[certifiedacehet]

What the fucking fuck the fuck is this mess @aphobes If any of y'all side with or reblog from the op I see you. I see you from here and I know you hate my trans nonbinary special snowflake tucute ass. I fucking see you.

The election, and now this shit…

[patronsaint-of]

We poppin the biggest bottles when Makorra happens tonight

[queerghostt]

Also! I’m doing okay so no need to worry <3 I sign into this like once a week but probably will be much less as times goes on.

[queerghostt]

I literally logged into this account just to look for more blogs to follow because my dash on my new account is so deaddddddd. message me with non discourse blogs to follow (frommy other account)? all positivity blogs are ok! And I hope you’re all doing ok!

[acid-jazz]

Hi everyone, my beautiful followers. Unfortunately, my little baby chihuahua, Cole, was paralyzed out of the blue this morning. He is extreme pain. There is no hope for him to walk ever again unless he gets surgery. It’s $10,000. My family can’t afford it, and Cole would be in pain for the rest of his life.

Please, I beg you all to donate any amount of money you can to help Cole escape this pain and be able to walk, run, and live a beautiful life again. It could be $10, $5, $1. Anything. He means the world to me and I can’t fathom the thought of losing him.

I love you all so much. 💜 I will post pictures and updates soon.

[happy-pumpkin-season]

HAPPY HALLOWEEN EVERYBODY!!!

[trans-cishet]

tbh i don’t get why yall interact in a friendly way and reblog from aphobes. you wouldn’t be doing this if they were, let’s say, terfs or biphobes

we gotta start a no plataform and social ostracization policy, just like with the rest of REGs

Aphobes aren’t going to change, and they’re a threat to the community

[discourseful]

maybe because we’re a bunch of bi/trans people who don’t actually assault/kill ace people irl lmao? TERFs especially ACTIVELY call for the elimination of trans women/literally fucking attack people. y'all are fucking garbage for continuing to compare a group of mostly bi/trans/nb people (which fucking includes a lot of ace people, too) to TERFs.

[trans-cishet]

i’ll stop comparing you to terfs when you stop being like fucking terfs lmao

[anarcho-dragonitism]

U can talk all you want about how our “aphobic” rhetoric sounds vaguely like TERFS but it’s your side of things that actually has a suspicious amount of TERFS

[trans-cishet]

You know damn well both sides have terfs and that both sides hate terfs and we call them out, but okay, whatever

[anarcho-dragonitism]

Yeah both sides have terfs and hate terfs but with mogai tumblr the hate of terfs is mainly performative and is essentially only utilized to compare us to them, whereas we actually make callout posts and discourage any interaction with them. You guys hate terfs because it allows you to make an argument, and then you don’t actually do anything when they’re in your spaces, so increasingly terfs are popping up on the side of inclusivity politics and in favor of cisgender heteromantic aces/heterosexual aros and decreasingly are terfs pro-lgbt. But w/e. Let’s just ignore the clear division in politics and say that because we both hate terfs on principle, you guys aren’t worse about them and that somehow you get to compare trans ppl to terfs bc of that

[trans-cishet]

So you, a cis man, are telling me, a trans girl, that my hate for terfs is performative Ok Also we do call them out lmfap

[ihateyoufightme]

i’d really like to see links to pro-inclusion TERF blogs

i know of uninucleus, they’ve been shunned for basically forever over here, but i genuinely haven’t seen any other TERF blogs on the pro-inclusion side. granted, one doesn’t always know immediately, and what i have or haven’t personally experienced doesn’t equal what actually goes on, so let’s see what we can do to substantiate these claims

we’ve circulated posts with links to dozens of anti-inclusion TERFs, so if there are even more pro-inclusion TERFs than that, it should be ridiculously easy to put together such a post for anyone on the anti-inclusion side

so do it

actually back up what ur saying. actually provide receipts, like we have. :3

[not-your-fae]

“Name a more iconic ace-posi terf” than uni-nucleus “… I’ll wait”

[wetwareproblem]

Here’s a TWERF block list with literally hundreds of entries run by an evil pro-inclusion MOGAI radikweer. (No, it isn’t me. Yes, I know the person behind it. No, I’m not going to name her.)

Meanwhile, when I look at the notes on that list of 131 anti-inclusion TWERFs… if it’s been circulated as a block and no-platform list on the anti-inclusion side, I can’t tell. (There’s a fair number of people reblogging to add themselves, or to crow over being on it, buuuuut.)

And the only explicitly pro-inclusion TWERF I have ever seen anyone mention is u/nin/ucle/us.

Remind me whose anti-TWERF rhetoric is performative again?

[queerghostt]

Hey everybody after the queue runs out, this blog will be dead. Feel free to ask me for the new one off anon.

[queerghostt]

And if I've given it to you, please do not share the new url

[queerghostt]

For the record

I am no longer using this blog because I feel unsafe. I'm not going to use the new one for talking about community stuff, it's just gonna be a personal blog w my interests. I don't know how much I'm actually even going to use it. I'm not gonna follow some of you back if you post discourse stuff, because it's legitimately upsetting and triggering at this point. Idk, I'm tired and I'm done, and I'm sorry.

[queerghostt]

Hey everybody after the queue runs out, this blog will be dead. Feel free to ask me for the new one off anon.

[yasmineyen]

❤️

[safemlm-blog]

hello!! I’m a new mlm positivity blog just getting set up ♥♥ it would mean a lot if you reblogged this so i can get started!!