Yeah whatever you say

A stealthy radfem rogue ready to fight you whenever. This is a sideblog. Female, Finland, 20+

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

homosexual and same sex attraction are old ass term that don’t include modern nuance. modern nuance being that everyone is bisexual and exclusive same sex attraction is just a preference that doesn’t need its own name. oh and OBVIOUSLY sexual orientation is based off of appearance and gendered personality. that’s obvious.

it’s so funny how they say lesbians won’t date someone female who LOOKS male, no no that would just be fucking crazy and ridiculous. lesbians will date someone who actually IS male though, and get freaky with his dick and cock every night, as long as he wears a dress and goes by she/her. now THAT makes sense. we won't date someone who looks male because ew male, but we will date and sex with someone who is actually male, because yay male. like what?????

[finnishrogue]

so... according to trans activists, when you find women attractive, it's their femininity that attracts you. butch trans women don't count then. butch lesbians don't count then. straight or bisexual gender-non-conforming women don't count then. if you are attracted to any of them, what does that make you? who the fuck knows, not these people.

why is it that 90% of trans activists just don't seem like they have ever once stepped out of the door in their whole lives. like they have never talked to more than two people outside of their own insular online communities, and one of those two was their own parent. smh

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

DIED? they died while getting me the right to marry? that’s funny because none of the gay and lesbian couples who petitioned their local courts and the gay couple in obergefell vs. hodges whose case was brought to the supreme court which ultimately resulted in gay marriage being codified into law died during that. it was a legal battle. those usually don’t result in death. it’s giving that drag race clip of the gay guy saying that people died at stonewall and everyone’s like umm no one died at stonewall….. it’s also giving jesus died on the cross for your sins

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

what’s ironic is that many “terfs” (by the various definitions people use for that word, meaning feminist, female homosexual, etc. ) actually likely fought for rights that trans people benefit from. many of the lesbians who fought for and petitioned in court for gay marriage were likely “terfs”, and homosexual trans people benefit from that right. ofc that doesn’t make trans people beholden to agree with our assertions or beliefs, but still. the historical revisionism is crazy

[toastyglow]

(some guy on the internet voice) it's so unrealistic and forced when women win fights against men in stories. of course, when a young boy defeats a huge man I'm cheering and screaming because it is so badass, and when a frail old man defeats a cocky young warrior I feel nothing but satisfaction. I love these power fantasies about easily dispatching people who underestimate you, a thing I desire despite the fact that I will likely never have the skill to achieve it in real life, but I'm pretty sure women don't have that same desire, and even if they do, they shouldn't get to see it in media. because it's so unrealistic, you see. I mean I'm smart enough to know I can't take down a big man in a fight but the women, you know, they'll get ideas. I could probably do it if I trained hard enough, but the women??? for some reason I can't see it happening, and who can say why that is.

[toomuchlabor]

Men don't like tattoos and piercings on women because they had to be an adult to get them.

Men don't like body hair on women because that means they've been through puberty.

Men fetishize cheerleader and school girl uniforms in mainstream media because those are things worn by children.

80-90% of child sex offenders are men.

When ranking what age men view women as being "most attractive" the majority of men across all ages will select the youngest age available.

"One in 15 men questioned admitted they would have sexual contact with a child under the age of 14 if “no one found out”, while one in 25 said the same about children under 10."

"Men in Australia, UK and USA who report online sexual offending behaviours against children also report being 2 - 3 times more likely to seek sexual contact with children between the ages of 10 – 12 years old if they were certain no one would find out"

"nearly 1 in 10 men reported committing at least one type of sexual offending behaviour against children online at some point during their lifetime."

Millions of men ‘would sexually abuse children if secrecy was assured’

Millions of men would have sexual contact with a child if they were certain that no one would find out, research has suggested.

CHARTS: Guys Like Women In Their Early 20s Regardless Of How Old They Get

Men at every age are consistently most attracted to women in their early 20s.

[theangryman]

[anti-porn-unicorn]

Oh my god???!

[gnomebutch]

Is it a safe space to say that as a mentally disabled person when I'm around other mentally disabled people the men always make me extremely anxious, not because of their disability but they seem to be able to molest and sexualize any woman they please and then people are like "oh he just has a hard time with boundaries 🥺" and you're not even allowed to be mad about it but when I'm slightly hard to work with I'm a "r-worded bitch" like it feels like so many disabled men get to do whatever they want in terms of how they treat women

Also what's with the disabled men in my life and showing me porn as a kid and why did none of the women with the exact same disabilities do that

As long as you’re not intrinsically ableist it’s fine to be wary of men regardless of any marginalized status they have, most will weaponize it against you. In high school the special ed kids were infamous for assaulting their female classmates and avoiding any consequences due to claiming they don’t know any better despite the fact they clearly did, and even if they didn’t then it should have been the staffs responsibility to make sure they didn’t have opportunities to “accidentally” prey on girls if they were truly so helpless and couldn’t control groping others. As a child lots of self identified autistic men online happily exposed me and other children to porn, innocently trying to roleplay with us or encourage us to draw niche fetishes without us realizing the implications, or just straight up sending the graphic stuff under the guise of poor social skills if called out. In adulthood I’ve dealt with men intentionally pushing my boundaries and using whatever diagnose they have as a shield to deflect criticism, most suicide-baiting if I said I didn’t want to indulge them.

However disabled men are not anymore predatory than allistic or otherwise non-disabled men, and are in fact far more likely to be victims themselves. Obviously it’s fine to be cautious around them, but don’t let good social skills fool you, most of the prolific rapists are able to get away with it because they fit into societies norms and are charismatic. But if you’re disabled yourself then I do understand how it can be grating to be expected to find solidarity in those who have harassed you. Never feel guilty for exercising self preservation 🫡

[ddeck]

there's like a thousand ways for a shower to work and you wouldn't even imagine half of them until you have to take a shower at a new place

[lilacsupernova]

Stigma does not kill women in prostitution. Men do.

– Julie Bindel (2017) The Pimping of Prostitution: Abolishing the Sex Work Myth, p.51.

[bigspender]

if I ever say I hate men just remember it’s only bc men have hated me first, more prominently, cruelly, and violently than I’d ever dream of doing

[sleepdeprivedsurgeon]

the purpose of friends is to have people who unconditionally hate your shitty exes & relatives. like maybe YOU have a complex relationship with your father but i sure don't. i'm outside his house with a gun. he's not the unforgivable asshole who raised me he's just an unforgivable asshole

[herssian]

"there is no way you're not using chatgpt for at least a few things here and there no matter your stance on it" what the FUCK are you talking about

[allykatsart]

[shelookedlikestarlight]

jk rowling just posted an image of up a trans woman’s skirt,

when she was confronted about it, she didn’t apologise or take it down, instead she said,

“well, if he didn’t want me to take pictures, he shouldn’t be wearing a skirt and fishnets.”

if you still support jk, what are you doing?

[niiwa-angel]

This is the picture

This man knowingly wore that skirt, in a PUBLIC address to the people, knowing there would be cameras there, and then not only crossed his legs, but crossed his leg in a way that exposed his underwear.

He literally chose to do this. The fact that JKR posted is not the problem here. This man blatantly displaying his fetish is the problem

[scifi0lver]

Why do tra lie every fucking time?

[sichorean]

male flashes entire audience of women on purpose, woman takes a photo from her seat, another woman reposts it: woman is evil sexual offender, man is "innocent victim"

You always know what you're going to get with TRAs, so that's nice, it's just sad that they're always gargling the balls of sexually violent white men.

[dankmemeuniversity]

[iamoutofideas]

[awakefor48hours]

Every once in a while, I wish the friendship meter from the Sims was real so that way when people tell me "I used Chat-GPT" they can visually see just how much respect I just lost for them in that moment.

[berkelbites]

One time an acquaintance told me she entered Snape's star chart into chatgpt and I could physically feel that meter dropping three separate times over the course of her sentence

[stephexmachina]

it's really is like there's a torture machine for women and everybody knows about it and it's called the Women's Torture Machine and everyone's like "yesssss let's put women in the torture machine" so they teach little girls to embrace the torture machine and they force every woman they can inside & every so often there's someone who isn't a woman but shares enough characteristics w society's constructed definition of womanhood that they're are like "close enough into the torture machine you go" & anytime a woman goes "it's unforgivably evil that women have to live w the threat of the torture machine" people on tumblr dot com go "ummmm actually it's not just women that get put in the torture machine are you a terf"

[transagainstautogynephiles]

[finnishrogue]

the only reason you think women have nothing else to offer is because you pre-emptively decided that they only exist for sex. like that is entirely your own problem dude. but if you can't help but think like this then absolutely nothing prevents you from interacting with women ever again. you don't have to. nobody is forcing you. in fact, we are so so so much better off without you.

[wifegideonnav]

“bits to use in everyday conversations”

[fluoresensitives]

Legally, lesbians should be allowed to execute everyone with a dyke-breaking kink. With swords.

[highfemmemorticia]

Corrective rape isn't a kink!

[deadcarcassforsale]

Can you people fuck off and stop cluttering up the dyke breaking tag? If you truly believe it's something harmful you wouldn't even be calling it dyke breaking to begin with when it's purely a kink term

[mintykiwi]

you're about to get a dyke breaking your legs real soon

[scintillord]

Dyke breaking your skull when I take a screwdriver to a fetishist’s eye socket