no room at the inn

carolyn. 22. "mafia boss of the porn industry" this blog is not safe for work. i post about whatever i want to, whenever i want to. it is not a spoiler free zone. personal things thrown in now and then. i will not censor myself for you. this is my escape blog. there is a buttload of hockey on this blog now and I apologize but I can't stop won't stop. blacklist haaackey if you want it to go away.

[truthofherdreams]

#HE TRIED

[quititcarolyn]

me: *impulsively tells someone a fucked up thing about myself*

them: that doesn't sound healthy

me: yeah lol

me: *thinks about what i told them for 5 hours*

me: why the fuck

[jonahsimms]

hs yearbook award:  most dramatic  → captain holt (brooklyn nine-nine)

↳ requested by anonymous

[dailysnowbarry]

Daddy Cavanagh (｡◕‿◕｡)

[omgthatdress]

Putting these up for anyone who needs them today.

Toxic Parents: Overcoming Their Hurtful Legacy and Reclaiming Your Life by Susan Forward

Why Does he DO That: Inside The Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft

[superopinionated]

Cannot recommend WDHDT highly enough. I’ve found it helpful not just for romantic relationships, but also for growing up w a “unexplainable/uncontrollable” dad.

IT HAS ALSO BEEN REALLY HELPFUL FOR UNDERSTANDING ONLINE MOB HARASSMENT.

So if you’ve ever been bombarded w threats to be raped/killed, (so…if you’re a minority and you’ve been on the Internet for a while), this book might be useful for getting clarity around the whole entitled, abusive mindset that drives certain kinds of people to behave that way. And by “getting clarity”, I mean (for me) being able to go “oh, that’s what’s happening” and not really feel scared anymore. Or angry, or drawn out into it, or anything.

And if you’re still standing around going “but how does something like GamerGate happen?” or “but why do men hit their wives?” or whatever – please read that book and learn something.

[omgthatdress]

^^^^ truth WDHDT is fantastic at cutting down MRA bullshit and calling it what it really is

[kithnkin]

Also recommending

[swampseer]

Please consider reading these. WDHDT is really, really helpful. And I know some of you are struggling with abusive relationships, friendships, families, etc. You’re not alone. There is help.

[heysawbones]

Yo. This family holiday, please, please take care of yourself. You aren’t there to be anybody else’s cushion.

[robotsandfrippary]

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents

Reading any of these books does not mean you don’t love your parents or family.  It’s just self care for helping you cope and not repeat the behaviors. 

[anna-mator]

A gentle reminder that I have Toxic Parents as a FREE PDF if you would like to download it and read it on your own. Take care of yourselves.

[yolowoho]

congrats to Amanda Kessel’s brother, I’m sure she’s proud of him!

[kuznetsovs-deactivated20250130]

you know what the pens deserve to be the ones to be forced to visit the trump white house anyway

[desroubins]

Please take a moment to enjoy Jason Mantzoukas’s perfect grossed-out reaction to the kisses in The Lake House.

[hockeydilf]

“chris kunitz from undrafted to the only active player with 4 stanley cup wins”

[harryisntstraight]

i just wanna say for any of u that arent british the sun literally has zero credibility in the uk. like everybody knows it as a sleazy tabloid thats racist, sexist and full of shit. it has a section dedicated to pictures of topless women and one of it’s columnists is katie hopkins, literally the most hated woman in Britain. like its widely read and popular but it’s reputation is probably the lowest of the low

[highbleaching]

Okay but when you said the sun I thought you meant the actual literal sun and I was so confused

[archivemol]

we don’t have the real sun in the uk as a punishment for our sins

[merry-go-round-jailhouse]

[petty-davis-eyes-deactivated202]

I’m the husband

[pardonmewhileipanic]

im SCREAMING

[princesshamlet-deactivated20210]

i never realised that The Babadook was accidentally put in the LGBT+ movies section of Netflix i thought we all just collectively decided the babadook was gay for no reason at all

[thornescratch]

Braden Holtby at the 2017 #CapitalPrideDC Parade.

[quititcarolyn]

how people think bilinguals speak: bonjour comment ça va- oh my! :) was that français? silly me, im sorry, hon hon hon, oh! did i do it again? mon dieu, it's hard to switch sometimes, my brain doesn't realize, je suis désolée-

how we actually speak: no but you know that one thing, the uh, you put stuff in it?? no, nOT A DRAWER. it's... it's small!! and round!! oh my god, shit, fuck, u hh h... it's grey and metallic and uhhh.. fuck... it goes tin tin tin when you tap it with a fo- TIN CaN!! IT'S A TIN CAN!!

[animalmusicthemes]

Visit Original Link

[politeandnotgay]

Keiynan Lonsdale by Storm Santos for Vulkan Magazine

[blvckfemmemagick]

❤️😭

[quititcarolyn]

I love him!!!!

[quititcarolyn]

Cute.