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she took my kins in the divorce
Idk if I ever told you guys what's going on with me but I got severely concussed this summer and can barely use a computer for actual reading.
Inbox me for my Twitter handle if you wanna keep in contact since Tumblr might close or whatever (idk what's going on I can't read). I'm only funny on there though. No discourse. Anyway idk if my brain will ever be the same but I'm mostly fine!
Please reblog this even if you donât care
Theyâre trying to erase the existence of the rape victims of Japanese soldiers in World War II because they think the reminder of their crimes might make Japan a little bit cross
Duterte, the absolute coward, is more worried about women criticizing him than actually honoring the women this country needs to remember
Please donât let these women be silenced.
sure heâs well versed in leftist theory but does he do the dishes
this is such a succinct critique of male leftists who think of it as theory only & wonât even get off their ass to clear the table
@spock-and-uhuras-jam-band literally lmao
She Divorced Me Because I Left Dishes by the Sink
I remember my wife often saying how exhausting it was for her to have to tell me what to do all the time. Itâs why the sexiest thing a man can say to his partner is âI got this,â and then take care of whatever needs taken care of.
I always reasoned: âIf you just tell me what you want me to do, Iâll gladly do it.â
But she didnât want to be my mother. She wanted to be my partner, and she wanted me to apply all of my intelligence and learning capabilities to the logistics of managing our lives and household.
She wanted me to figure out all of the things that need done, and devise my own method of task management.
I wish I could remember what seemed so unreasonable to me about that at the time.
Itâs not just about equal division of labor. Itâs also about, âthis thing is important to her. If he ignores it, heâs saying that what she wants is irrelevant to him.â
And thatâs a guy saying, âIâm only spending time with you because itâs pleasant for me.â Heâs already decided whatâs âreallyâ important, and her input is not welcome.
If he wonât do the dishes and laundry, heâs looking for fun, not a partnership. And his âleftistâ ideals will be the sameâsomething he studies because itâs interesting to him; a form of activism that he thinks will bring him a better life. If he canât do household tasks that matter to a person he loves, he sure as hell canât support policies that help people whose struggles he doesnât even acknowledge are real.
ur gonna die anyway so get that fucking tattoo ur parents and friends hate and eat whatever u want
âYouâre gonna die anyway, so just set your house on fire and drink snake venom.â This is like the worst life philosophy and you can use it to justify anything.
ok like not to rain on ur parade but getting a tattoo and eating some fries are very different than setting ur house on fire and drinking venom like I see where ur coming from but we were only going like 25 mph u didnât need to accelerate it to 120 in a second lmao
âLife ends too quickly so donât waste it denying yourself the stuff you like just because youâre worried about what other people will think about how you lookâ
âYou want me to just fucking kill myself, op? Is that it?â
i need an xkit extension that straight-up prevents me from clicking on notes
okay but Jesus was (most likely definitely) asexual and also immortal????????????Â
what the fuck is wrong with you
Shout out to all my straight sisters Iâm so sorry đ
Jesus, leave his ass.
We learn fast to be very kind and attentive, tho.
My mom, who got her degree in Marriage and Family Counseling when she was 60, says studies show that women will sometimes sometimes leave a long term relationship to live on their own for a while before seeking a new relationship, but men will almost never leave a long term relationship without having a new relationship either in progress or just beginning. They donât want to give up the caretaker they have without another one on deck or in the wings.
This is so sad
This isnt cute or quirky. This means hes a fucking hopeless user
Please date a man who actually acts like an adult.
Ok I lived with my ex for 2 years and he literally wouldnât be able to get his own food if I wasnât at home, Iâd get home from work and heâd be angry at me for âmaking him starveâ
My current partner has lived on his own for 8 years and the absolute most I have to help him with is maybe sending him $20 so he can make a bill payment on time
It made me realise for 2-4 years I wasnât a girlfriend I was a fucking mother
Men who have been independent are capable of reverting if given the slightest excuse. When we married, my ex husband was 10 years older than me and had lived on his own for 8ish years. Yet (and I allowed this until I finally got fed up and took us to counseling) I did 80% of the cooking, because I was better at it. Same with the cleaning, shopping, social planning, etc.
After I left, in the first six months I got texts or calls asking me to please tell him:
The online banking password (dude, I left you, you should really change that)
Where I ordered his special-wecial organic underwear
Where the good cutting board was (my dad gave it to us at our wedding, genius, I took it with me along with the rest of the stuff from my family)
What brand butter we bought
What brand of local kielbasa we bought
Who his doctor was
What RMV office had the shortest lines
Where the old tax returns were (in the fucking box labeled tax returns)
The phone number for his best friend
I shit you not.
Then he had a heart attack (mild) and none of his family or friends were around to take him to the hospital. But instead of calling 911, he called me, who by then lived 45 minutes away. He lived 5 minutes from an EMS dispatch location. He called me, despite the fact that he didnât believe me 8 months prior when I was feeling suicidal and I had to call a cab to go alone to check myself into the hospital for a 72-hour hold. I told him to call 911, hung up on him when he whined about âmaking a fussâ, called 911, called his siblings and then texted them âyour brother is having a heart attack, I called 911 for him, come home,â and washed my hands of it.
Emotionally vacant men who wonât do household labor or emotional labor are not Nazis, but they arenât good people, either, and you donât have to put up with their shit.
Millennial women of Tumblr, please read this post.
And then please: make the decision for yourself to never stay with a man who expects you to be his mother and servant.
today in why do men have literally no empathy
god imagine thinking that male sexual violence is just a part of life but still believing the rest of that bullshit how stupid can you be
Imagine using your own relativeâs trauma to excuse rape
Imagine using your own relativeâs way of coping with their trauma as an excuse for her rape to not matter and subsequently confirm that no rapes matter
Imagine seeing your nan and instead of being sad that she was raped you just think that if she can be raped and âbe fineâ that it means every other female on the planet should be fine with rape, we should all âbe fineâ after;
Imagine using your own fucking family member as an excuse for rape
Someone doxx this guy to his family, let his mum and his nan set him straight.
the idea that anyone who approaches sex in an unconventional way (asexuals, kinky people) is LGBT is a direct product of the perception of gay sex as deviant and strange
That is CRIMINAL to send him back! That judge must be republican
Thereâs a lot going on here https://www.helpussavemikey.com/ has a lot of relevant local articles pertaining to the case.
The justice system is literally a piece of shit. Iâm sitting here at the airport balling my eyes out. Some people should not be parents and some People certainly donât deserve to be judges.
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this just in, if you think queer is a slur youâre an arrogant prejudiced little fascist terf who can fuck off with milo. Â also terfs & lesbian terfs falsified the entirety of lgbt history, queer was never a slur, the aids crisis probably never even happened did i mention the evil terf lesbians you should all hate?
FUCK OFF YOU HOMOPHOBIC ASSHOLES. WHO DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?!?
the 15-year-olds on this site need to read a book instead of getting all their history from other 15-year-olds who have also never read a book
these 3 are big names in the ouat femslash fandom and trust me they are not young. young lesbians listen to everything they say as a gospel.
milo is a lesbophobe. you anti-lesbian queers would fit in better with him and with all the homophobes at the alt-right neofascist community.
This is such bullshit.
âLook at those queers thereâ might mean one thing in Brooklynâbut I bet you it means something very different in the Bible Belt.
If itâs a threat in the Deep South, if itâs a term of abuse and aggression, if itâs designed to denigrate or threaten, then itâs a slur.
Reclaiming it while you live in a privileged bubble is your prerogative, but donât presume to tell the rest of the world what we can and canât find insulting or offensive.
Furthermore, I donât identify as queer because thereâs nothing about that term that encapsulates who I am. My hair is not dyed a weird colour. I am not pangender demisexual gray ace genderfluid out to fuck the status quo with my boifriend. I am a lesbianâa female homosexual. Thatâs all.
Queer doesnât define me, and I donât want it. These fuckers can take their sanctimony and stuff it.
âReclaiming it while you live in a privileged bubble is your prerogative, but donât presume to tell the rest of the world what we can and canât find insulting or offensive.â
I grew up in a traditionally working class town in North Wales where I still live and work to this day, and let me tell you; queer is most certainly a derogatory term to people around here.
Every Sunday i would go to my grandparentsâ house for dinner where my grandfather and uncles would use the word to talk about things from gay celebrities to pedophiles, because to them gays and child molesters were one and the same. Just think about the harm this would have done to me and my brother (who is also gay) growing up. We wouldnât have been the only working class gay kids to go through this, not by a long shot.Â
Iâve had conversations with one of my uncles where he stated quite clearly that he would physically attach any âqueerâ he caught near his kid. Obviously heâs changed his tune since me and my brother came out, but still.
Iâve talked to people who believe being gay is the result of âsome queer touching them as a kidâ.
I can very rarely get through a shift at work without overhearing a regular use the word âqueerâ to talk about gay people in the news and, you guessed it: pedophiles. Because my grandfather wasnât the only working class man brought up to think of âqueersâ as perverts, akin to pedophiles.Â
Although âfagâ and âfaggotâ are more common anti-gay slurs among younger people, âqueerâ is still the go-to slur for the older generations. Not that young homophobes still donât use the word âqueerâ to hurt gay kids or equate gays to pedophiles. Come to think of it, because fag and faggot are specifically anti-gay terms, whereas queer is traditionally equated to all sorts of âsexual deviancyâ, I have never heard the words fag or faggot being used to describe a pedophile, or to equate homosexuality with pedophilia, the way the word âqueerâ is used.Â
The Evening Statesman, Walla Walla, Washington, January 21, 1910
âSir, youâre a womanâ hisses detective;Â âSir, I am; what of it?â
âSir, youâre a womanâ
hello???
âIf you donât like raw aggression you shouldnât be working at build a bear.â Might be one of the most chaotic things Iâve ever had the misfortune of reading
We live in a weird culture where grown ass men will fantasize about 14-17 year old girls. Then wait until the exact day she turns 18 to voice how much theyâve BEEN wanting to smash her. It didnât just happen the day she turned 18. Youâve been fantasizing about her. Now you just feel itâs normal because sheâs âlegally an adultâ.
An LGBT facebook group posted about how Native Americans had 5 genders, and this was a good response, along with a a few people saying Native Americans werenât one group and the cultures vary.
Notice how these 3rd gender identities are almost always applied to homosexual men and women? Itâs because homosexuality is seen as disqualifying you from man or womanhood. Does that sound progressive? Is that really something we should admire?
Shows that the trans community is homophobic at itâs core.
and racist bc native languages are becoming extinct and these crackers know it so theyâre trying to redefine native concepts and words knowing that soon there wonât be anyone to challenge their revisionism
fuck anyone who says porn/bdsm culture isnt a huge problem- in the last few months, iâve been choked (hard enough to pop blood vessels in my face), slapped, and scratched hard enough that the marks didnât disappear for days. All of these things happened on first dates or the first time I went home with a person, and it was always without asking (obviously or i would have told them to fuck off). The closest thing to asking permission that I got was from one guy, who after slapping me across the face asked âwas that okay?âÂ
people argue that hardcore pornography and bdsm fetishes stay in the bedroom, that thereâs a difference between violence in porn and violence in reality, but thats bullshit. Men are so okay with (and turned on by) hitting women that they dont even think they have to ask
Basically men are awful and porn makes them 1000000% worse
This has happened to me too, back when I was dating/sleeping with men. Like the OP, it happened during the VERY FIRST encounters I had with these men, and it was treated as completely mainstream/normal. Like it was expected that all women love this and it literally didnât even occur to them to ask. My real-life experiences with how significantly porn has warped the behavior of young men is what first turned me against pornography, not some hypothetical or ideological issue I had with it. This shit is happening in our real lives every day.