[carolsturka]

i'm sure polyamory and throuples are all very fun irl but can you please stop it in fiction. please. bring back cheating and threesomes where no one can look at each other the next day

[shonayee]

Men masturbate to shit that would be considered an actual fucking crime in literally any other context outside of porn and then act like that has no influence whatsoever on how they view and interact with women.

[strawberrydairy]

"This post is suspiciously TERFy"

"OP is a TERF"

"TERFs aren't welcome on MY blog!"

[varazhi-deactivated20250417]

i think people need to read more about cosmetic surgery and look at gruesome pictures because sooooooo many of you are convinced that surgery is capable of easily and seamlessly altering the body like it's the sims 2 character creator

[capricorn-season]

[radcaulfield]

i forgot about this blog but i am still very much so radfem <3 i really want to make more radfem friends who i can discuss with as well as just…be normal friends with lol. if anyone likes iwtv, life is strange, or just wants to chat hit me up on here and i’ll give you my discord :333

[inqilabi]

I personally I think that women should get time off starting from pregnancy to 3 years without any detriment to their career. I think that the government should actually fully cover/provide 100% of the woman's income as a replacement during that time.

Or could be pregnancy to 2 years. But there should be publicly funded daycare.

This is something that a communist society would have

[paperlunamoth]

I'm sure this has been said a million times already, but I just cannot get over people using the words "mommy" and "daddy" in an erotic context. It is just so viscerally and blatantly wrong and vile that it genuinely defies comprehension. These are the words that young children use to refer to their parents. They're what you (probably) called your parents as a kid, and if you're a parent they're (probably) the words your kids(s) use to refer to you. How can anyone use these words to mean "hot sexy fuckable older person who I want to dominate me sexually" without spontaneously combusting from the sheer intensity of their disgust?

What's the difference between this and calling an attractive younger person/sub "tiger" or "buddy" or "princess" or "sweetie pie" or "champ" or "cutie patootie"? I mean, that'd be the same thing, just in the opposite direction, right? Like how is it not immediately apparent to people that taking parent/child language and sexualizing it is still normalizing the ideas of incest and pedophilia, even if the words are only being used to refer to unrelated adults?

It genuinely scares me that this is something that's just normal now. It is genuinely scary that there are teenage girls calling men "daddy" in a sexual way, and that the word for hot dominant older man and the word for father are now the same word. Like it's difficult for me to even articulate myself and elaborate on this, because it's like trying to articulate and elaborate on why sexualizing anorexia is wrong or something, it is just so obviously and deeply fucked that words shouldn't even need to be said on the subject, and yet, apparently, to my horror, they do.

[lynxling]

"BDSM Activism" might just be the dumbest, most unnecessary form of activism there is. Who is oppressing you in your own bedroom? Who's stopping you from watching your porn and reading/writing your fiction? In what society does sexual violence need defending and glorifying? In what society is it unacceptable?

[theconcealedweapon]

Gee, I wonder what the difference is.

[kiefbowl]

absolutely fascinating. what world are these people living in

[romysoph-deactivated20240121]

do i need to remind people that uterus and female breasts aren't just some stupid useless organs you can chop off if you don't want kids but actually play a significant role in women's health and well being beyond childbirth and nurture? or do we still live in a world full of misogyny

[harrypotterfuryroad]

the arguably most well known post on this site is a three sentence explainer on how statistical outliers can skew a conclusion but we still get people sincerely believing that rare developmental disorders constitute distinct sexes

[capricorn-season]

[problemsleuth]

a girl who is a noir detective man and a guy who is a femme fatale

[helenvaughans]

[dozydawn]

pool player jeanette lee. best kubrick stare in the game.

[sickofeverythingmale2]

There really is sm very narcissistic about thinking you, you only, can sus out one of the “good” ones or raise one of the “good” ones.

You really think your foremothers didn’t try? You really think finding one is a result of hard work and alertness? Women before you and women before that searched and searched, busted their backs trying to find one that wouldn’t hurt them. And they didn’t. But you think you can? Lmao. You’re not smarter or better than any other woman who tried. Give up, learn from your foremothers mistakes, get off your high horse.

Give Up On Men.

[radkindoffeminist]

I’ve heard of awful men having been raised in all kinds of environments: single children, with only brothers, with only sisters, a mix of siblings, parents still married, single parents/mothers, divorced parents with split custody, abusive, non-abusive. Literally the whole range.

There is no way to raise a man which guarantees that he will not internalised the male entitlement and abuse tactics and weaponised incompetence that so many men have. They learn that from the world around them, from picking it up from friends, from the relationship dynamic of their parents. And you can’t stop it just by being a good parent to them. There would be a lot less awful men in the world if the only thing which stopped them was a good parent.

As for finding one of the good ones: yeah, you can try to do that. But then he stops being one of the good ones if you become financially dependent on him to maintain your lifestyle (be that completely or even just a large income difference). He stops being one of the good ones once he knows you won’t leave. He stops being one of the good ones when you’ve got a child keeping you together. Women don’t just get with the bad ones -they become bad ones slowly over time and women just accept that because they’re too deep into the relationship at that point.